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burcubudi Sad sam'in bile honey'si var soldan sağa #fakesmile #honey biraz konuşalım mı ? #sad&honey #14subat sizinle takılıyım mı ? #snap #sadsam #honey 12min

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Inkwell ☠🌪ɧųŗŗıçąŋɛ ɧɛąŗɬცɛąɬ🌪☠
  •   tajah.haywood It is. It has to rain before a rainbow comes out. Just wait to find your rainbow 20min
  •   my.secret.m You'll be okay. It tskes some tome 19min
  •   drawing_chanx It feels like shit., but do i give up? Am i death? No. 19min

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raynalifts Oh these boys of mine...
Honesty time...
If you couldn't tell that's a pretty fake smile right there. I can see it...it makes me cringe and I don't want to share it. (So I know that means I should...damn it)
While this picture might look lik we are having a good day....the truth of it is I'm struggling in a big way today.

I have two children...I know so many other mothers that have more to deal with...on days like this I find my inner voice saying.: "Motherhood really shouldn't be this hard for you...you're just not a natural mom...it doesn't come easy for you. You really need to get it together and suck it up" ...and on that voice goes cutting me down, making me feel like a failure and the warm wash of shame comes over me.
But then I shut it down and do a reality check with myself. I'm not a failure and I've tried my best to meet both these boys needs today on top of all of my other responsibilities.
I'm doing the best I can and I love my boys more than I can even figure out how to put into words.
And I'm pretty sure that there's another mom feeling the same way I am right now. Thinking she's not good enough, telling herself that she's doing a horrible job... Motherhood is HARD. It's not at all glamorous and it's different for everyone.
So I'm giving myself permission to ask for help today. Take a day off from my full time job and just focus on being present with my family. To stop criticizing my perceived awkward motherlyness and just let it go.
Stepping back. Stopping the noise. Choosing not to participate in bringing yourself down, that's HARD but it's worth practicing. Be FOR yourself. Practice compassion towards YOU. Give yourself a break. Say it with me mommas - I am enough. I do enough. I am capable. I trust myself. I forgive myself. I am a good mother and my kids are loved and safe.
28min

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ba.rus.12 Žijeme v době, kdy krása je anorexií, láska penězmi, upřímnost je faleš a úsměv je herecký výkon.
We live in a time when the beauty is anoroxia, love is money, honesty is falseness and smile is performance.

#slim#fatbody#like4like#like#F4F#follower#instagood#instaphoto#girl#fat#fakesmile
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ania_christina Dieser Tag war prägend.Ich weiss nicht was mit mir los ist.Morgen wird's besser,hoff' ich mal.Ich hab heute vieles wahrgenommen was mich gerade echt beschäftigt. Vor einem Jahr war eines unmöglich, jetzt ist es selbstverständlich und für mich schwer zu begreifen...#littlebitdepressed#yesterday#norisknofun#fakesmile##polishgirl 37min

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tmarankova Ptaly se:Proč ho miluješ když,spolu nebudete?
Odpověděla jsem:A proč dýcháte,když stejně jednou umřete?
#czechgirl #deepgirl #badgirl #fakesmile #bad #nohappy #instagood #instasize
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