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User Image nicoleugaz Posted: Dec 17, 2017 9:26 PM (UTC)

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User Image only_one_shaa Posted: Dec 17, 2017 9:26 PM (UTC)

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Ne t'apitoie pas sur ton sort, bouge toi. Fais en sorte que chacun de tes échecs deviennent chacune de tes victoire #bestrong #onelifeonechance #motivationalquotes #stayfocused #determination #womenpower #workhard
User Image scbws Posted: Dec 17, 2017 9:23 PM (UTC)

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منتصبَ القامةِ أمشي مرفوع الهامة أمشي

في كفي قصفة زيتونٍ وعلى كتفي نعشي

وانا امشي
قلبي قمرٌ أحمر قلبي بستان

فيه فيه العوسج فيه الريحان

شفتاي سماءٌ تمطر

نارًا حينًا حبًا أحيان.

User Image yearningtoheal Posted: Dec 17, 2017 9:17 PM (UTC)

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My ex always said I was “playing the victim role” - but he was playing the abusive role so it was inevitable. He did it to make me feel like I wasn’t entitled to my emotions. He didn’t see me as a person with emotions, values and boundaries that should be respected. He saw me as an object for his insecurities and anger. So when he was abusive and I got emotional, it was - oh you’re playing the victim because in his mind I deserved the anger he threw my way. So reacting with fright and worry and upset was just me acting like a victim. Being emotional was me not taking ‘responsibility’ for the anger I was ‘causing’ him to have. He would be physically violent, throttle me, pick me up by my throat and throw me around, slap me or push me about or smash things - after he would say “look what you made me do” or “you wanted this to happen”. What it really all came down to is his inability to take responsibility for his own actions and emotions and be accountable. He wanted to abuse me, not take responsibility for his shit, have me take responsibility for his shit and his emotions and also switch mine off and not express them at the same time. Which isn’t natural or right and no one should ever ask that of you!
#healing #recovery #mentalhealth #abuse #bestrong #fightforyourself #abusesurvivors #narcissisticabuse #trauma #codependency #liveandlearn #selflove #empowerment #motivation #strength #courage #roadtorecovery #healingfromabuse #spiritualawakening #enlightenment #higherbeing #journey #wakeup #power #peace #empath

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