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daliesss_utell Can someone pls explain to me how you can stop rape with LEGALIZING RAPE??!!!How the fuck do some people think this is ok. How the fuck do people not say any thing, but rather make fun of feminist. This asshole wants to legalize rape to "teach women a lesson" and make " woman learn how to protect their bodies" it's complete and outer bullshit that I have to read and listen about this and No one seems to care. Rape culture is alive and thriving, 1 out of six women will be raped In their life time and people find this ok and part of life!? It angers me down to the core that men and many women just sit back and let this shit happen and let ignorant people like that tool have a meeting to legalize rape! The fucker has followers! More ignorant males and some female that agree with this. Why are women treated as property and as they aren't living human beings just as males are. Men do NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO A WOMANS BODY!!!!! A WOMAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HER BODY YOU DONT OWN US MAN WE ARE NOT a possession and punching bag!!! Why are we subjected to this??! Being a MENINIST ISNT A THING!! MEN ARE NOT UNFAIRLY TREATED IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM!!!!! JUST BECAUSE YOU CANT GET A GIRL FOR YOURSELF DOES NOT MEAN TAKE HER BY FORCE. JUST CAUSE SHE IS DRESSED SOME TYPE OF WAY IT DOES NOT MAKE HER A SLUT, WHORE, EASY OR A TARGET FOR RAPE!!!!!! WE DO NOT ASK TO BE GROPED OR TOUCHED!!! WE DONT ASK FOR ANY OF THIS. Stop rape culture #rapeculture #rooshv #stoprape #rapedefense #feminism #feminist #stop #help 4d
  •   amritcx I literally cannot even begin to tell you how much I agree. #stopsexualizingfemales 4d
  •   xx_marissa_kk He's sick and needs help. This is a cry for help. He needs help ASAP no rocky. 3d
  •   smg_91 The worst part is he isn't new ! He has been saying things like this for years, including how to stop being accused of rape. Not how not to rape.... oh no... but how to control and demean girls who may not have consented... like what the actual fuck. My blood boils 3d

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dave_and_dheana What happens when a 6'3" 249 lb man gets an accidental finger in his eye (a pinky at that!)? The fight stops that's what happens!
Really......, honestly....., take a look! Now just imagine the difference when that finger is delivered not accidentally, but with SERIOUS intention!
#eyeforaneye #nomore #yesallwomen #heforshe #equality #stoprape #endsexualassault #endrapeculture #fuckrape #selfdefense #selfdefensetraining #rapedefense #consent #likeagirl
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fabugeek THIS IS INFO FOR AN EVENT CALLED " RAPE DAY " thanks to @beaucilla and @coszaya for informing me about this but it's disgusting to think that this is happening. ALSO IN OVER 43 FUCKING COUNTRIES??!! Be safe. Although I don't think it's happening in Indiana ( to my Indiana peoples ) but it's on Saturday, February 6th all over the world. Go check out @coszaya 's account for more info and where it's happening
#IMPORTANT #RAPEDAY #RAPEDEFENSE #THISISSICK
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dave_and_dheana Complaining about a problem is EASY. Actually DOING something to affect positive change requires EFFORT! It's true, the world is FULL of injustices and it's easy to get just mad and bitch. But bitching only makes problems stronger. It doesn't make anything better. Instead let's focus on what we APPRECIATE about life and what we can do to IMPROVE the things we see as problems. Keeping your mind focused SOLUTIONS not only adds power where it's needed but it makes us FEEL BETTER in the process! #winwin
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#stopcomplaining #bethechange #solutions #loa #powerofthoughts #positivity #consciousness #consentculture #getondefence #stoprape #selfdefense
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dave_and_dheana A beautiful mind goes with everything. We're certainly not against outside beauty. In fact, we don't think appreciating the human form is any different that appreciating a beautiful sunset or a blooming flower. I think some people, in an effort to balance out all of the objectification out there, lean in the opposite direction, pushing against thinks like make up and shaving. And that's fine. But we strive for a middle ground. We find pushing against anything is wasted effort and changes little. As long as we keep in mind, looks are just ONE aspect of a person, we don't see a problem appreciating them. Just like appreciating a hot brain!
#thisiswhyimhot #brainsarebeautiful #freethinker #goeswitheverything
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dave_and_dheana Tuesday morning #truthbomb
No one can make you feel inferior...or stupid, or ugly, or unwanted, or ANYTHING without your consent. Yes, people can be unkind, but bad words only make you FEEL bad if something inside of you agrees with them (same goes for compliments). The upside to taking this kind of responsibility for ourselves is the opportunity to see where where we can grow and heal. Happiness is an inside job. But don't worry, it's one you're totally qualified for.
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dave_and_dheana You may not WANT to, but if you're ever FORCED to, could you harm another person to save your own life or stop an attack? It's an important question we talked about in last night's scope. If you missed it, you can catch the replay on the periscope app for the next 8 hrs or by clicking the link on our bio. 1mon

