15h xemsays
Nashville Xem VanAdams
xemsays Celebrating Nate's birthday yesterday in DC @ Cava Mezze! -- TOP LEFT - @psycho_gemini BOTTOM LEFT - @4theloveofdevious TOP RIGHT - @ohwesley BOTTOM RIGHT - @donsodebonair -- GOOD TIMES 15h

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xemsays GOOD DAY!...but getting the hell out of DC 1d

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xemsays seriously. 7d

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1w xemsays
Nashville Xem VanAdams
xemsays GOOD MONDAY MORNING️ -- #nowplaying Kelly Clarkson: "Invincible" - these lyrics are sealing my life right now. she performed it last night on the Billboard music awards & I've been playing it nonstop ever since. GET INTO IT! -- oh, also... THANK YOU to those of you who came out to the panel discussion Saturday. I truly appreciated the conversation, as well as meeting you before, between and after the program. GOD IS IN THIS! 1w

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xemsays Sometimes life sucks. Sometimes life gets so tough that you don't want to be put through it any longer. Sometimes life is so stressful, and all you want to do is cry.
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YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

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Join Xem VanAdams, Lonnell Williams, Antoine Craigwell, Lonnie Walker & Anthony McCarthy TOMORROW IN BALTIMORE for a special GLCCB panel discussion about "Black Gay Men & Depression" -- ______________________
The Waxter Center
1000 Cathedral Street
3rd Floor
Baltimore, MD 21202

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The panel begins at 4pm and ends at 6pm.

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I look forward to seeing you there and meeting many of you face to face. Bring a friend who may need to hear the message.
1w

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xemsays honestly... what's most attractive about MICHAEL BAKARI JORDAN is the fact that he doesn't even realize it. he's just always so chill and in his own element and simply doing him -- it's like, the cameras just so happen to be there and, "oh yeah... I'm an actor too". that's what he gives. very unaffected. very oblivious. and it's super appealing. 1w

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2w xemsays
Normal Xem VanAdams
xemsays "YOU ARE NOT ALONE: Black Gay Men & Depression" -- I will be speaking in Baltimore this Saturday, May 16th alongside Lonnell Williams, Antoine Craigwell, Lonnie Walker & Anthony McCarthy to discuss this very important issue that plagues our community.
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JOIN US!...
The Waxter Center
1000 Cathedral Street
3rd Floor
Baltimore, MD 21202
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The panel begins at 4pm and ends at 6pm.
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I look forward to seeing you there and meeting many of you face to face. Bring a friend who may need to hear the message.
2w

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xemsays #TBT Xemmy Bear -- @asialaila @nyasha_l @wynterleah 1989 vs. 2015 2w

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xemsays Wednesday, May 13th 2w
  •   keokiboy24 look green 2w
  •   2211dala My first blogger crush 2w
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  •   kayo790 Classic Xemmy facial expressions!!!! 2w
  •   xemsays "YOU ARE NOT ALONE: Black Gay Men & Depression" -- I will be speaking in Baltimore this Saturday, May 16th alongside Lonnell Williams, Antoine Craigwell, Lonnie Walker & Anthony McCarthy to discuss this very important issue that plagues our community.
    ______________________

    JOIN US!...
    The Waxter Center
    1000 Cathedral Street
    3rd Floor
    Baltimore, MD 21202
    ______________________

    The panel begins at 4pm and ends at 6pm.
    ______________________

    I look forward to seeing you there and meeting many of you face to face. Bring a friend who may need to hear the message. 2w

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xemsays These are my shorts for DC Pride -- and a pair of timbs.
I DO WHAT I WANT!
2w

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2w xemsays
Normal Xem VanAdams
xemsays Jussie Smollett's success is so liberating! I am truly inspired by his personal & artistic journey. He looks AMAZING on the cover of Essence Magazine. Don't you agree? 2w

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2w xemsays
Valencia Xem VanAdams
xemsays summer... I see you! 2w

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2w xemsays
Normal Xem VanAdams
xemsays it's so petty. 2w

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xemsays A B S O L U T E L Y! -- #MCM Michael Bakari Jordan 2w
  •   ty8020 Lawd hamercy. 2w
  •   mistersampson You and this man here. 2w
  •   trinitrent You need to stop lusting for Kendall Jenner's man. 2w
  •   mrndpndnt Yes. All of that. Absolutely, YES!! 2w

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2w xemsays
Valencia Xem VanAdams
xemsays YOU ARE NOT ALONE: --
Gay Black Men & Depression
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I WILL BE SPEAKING IN BALTIMORE NEXT SATURDAY, MAY 16TH alongside Lonnell Williams, Antoine Craigwell, Lonnie Walker & Anthony McCarthy to discuss this very important issue that plagues our community.

