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chulita423 Boom! Any time I am talking to a guy and he has kids, that's the first thing I ask... Are you in evolved in their life?! Like really there for them?? Cuz if you aren't there for your own flesh and blood, what are you gonna do for me? Nothing. I see now first hand how it affects the kids and they don't deserve that. I am not ok with a dead beat father. I have come to terms that I'm doing this alone but it's just sad to have to see your kids suffer. Dads... Do better, be better. You only get one chance. Once you lose their love, there's no going back. And to the REAL dads out there... THANK YOU! #beaman #dobetter #bebetter #noexcuses #deadbeatdad #rantover 20h
  •   bigmike_779 Only thing worse than a dead beat Dad is a mother trying to limit time with the father just because they're mad at them. I went through that for a long time. Court stuff is over now and I won my case praise the Lord. However I've asked the Ex for 1 extra overnight a week even stated I'd sign and notarized a letter saying C.S. wouldn't change and she still refused. Welcome to the flip side 10h
  •   kerngee So true prima! Good for you that you make that a top quality in your partner for life...it is better to go at it alone if it's what's best for the children because once the love and respect is gone it's never coming back. The flip side, I believe, is only a step away. Many a times we become so overwhelmed and consumed by our own feelings and selfishness that we overlook the well being of the child(ren)...Just because that man wasn't the man for you-it's too late to decide he is not the father to your child(ren). Keep fighting the good fight...in the end the child(ren) know the truth and it pays off. 10h
  •   chulita423 @bigmike_779 big props to you. I would NEVER deny my kids to their dad. Yes, he only sees them at his convenience and barely pays child support but I would never tell him no, you can't take them. Because in the end of the day, that only hurts the kids. I use to beg him to see the kids because I felt bad for them but I gave up that battle long ago. Kudos for you wanting to spend more time with them. I wish I had that problem. Your wife is selfish and wrong for doing that. 9h
  •   chulita423 @kerngee yes girl... I hope the girls grow up and see who was really there for them. When I decided to have them, I knew I might end up raising them alone. It was a choice I made that I would be there for them till the end. I know how much I love them and I don't understand how they don't feel the same way as father. I never wanted my kids to go through this. Never thought in a million years it would turn out this way. I guess it could be worst. I just hope this doesn't affect them in the long run. I want them to know-how much they are worth and that they deserve the very best. 9h
  •   bigmike_779 @chulita423 That's why she's the Ex But seriously it burns me up! 9h

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burbridge88 She needed her father but he needed the needle... And you wonder why they call you BITCH @Vapecapitol #vapecapitol #vapecommunity #ecigcity #vc #vapegirls #cloudconnection #lame#longbeach #oc #la #punk #dripclub #deadbeatdad 21h

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chadwicka505 I love my kids #deadbeatdad 22h

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yaboykillua She thot wrong thinking I was gonna pay child support. 1d

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