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Normal 😎 Dave and Dheana
dave_and_dheana It's the eve of #NYE2016...Anyone making #NewYears #resolutions?
I know they're a bit of an artificial construct but I always like the opportunity to try to do better.
One thing we're working on is making more time for YOU! And to get that ball rolling, we're working on something new and exciting. Details coming soon!
1mon

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selfpreservationtraining Human predators often behave the way predators in the wild behave. They will look for the smaller, weaker person as their intended victim. For the average female, even with martial arts training, the disparity in size & strength between them & a male attacker can be more than they are able to overcome. Even more so when he uses a weapon. Self-Preservation Training will prepare you to defend yourself against predators that view you as smaller, weaker prey. If you already have training, we will fill in the gaps your previous training left. If you have zero training, we will provide you with the training that fits YOU, regardless of your size or age. We teach private & small group classes. For those located in the Indianapolis area, we can bring the training to you if needed. To register for a class or for more information, contact Jeff Riley at selfpreservationtraining@gmail.com . Or you can contact me through the Facebook link in my bio, or DM me on Instagram. #selfdefense #kali #mma #dontbeavictim #fightback #gunskills #knifetraining #martialarts #muaythai #bjj #womensselfdefense #nofear #preytopredator #karate #boxing #tkd #rapedefense #jkd #confidence #notavictim #combatives #privatetraining #firearmstraining #selfpreservation #protectyourself #sexualassaultawareness #domesticviolence #staybladed #selfpreservationtraining 2mon

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dave_and_dheana I get a "Note from the Universe" in my inbox every day from @mikedooleytut and today's was SOOOO good i just HAD to share. You eat to nourish your body. You sleep to rejuvenate your spirit. You study, work, and apply yourself for emotional gains. You exercise to tighten your muscles. You listen to music to entertain yourself.
You're not at all adverse to investing time and energy for the rewards you seek. So how about you spare just a few minutes every day to visualize the life of your dreams? Because nothing else you could ever do will make such a profound difference in your fortunes and misfortunes as working with your thoughts and beliefs.
You can start now,
The Universe
PS... this is post 888, how cool is that?
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dave_and_dheana There are at least 3 problems with this photo. Can you spot them?
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I never wanted to call anyone out before but this HAS to stop. If a girl takes the initiative to learn self defense, she shouldn't be taught BS like this! Don't be a victim of stupid self defense!
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Answers:
1) Girls should not be taught to punch for self defense. Fighting a man's fight, men will always have the upper hand in size, strength and aggression.
2) Attackers primary targets (eyes and throat) are covered up
3) Attacker is so padded up he can't move and falls at the slightest touch
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  •   j_tmash Her left hand isn't protecting her face and she has the wrong body stance 2mon
  •   dave_and_dheana You and I both @neptuniannereid! That's what we say... Fight Tooth & Nail! Awesome comment! 2mon
  •   daniellealmonacid Honest question: what is wrong about picture and how is this particular class BS? Just wanted to know! 2mon
  •   dave_and_dheana Hey @daniellealmonacid Sorry abt that. The first thing is being taught to punch. That's fighting a man's fight, where men will always have the upper hand in size, strength and aggression. Not to mention the body mechanics and alignment necessary to do it properly. We focus on the eyes and throat, where size and strength don't matter. In this pic the padded attacker's eyes and throat are covered. It's also the static pose, which is of course for the photo, but a lot of these classes are taught the same way, with big padded dudes coming at you in slow motion and falling down with the slightest touch 2mon
  •   dave_and_dheana @daniellealmonacid .... Didn't mean to "send" that yet...I wonder, have you taken a class like this? Or do you teach a class like this? We know we're going to piss a lot of ppl off exposing what's wrong with what's being taught out there. But it's widespread and dangerous bc these girls are leaving these classes thinking they can punch or hammer fist or knee their way out of an attack. But if the instructors were really being honest, they'd have to admit, it's unlikely a girl is going to hurt her attacker with one of these techniques enough to force him to let go. And that's what it's all about. One more thing.... 2mon
  •   dave_and_dheana @daniellealmonacid ... For the longest time I didn't want to be calling out these problems NC I thought, "at least they're trying, at least they CARE...." But here's the thing. The single biggest obstacle is getting a girl to WANT to learn self defense. For most girls it's a huge hurdle. The girls in these classes have overcome that hurdle. Good for them! But then they're being taught this stuff that has such a LOW probability of working! And walking out with this false sense of security. I know that was a long answer, but does that make sense? 2mon

