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Mayfair Hattie-mae Kennedy
sown_shut There's so many theories on why the majority of this generation's males aren't worth dating. "You attract what you are!" Which blames the woman. "Maybe you need to broaden your horizons and date different types of guys!" Also blaming the woman as to why most guys are just undateable. It really grinds my gears. Yes, some women make really horrible choices in males, but what about the women who mind their own business and keep to themselves and allow the males to find her? A woman with broad horizons that has her foot In many walks of life? What's the excuse then? That her standards are too high? I guess eventually, we'll be forced to accept this type of treatment from guys because most of them think shit like this is acceptable. The day we're forced to accept this type of stuff as normal is the day I solidify my thinking to become a life-long celibate; a thought I have been wrestling with for about a year. Dudes like this will never even be able to imagine the vagina or a relationship with me as my life will be dedicated to other things that will bring my life fulfillment.
#teamcelibate #teamabstinent #celibacy #celibate #celibatehattie #love #comecorrect #sownshut #nowednobed #datingandwaiting #abstinence #abstinent #lovethyself #mybodymyrules #chastity #purity #relationships #teamvirgin #virginity
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  •   lsg83 In the military, I was around all different races of men and still am at the university at which I attend. Black men are the worst, hands down in my opinion and it hurts me to say it. I've just about given up on them. I've dated a few White guys and though they are far from perfect, I've never been disrespected like I have with the "brothas." 3h
  •   sown_shut @lsg83 I couldn't bring myself to give up on black men. My ancestors would be disappointed in me. Nothing racist, I just honor them, respect their plight, and also want to have a black family and raise black children. Maybe it's just the area you're in. There are certain parts of where I'm from where the guys are just despicable no matter the race. It's just one mindset concentrated into a certain area 3h
  •   lsg83 I too acknowledge the hardships Black men (and women) have gone thru but I believe our ancestors would be disappointed with the treatment of Black women today within our own community. Besides, more and more Black men seem to be appreciating women of other races anyway these days, which is their right but sometimes it seems as though they have also given up on Black females. 3h
  •   southern_beaut This right here...... Men can be so rude and disappointing. I just have to stop right here. I could write a book on this. They're dumb AF. 3h
  •   sown_shut @lsg83 true but we've all been brainwashed under the system of white supremacy. It's everywhere from tv to magazines and even scholarly articles. And don't get me started on social networks with the dark skinned slander and colorism. Its not our fault as black people, we've been conditioned to believe certain things and so have whites. It's a cycle that's gonna continue If we feed into it's absurdity that's why I'm taking a stand to be with a black man and have beautiful black children, not mixed because people think it's impossible today. I'm finna show them that it isn't…if I ever get married. 3h
  •   lsg83 That's good. I am glad u are optimistic and I believe u will definitely find your Black King. There's nothing I like to see more than a solid, wholesome (no babymama/babydaddy drama) black family unit. But there needs to be some major repair/changes in the Black community so that more Black men can become viable as leaders, husbands, fathers, and citizens. In the meantime, I'll be exploring other possibilities. 3h
  •   sown_shut @lsg83 most def. I even plan on having a youth program when I become a teacher to teach young women and men self esteem so they won't be so bitter and confused growing up 3h
  •   lsg83 That'll be great. We need more teachers who are genuinely invested in uplifting the youth. I just hope your efforts are appreciated and people are receptive. I need to start volunteering again and at least try to be part of the solution. 3h

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  •   thee_harajuku @tiffanymicah lol I had you because I've been in that situation 10h
  •   _mrswatkins2u_ Gold Star lesbians are the best! #ilovemygoldstar 10h
  •   tiffanymicah Lol.. Thx @thee_harajuku I know a lot of woman that think they want just woman until they get dick!! Excuse my French.. 10h
  •   thee_harajuku Hell yeah.... @tiffanymicah 10h
  •   tiffanymicah That shit sucks too cause a lot of women like that don't let it been known to the other person that they're trying to discover new things or it's a phase.. @thee_harajuku so yes again I would prefer someone who's been with a man, someone who has tried it and knows that not what they want!!! 10h
  •   thee_harajuku You and me both!! @tiffanymicah 10h
  •   differeent_fr0m_tharest It's depends on tha person kuz a women who has been with a man can go back to a man. And if she a virgin and you fuck and love her right she'll never think for a second about a nigga. A female that's been with a man already get greedy and wanna go back and forth 10h
  •   guhnnie I hate greedy bitches. Can't trust them @differeent_fr0m_tharest 10h

