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User Image lianashanti Posted: Jan 18, 2018 2:13 AM (UTC)

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Accountability versus Blame. A lot of the time these two things become intertwined.... but they are not the same at all. Accountability is holding ourselves accountable for our own actions, and holding others accountable for theirs. Blame is saying that someone else is responsible for your “problems”. Once we reach adulthood it’s important to own our choices, and their consequences. HOWEVER.... equally important is healing our childhood wounds, Mother Wound and Father Wound being the core wounds affecting all of humanity. This issue comes up a lot in the healing the Mother Wound course that I teach. Without healing the mother wound we can never live the fullest expression of who we ARE. The problem is that society often tells us to “leave the past in the past”. But science has proven that there is no “past”. Time is a human construct. Psychologically, as Carl Jung channeled into our awareness, the inner children are ALIVE and directing our lives through our shadow, until we recognize, validate, and heal those children. In order to do so we must hold our parents accountable for the wounds they caused. A taboo practice in most families. “How dare you blame your mother she did the best she could.” Is the common response. But, whether or not she “did the best she could”, is irrelevant. Wounds were created. Pain was caused. Distant mothers, clinging enmeshed mothers, angry mothers, timid and powerless mothers, narcissistic mothers, emotionally unavailable mothers, resentful mothers... the list goes on... the bottom line is that where wounds are created they must be acknowledged. That is not “blame”. Blame is pointless. Blame is saying “I can’t have a good relationship because you were a terrible role model”. Accountability is, “I’ve had to do a lot of healing work to love myself enough to know I deserve better than a husband who bullies me, which is what you showed me by example”. When a parent can OWN their choices and hold themselves accountable, true healing can happen. The inner children just want to be heard, acknowledged and respected. They are often sad, often angry. But with a parent who can be present enough with their own accountability, true healing resul
User Image truthleader Posted: Jan 18, 2018 2:12 AM (UTC)

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Wouldn't you hate waking up here? 😂😍
User Image rainstellabow Posted: Jan 18, 2018 2:13 AM (UTC)

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User Image makeuphairrd Posted: Jan 18, 2018 2:11 AM (UTC)

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Porque Dios está contigo! 🙏🙌❤️
User Image kaiyamilan Posted: Jan 13, 2018 8:32 PM (UTC)
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Can you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be?! 📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌

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