______________________

JOIN US!... The Waxter Center
1000 Cathedral Street
3rd Floor
Baltimore, MD 21201 ...The panel begins at 4pm and ends at 6pm.

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I look forward to seeing you there & meeting many of you face to face. Bring a friend who may need to hear the message.
2w
  •   maxishaute I'm so proud of you- very happy to see you doing so much for the community! 2w
  •   indigo_blues93 Thank you for this Xem. You've always been an inspiration. 2w
  •   xemsays @maxishaute I appreciate having brothas like you in my support corner Max. Thank you for the encouragement man! 2w
  •   xemsays @indigo_blues93 I am only serving my purpose man. Glad to have you along for the journey. 2w

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xemsays Zaxembi & Zakiya -- #MothersDay 2015 2w

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xemsays HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all of the amazing women in the world who have struggled and silently sacrificed to provide each of us with the best start at life. She is our first teacher, our first protector, our first vision of the outside world -- our first love. To exist as the matriarch of a family unit is to sometimes endure hardship while sustaining the home and nurturing the lives of the children being raised within it. -- Today, we celebrate our moms, grandmothers, nana's, big mama's, aunts, sisters, nieces, cousins, godmothers, and best female friends who are all traveling the collective journey of motherhood. For them, it is indeed a round-the-clock job that doesn't necessarily come with the luxury of taking a break or "signing off". -- So, while their efforts should be honored on a daily basis, we especially sing the praises of these special ladies on this second Sunday in May. -- CALL THEIR NAMES BELOW! -- I'll start with... ZAKIYA, NANA BEA BEA, NANA GLORIA, Aunt Lavata, Aunt Ann, Angela, Jewel, Dani, Micah, Juanita, Kirston, Wynter, Sheriea, Kristy, Erica, Latrese, Kim, Christine (Margaret), Keisha, Kia, Tynika, Khalilah, Steeley, Danielle, Regina, Ayana, Sirena, Tiffany, Tinea, Jeneen, Joi, Chenoa, Kristle, Joya, Julene, Sheemia, Nakeia, Adrienne, Kellie, Dionne, Sheena, Ashley, Rosie & Kris, Shelley, Selena, Jeniece, Cynthia, Marlo, Tami, Toya, Gozi and someone special who hasn't yet made her announcement LORD I HOPE I'm not leaving out any of my leading ladies 2w

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3w xemsays
Valencia Xem VanAdams
xemsays I look like a freaking TARGET employee🏽 ______________________
-- headed to talk to these teens about police brutality & ways in which they should handle themselves if approached by officers. sort of offering tips for physical behavior to help avoid being shot & killed in cold blood by law enforcement. It's SAD and RIDICULOUS that these conversations are even having to take place. right?!....
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and don't forget that I'll also be speaking in Baltimore next Saturday, May 16th on the GLCCB panel. ALL ARE WELCOME TO ATTEND! the program begins at 4pm and runs until 6pm. everything is being held on the 3rd floor of the WAXTER CENTER: 1000 Cathedral Street, Baltimore MD, 21201.
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I'm LMAO looking at myself because this is how we dressed in high school; at the legendary BALTIMORE CITY COLLEGE H.S. -- we were always in the flat front khaki's, polos & plaid shirts from American Eagle or Abercrombie, those neon fleece hoodies from the Gap & a pair of butter tims or those tan, suede bucks. HA! sweet sweet memories...
3w
  •   mistersampson Awww, Xemmy! 3w
  •   coryjevalier A cute target employee though @xemsays 3w
  •   thephotochase Legendary? 🏼 3w
  •   davidsingletary So we are keeping this beard huh? 3w
  •   taz2k14 Cutie 3w
  •   wonderstar08 You look handsome as always Xem. 🏾🏾🏾🏾 3w
  •   kayo790 It's an amazing thing that you're doing Xemmy. Thanks for your conscientiousness and always aspiring to be part of the solution. Need more like ya' Bruh....btw... What kinda cologne are you wearing? Just curious..... 3w
  •   ibe211 Lol u look cute 3w

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3w xemsays
Valencia Xem VanAdams
xemsays MICHAEL BAKARI JORDAN -- that bottom lip bite on right 3w

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xemsays #nowplaying Jamiroquai: Space Cowboy

#nowdrinking Kendall Jackson Chardonnay ...it has been a GOOD day. praise GOD!
3w
  •   itsbilalbitch beefcake 3w
  •   ty8020 Amen for good days. 3w
  •   davidsingletary @xemsays take my signature tank top off! lol 3w
  •   bmoreliketiff I love that song!!!! 3w
  •   crulez Good seeing you Xem! Glad we connected enjoyed real life convos man! You are anointed man and gifted! Glad to say I know you! 2w

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