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herbochi.cs "It's so hard to get old without a cause, I don't want to perish like a fading horse. Youth is like diamonds in the sun, and diamonds are forever." - "Forever Young" song

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herbochi.cs I really don't like TV shows that focus on low-income families and treat these families as somewhat entertainment-commodities. One of said shows would be "Jika Aku Menjadi". You see, doing such is no different than walking down the street and approach a random hawker and say, "oh my, your life is so tough. Thank God I have a better life". No matter how "poor" someone is or some people are, we should never belittle their status.

I remember a guest star of the TV show giving her comments which more or less sounded like this: "I'm so sad, (cries), because he works so hard (cries), and it's so lonely here (cries). This man works every day picking up tree sticks and gets only Rp.10.000 a day, while I can spend so much for a single lunch (cries). There's no entertainment here, no shops, nothing. I always complain back in the city, while in fact there's so much entertainment there. We have cinemas, malls (cries). I can't imagine living his life". And how does saying such a thing make that man feel any good?
Wouldn't it be much nicer if we actually made him feel better instead of poorer? Why do we need to emphasize on things he (currently) doesn't have and point out in front of his face that his life is "so poor"? Instead, we should appreciate his hard work whatever his "job" is, no matter how much he earns. We should remind him of how lucky he is, because he is given such good health and strength. We should tell him how much we envy his simple, humble life in the village, because life in the city is full of complexities. We should provide him the faith that he can make a betterment in life if he works harder. We should support him to never feel disheartened, for life, no matter what, works in many different ways. And we guide him with whatever knowledge or information we have, so he can be inspired. If this is done, then providing him (and his family) some cash at the end of the show as a capital for him to start a (better) job would be more relevant.
Helping people is not supposed to be done only by (giving) money. But by (giving) moral support. And respect. - dr :) #herbochi #ootd #fujifinepix #fuji #fujiphoto #photograph #photo #photooftheday #blackwhite
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love_lifeandlavender Thank you so much guys!
I Can't believe My Page has hit 400 Followers! Thank you to each and everyone one of you for blowing me away. I do hope in return My photos blow you away!
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herbochi.cs There is something so special about being a mistress. You know,
A man will do anything to lies on his wife to be able to texting, calling, dinner and make love with his secret mistress. He will keep her safe and make sure his mistress in the right place that she told him. He will give you the best sex experience ever more than he can give to his wife. The mistress knows about her husband dark desires more that the wife it self.
The mistress will get his special treatment while his wife doing anything by she’s own. He will make a conversation with his mistress more than his wife gets. He willing to bear anything to keep his mistress more than his wife.
The mistress will get anything instantly while the wife wanted it for so many years.
And you said that mistress will never get love? You wrong, what will you called for al those things you’ve just read? You now probably realized why all the wife’s hates mistress so much, didn’t you? Because we are special.
Well some people maybe dreaming to be number one for someone, But I no longer reading myself a fairytales. As long as i happy and i still can control my expectation, my heart and keep open minded. I will go with my decision. Just because what i believe don’t match up to someone else’s doesn’t mean make them valid. - rizkitalubis

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herbochi.cs You know, it’s really hurt when you said “I’m getting married tomorrow” though it’s joking - rizkitalubis

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I'm on fire!
Putting in a bit of my personality here, today @amazingphil 's channel turns 10! Happy birthday Phil's channel! Fun fact: 'Light' is Phil's first word, probably because he is the ultimate source of light himself!
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herbochi.cs "I've heard it said, that people come into our lives for a reason bringing something we must learn. And we are led to those who help us most to grow, if we let them." - Wicked, "For Good" -
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herbochi.cs I noticed something today. That some people, enjoy killing other people's dreams, or visions. Although unintentionally, they actually do through their very few words and innocent faces. We shouldn't sweat the small things, but small words, we should. Words carry real meanings, hence the presence of dictionaries. Never think that words are just words. They really affect one's world.

And words can also cure. They can be the birth of life-impacting innovations, of big changes for the world. The impossible and possible happen from a mindset. And mindsets, are developed through the words we speak and we tell to ourselves. When others speak about impossibility, I prefer closing my ears. When I believe, I believe. Have faith, friends. - dr :) #herbochi #ootd #exploremalang #explorebatu #exploreindonesia #fujifinepix #fuji #fujiphoto #fujifilm_xseries  #photooftheday #photo #nature #photo #travel #travelingindonesia #folkindonesia #folks #photochallenge #propan #designs #design #interiordesign #paint
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