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Rise Queen Of All Things Good
tiamarrone My Purity Ring. Had it since I was 17. It says 'I Will Wait', but has faded over time. The only time I'll take it off is if I replace it with a new one, or when my future hubby replaces it with his ring. 16h

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maxine1718 Money Monday 👬👭👬, 100$$, makes you 1,000$ 200$$, makes you 2,000$ 300$$, makes you 3,000$ 400$$, makes you 4,000$ 500$$, makes you 5,000$ 600$$, kik : prettyy_m prettyy_m prettyy_m prettyy_m or leave your number 18h

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ameliagow Virgin VS Jetstar plane chicken... Who will win?
#virginaustralia #jetstar #teamvirgin #planebattles
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Normal Hattie-mae Kennedy
sown_shut This is an old post, but it's a topic that's been heavy on my mind lately. I've been neglecting my blog because of school, but there will be a post up very soon. Probably about this. If you haven't already, please check out my blog. The link is in the bio.
#teamcelibate #women #celibacy #celibate #celibatehattie #love #comecorrect #sownshut #nowednobed #datingandwaiting #abstinence #abstinent #lovethyself #mybodymyrules #chastity #purity #relationships #teamvirgin #virginity #cowards
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maria_llamas_14 I'll buy this shirt cuz damn we must protect the virgins haha #TeamVirgin hahaa XD #focus_on_education #than_losing_virginity 2d

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Normal Shawn Bradford
_basegodbradford Finally got my idea for my 1st tattoo. I'm gonna get the same in the picture but it's gonna have my last name but gonna have black and red in the letters #teamvirgin 3d
  •   nunez_2013 Don't get it on your forearm 3d
  •   _basegodbradford Why is that? @nunez_2013 2d
  •   nunez_2013 No offense but it's probably not the best place to get a tattoo career wise. People like to stereotype and you might have a hard time finding a job later on in life with your arms tatted. 2d
  •   _basegodbradford Very true! But my job that I work at doesn't care. So I should be good! If people won't hiring cause of it then it wasn't meant to be @nunez_2013 2d
  •   nunez_2013 Okay man just a heads up. 2d
  •   _basegodbradford Thanks bro, I appreciate the advice tho. And hope your well my bro! Be safe and thank you for what you do @nunez_2013 2d
  •   nunez_2013 No problem man. Same to you. 2d

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X-Pro II Josue Orona-Muñoz

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Hefe Lord Mark
akolngtoh Epic fail sa Zarks nauwe sa #Kalborgers
#TeamOut #TeamVirgin #SumukoEh
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Unknown Mary May "mimay" Mataum
mimaii07 ang pagkikitang muli ng mga berheng maria
#TeamVirgin
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sown_shut This is my favorite picture ever now! 1: because I have an unnatural obsession with graffiti. 2: because it's cool and like graffiti, it's beautiful in it's own way. It's beauty unconventional, bold, confident in the most unapologetic way. It doesn't need to be elegant or fancy to be noticed but it is noticed, nevertheless. In a way, I feel like I've become like graffiti. Whatever I decided to do with myself, whatever I decide to wear, whatever I decide to so with my hair…even if it isn't elegant, it's beautiful.
#teamcelibate #teamabstinent #celibacy #celibate #celibatehattie #love #comecorrect #sownshut #nowednobed #datingandwaiting #abstinence #abstinent #lovethyself #mybodymyrules #chastity #purity #relationships #teamvirgin #virginity
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highsocietyhairllc Spend your hard earned money wisely! #highsocietyhair #teamvirgin 3d

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