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dave_and_dheana Hey everyone, wanted to catch you up on our last Periscope on our #1 (surprising) Rule of Smart Self Defense... No Hitting your attacker!
To be clear, what we mean by "hitting" is PUNCHING, PALM HEELS, HAMMER FISTS and KNEES, which almost ALL other self defense organizations teach.
These strikes are fighting like a man. They require SIZE, STRENGTH and POWER, all of which your attacker most likely has more of than you! They also require proper ALIGNMENT and lots of PRACTICE to do properly. PLUS, when you hit and pull back to hit again, you give your attacker SPACE, which means he can now retaliate! Don't give him that chance! Once your hands are ON him, KEEP THEM THERE! And get your fingers into his EYES or THROAT so you can stop the attack!
#selfdefense #fightback #stoprape #nomore #16days #orangetheworld
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dave_and_dheana 2nd Way We're Redefining Women's Self Defense... We focus on what we WANT not on what we DON'T want. Big difference because there's so much more power in promotion. You can't fight the Law of Attraction!
#selfdefense #orangetheworld #16days #lawofattraction #periscope
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dave_and_dheana Quick clip from tonight's scope: 3 Ways We're Redefining Women's Self Defense. This is #1... We don't teach you to fight like a man. We teach you how to fight tooth and nail... Like an animal!
You can catch the replay online even if you don't have the app. I'll post clips for three other two in a few.
#selfdefense #Periscope #replay #dontfightlikeaman
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dave_and_dheana We are just about to go LIVE on Periscope and would LOVE for you to join us!
If you don't have the app yet, you can still watch online by clicking the link in our bio.
If you can't join us live, the replay will be available for 24hrs... But it would be so much fun to have you there in person! Hope you can make it!
😎
#Periscope #livestream #selfdefense #orangetheworld #16days #16daysofactivism #ShowUcare
2mon

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dave_and_dheana We don't post pictures of battered women on our account but check out the face of this DOUCHE BAG who tried to rape a woman. She fought back using her KEYS and won!
Still sucks she had to... but let me say it again. She WON! She stopped him!
Let's all just take a moment to give that woman a virtual high five and send her lots of love and support!
Search yhoo.it/1lw5jWN for the full story.
#fightback #stoprape #nomore #selfdefense #16days
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madeinargentina1986 #CurrentSituation - on my way to #Atlanta! being sent by my #PD to #RAD Instructor School! About to spend the next few days being thrown around on the ground learning #takedowns and #selfdefense so that I can come back to work & teach young #women how to defend themselves! BEYOND nervous! but EXCITED! 🏼🏼 #IGotThis #RapeAggressionDefense #EmpoweringWomen
#kcco #Georgia #police #lawenforcement #thechive #theberry #women #empowerment #strongwomen #rape #rapedefense #chivette #latinasdoitbetter #chivettes #mma
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dave_and_dheana Did you know next Wednesday, November 25th is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, and marks the start of #16DaysofActivism to end gender based violence?
@unwomen #takeaction #standunited #orangetheworld #nomore
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dave_and_dheana Alright Ninjas! in less than an hour we are going LIVE! We would love to interact with you all there
Follow the link in the bio😎
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_rcjjt 🇧🇷Jiu Jitsu não é só para homens e para competições, a arte suave é uma forma perfeita de defesa pessoal para mulheres, pois com seus princípios de alavanca as mulheres podem se defender e atacar agressores mal intencionados em qualquer posição desvantajosa e de perigo. Lugar de mulher é no tatame!! Oss!! ________________________________ Jiu Jitsu is not only for men and tournaments, the gentle art is a perfect way of women's self defense because its principles of leverage women can defend themselves in any disadvantageous and dangerous position. A woman's place is over the mats!! Oss!! #bjj #bjj4life #bjjlifestyle #bjjgirls #rapedefense #rapistslayer #toughgirls #meninasdekimono #rcjjt #beautifulanddangerous #dontmesswithabjjgirl #oss 4mon

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