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User Image modernsplit Posted: Nov 21, 2017 4:21 PM (UTC)
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3 days until we kick off our Black Friday/Small Business Saturday/Cyber Monday extravaganza! Are you on the mailing list? This is our biggest blowout yet, we don’t want you to miss it. 🎉🎊🎁 LINK IN PROFILE 😘
User Image ldvsgallery Posted: Nov 21, 2017 4:17 PM (UTC)
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you could be here but you’re there, you could be anywhere. but these days i don’t even care.




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User Image replica_productions Posted: Nov 21, 2017 4:15 PM (UTC)
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Sometimes you just have to enjoy the things you had, and move on and look forward to what is coming in the future💕 #223 #6mm #1776 #breakups #airsoft #americaneagle #itried
User Image mrrogeresremix Posted: Nov 21, 2017 3:45 PM (UTC)
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#breakups #coedependency • Are you in a unhealthy relationship? Do you feel valued? Are you living in misery and agony? If so let it go baby. Let it go...let it go
Heyyy guysss
I know I haven’t posted an imagine in agesss, sorryyyy.
Buttt now I’m back with another one and I’ll try to post the next one Sooooonnnnnnnn so y’all don’t have to wait another 100 years for that.
The reason behind me not having posted imagines I’m so long is basically that I had no ideas of what to write other than this one and this one has taken me like 3 weeks to make, but yeah I hope ya like it.
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Please give me some feedback on it ❤️
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Settled ..... liking someone you get use to certain things easily because they are low key the things u want.... they know this Nd u ignore certain qualities they lack to have this feeling stay... after while u realize ... you #settled #love #lovepoems #poetry #prose #spokenword #heartbroken #lovesucks #writersofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #poem #poems #emotional #spokenword #spokewordartist #writer #writersofinstagram #relationshipgoals #relationships #couples #mood #goodnight #breakups #fallback #atlpoets #wordporn #spokenwordpoetry #rapper #instagood #happy
User Image unbiased_perspective Posted: Nov 21, 2017 3:30 PM (UTC)
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Don't give up on love just because it didnt workout this time. There are over a billion people in the world. Don't lose hope because of one person. Your soul mate is out there. Focus on your goals and project your desires into the universe. You will attract him/her to you.
#lawsofattraction #heartbroken #heartbreak #divorce #breakupssuck #breakups
User Image meganjbruneau Posted: Nov 21, 2017 3:13 PM (UTC)
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If you don't have a "perfect" family, this post is for you (um everyone 🤗): Unsurprisingly, the theme of my clients this week has been #anxiety around "going home [for holidays]" plus guilt and shame for feeling that way. The anxiety centers around feeling triggered, judged, criticized, guilted, hurt, angry, compared, excluded, etc; then we feel shame for our family's perceived dysfunction (i.e. "What person would ever want to marry into this? My flawed family makes me a less worthy human"); and guilt for have such thoughts (i.e. "I shouldn't think those things about my family. I should be more grateful."). We so complex, eh? 😏
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Being a therapist, I constantly receive the gift of "truth." I get away from what capitalism/media want us to believe (e.g. that you're the only person feeling trepidatious about going home, and you can just avoid discomfort and shame by being perfect or buying more things 🙄). I see clearly that every family has some level of dysfunction; that we all have people who trigger us or whom we're not pumped to introduce to a significant other. .
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NOW HERE'S THE IMPORTANT PART: we create additional suffering is by judging ourselves for this: judging ourselves for home being hard (creates shame), then judging ourselves for thinking home is hard (creates guilt). .
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So try this: instead of saying to yourself "Be positive!" and expecting this year "Everything will be great!" make space for discomfort. Acknowledge what you're truly looking forward to (pie? Sleeping?), yet at the same time honor your feelings around what you're NOT looking forward to. Remind yourself that most of us are feeling some internal conflict about various family members, triggers (food/alcohol/etc.), lost loved ones/exes, and such.
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Let yourself feel the anxiety without judgement – then use that information to anticipate potential triggering situations and ask yourself what you need to best cope with them: permission to feel uncomfortable? Solo-time? A Skype-date with your therapist or friend? Memes? Yoga? Seltzer? Meditation? A rehearsed response to "Still single?" or "Still no job?" or "Should you be eating that?" .
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An exit-plan? 😬
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Double-tap if ya feel me 👊🏻

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