kaleblucman I always believe that "teachable heart" is a very crucial character that a spouse must attain in order to have a great marriage. Because nobody is ever really "prepared" for marriage life. You have to learn/adjust/study about your partner and about sacrifice.

That's one of the reason why i am forever grateful having @ribkalucman as my wife.
We are not perfect, in fact we are far from it.. But people don't need perfect spouse, people need mature spouse. And mature person never stops learning.
She never stops learning to be better in every aspects. She never stops trying to get to know me better. She never justify herself by saying "I am like this, i can't help it"

The best of all, she always learn to give respect, even in condition when my action doesn't deserve to be given respect.
She shows that giving respect is a decision, it's not because you earn it or not.
Take notes, ladies Thank you for loving me dear =) Happy 4th anniversary. Looking forward for the next 40+ years together
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kaleblucman There are no amount of sceneries, beautiful buildings, clean beaches, clear blue skies that can substitute this view 1w

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kaleblucman Not going anywhere for holiday, so i'll just post a #latergram :) 2w

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kaleblucman One of my bad habit : book hoarding.. Not yet finished reading one book, go and buy another 3 more books In truth, reading books has long been one of my favorite hobbies tho. I am somehow wired to learn more from reading, rather than watching youtube or video tutorial. The way i see it, reading books is my ministry to myself haha :D

I have to say thanks to a dear friend @geadenanda for buying me those 3 books at the top of the stack, all the way from Australia.. I tried to get it at the bookstores in Indonesia but couldn't find it :(
I just wish one day we will have a bookstore that provide these kinds of title selections.
Well, many friends recommend me using e-book, but i just can't seem to find the same enjoyment of reading by using e-book. There's just some unexplainable satisfactory feeling when you can touch the paper while reading.. And I know i'm not alone in this one though :) #randomtalk #bookjunkie
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  •   kaleblucman @kalbindo lebih kasian bukunya kalau ga dibaca :p folding tanda membaca haha 2w
  •   fivetwosix Try bookdepository.com next time, they have free delivery worldwide! :) 2w
  •   kaleblucman @fivetwosix wow, even when only buying 1 book? Btw how's marriage life treating you so far Jan? :) 2w
  •   fivetwosix @kaleblucman Yes! Free for any number of books :) We are loving marriage life! Can't wait to finally meet Holly hopefully sometime this year! 2w
  •   kaleblucman @fivetwosix thats great to hear :) yes just let us know whenever you are in town 2w
  •   geadenanda Great books! Haha im totally not a folder, sayang bukunya. @fivetwosix yeay! Going to check bookdelository.com 2w
  •   lilysantosa Setujuhhhh. Real book is better than ebook. And yess... Im a folder too @kaleblucman 2w
  •   kaleblucman @lilysantosa hahaha, high-five 🏼 2w

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kaleblucman True friends celebrate one another's victories, instead of being jealous. #kalebinsight #friendship 3w

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kaleblucman Congratulations for the opening of @larochellekids ! Your dress helps Holly to look a bit more elegant and feminine, ha! I'm a satisfied customer 4w

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kaleblucman Served the Lord this morning, had a half-an-hour jog with my daughter in the afternoon, and topped it off by enjoying this life's little luxury. Grateful for today :) 4w

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kaleblucman Ada yang uda mulai centil 4w

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Normal Kaleb Lucman
kaleblucman The term "Do what you Love" and "Follow your Heart" has been thrown around so frequently nowadays.
Unfortunately, many interpret these terms naively, especially by this "feeling-driven" generation.
They take it literally that, they should follow their feelings, their hearts in every of their decisions. "If you don't like your job. Move, find job that you like."
This kind of thinking is dangerous, because "feeling" is a very tricky and moody thing.

I'm not saying that you should stick to your current job, even if you don't like it.
What i'm saying is, EVEN if your job is your passion right now, there will STILL be something about that job that you won't like.

And when that time comes, if you decide to follow your feeling and move to another job, well bad news for you.. Because on your next job, you will face the same situation again.

A dream job where everything satisfy your feeling and goes according to what you like, is just like its title = a dream.

What we should do at that time, is to persevere, to endure that uncomfortable time, to just DEAL with it.
Our "feeling-driven" culture should be replaced by "commitment-driven" and "perseverance-driven"

A good example is when my friend @bennylims told me, that many people only see that he's doing what he likes, he loves photography, he can travel all over the world, his portfolio consist of many high-profile clients, the photoshoot order keeps on coming..
But not many people see the 3 painful weeks when he can't see his wife and son, the tiring long hours on the plane, rarely have time for family holiday, wake up at 3:30am to prepare a photoshoot..
No mistake that he IS doing his passion, but still he faces many things that he doesn't like. To immediately move to another job will be a rash and foolish decision.

You can't expect to have a big stallion in your stable without having to clean up its poop

I totally agree that we should do what we love, that we should pursue our passion. But once we find it, we have to persevere and deal with whatever "poop" that comes with it :)
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kaleblucman A virtuous woman worth far more than diamonds 1mon

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kaleblucman @reims_store membership card is now ready. You can use it to get additional discount for your next purchases. For more information, drop by at our store and ask our sales rep about it =) . Thanking @giftedhandsjkt for the design and Quantum Indo Advertising (@andrehermanto @yolandasetiawan) and Solid (@arvankusniawan) for making it happen 1mon

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Normal Kaleb Lucman
kaleblucman That "hip" place in Bali @burobali 1mon

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kaleblucman The cure for our tiredness and stress : her cheeky smile @ribkalucman @hollylucman 1mon

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kaleblucman Finally giving ourselves a break after a gruelling week.. but grateful for the outcome tho. 1mon

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kaleblucman Three generations 2mon

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kaleblucman Sometimes i do wonder what is inside her mind. #hollylucman 2mon

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kaleblucman Important event tomorrow 2mon

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kaleblucman Pardon the selfie, ga ada stok foto lain #reimsculture 2mon

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