deactivatedfatgirl Please vote you guys! Link is in the bio! Vote for Faux Fro!! 23h

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deactivatedfatgirl By @aprloves:
Our generation is cursed with having too many choices. If something doesn't work out its on to the next one thanks to social media, the web, and lack of patience. Love isn't perfect and it's not always practical. All I truly want is someone who chooses me because they know that I'm one of a kind regardless of how many options we both have. To be chosen over and over again is absolutely amazing.
(J-notes: agreed. #ichooseyou)
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deactivatedfatgirl Awesome reminder that we shouldn't go mentally, physically, or emotionally bankrupt just to seem pleasing to someone else. Been there, done that. Wasted years & tears. Never again. #broke #icomefirst #donttakethatlasthashtagthewrongwayheathens #wheresthelietho #ikidikid 2w

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deactivatedfatgirl New fitness challenge @getfitorgetfat. It starts on March 16th! Registration is only $25 but it's worth it, considering all you get from it! And you have the opportunity to win money! I think I shall join in! How about you guys? 1mon

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deactivatedfatgirl ...people's willingness to walk is so much stronger than their desire to communicate. While I'm not saying that you should stick around in places and situations where you're unhappy, I do believe that serial monogamy isn't the answer. Laying under to get over never resolves the issues you have with being alone. When you purchase a house and get a leaky pipe, you work to fix it. Call in specialists if need be. But these days, everybody's simply buying new houses. How rich. 1mon

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deactivatedfatgirl ...amazing how folks'll use God to appeal to your emotions. Forgive, yes. But you can remain at the exit. ๏ธ 2mon

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deactivatedfatgirl No matter your personal feelings about Diddy, you gotta respect his business sense. What he said is a big part of the reason I've closed off everything and decided to really put my time and effort into working toward securing my future and getting ish done. No more talking. Just do it and then speak. In 2013, I came up with the idea of building a community that was centered around several things that I liked. Because this idea involved things that were a little out of my comfort zone, I sat on the idea and only made a handful of people privy to it. In spite of people telling me it's a great idea, I was scared to give it a try. Too scared of what "they" would say. So I continued sitting and stewing in silence & instead, I relaunched a portion of @killpink that I said a LONG time ago that I was done with. I restarted all this DFG business, KNOWING that neither was where I wanted to be. Everything I did was 100% rooted in either what folks said I'd be good at OR by request (oh, please relaunch your bracelets! Jia, can we have another fitness challenge?). When I realized that none of this stuff solidified my future, I was like nah Bruh. Something has to give. Then I read that "13 reasons why you aren't successful" and felt convicted. So I made the decision that at SOME point before January was gone, Id stop everything and focus on what I was scared of from 2013. On 12/31/14 @ 11:59p, @fauxfro was launched. I was nervous & hesitant, but I knew that those feelings meant I at least had to try. No more talking about what I HOPED to do/have; 2015 is the year to get sh*t done. I hope you guys are following suit & working on anything that'll get YOU further in life. Forget other people's opinions and time clock. 2015 is the year of you. Nothing wrong with being "me" focused. Sometimes it's necessary to simply GO and take risks. It's way better to FLOP with a try than to flop because you didn't. #startfromwhereyouare 2mon

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deactivatedfatgirl depression, summarized. 3mon

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deactivatedfatgirl please. 3mon

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deactivatedfatgirl Say man. I know you guys are grown and you ain't gotta listen to the likes of me! But I want to engage you guys more. I want this page to be about way more than just physical health! The word health embodies so many different things and if we're not taking care of ourselves overall, the whole ship can suffer and sink. I was sent this mini questionnaire and am going to work to fill it out tomorrow. I'm going to keep it in my goal book so that I can really work on these things and take positive strides in the new year. If you read my post before this one, you'd see that I'm all about asking the tough questions. But this is the call to action. The post before advised us of what COULD be the problem; this one asks "Well, what are you gonna DO about it?" If you're bold and really wanna push with me this year, take a moment to answer these questions. Don't just think of your answers; write them down. Be as detailed (and as honest) as possible! Tag a friend and ask them to do it with you. Hold one another accountable in leaps of faith & in honesty! Can we have this done by next Friday (12/26)? Tag someone and let's get to it! (And sorry about being MIA today. @killpink relaunch had me on the backend of the site almost all day + packing orders! But I'm here!) #ws4ss 3mon

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deactivatedfatgirl Fundamental lesson that this generation of people can't seem to grasp is first, the concept of loving yourself. Second, being content in being BY yourself. It's so easy to get caught up in the hype of all of these social media "couples," who one day are each other's woman and man crush "everyday," and the next, removing all trace evidence of the relationship ever existing so that they can move on to the next. Expeditiously. There's no judgment here. But I always try to do my best to avoid folks like this, at least for the purpose of relationships. If you're not content with being in solitude, alone in your thoughts, & enjoying yourself then why would I want to be with you? What should I find appealing about you if you, apparently, don't see much value in yourself? Yes, I miss actual courtship, the days of having someone "always there" to talk to, being kissed for nothing, appreciated, being told "good job" or "you're beautiful" for no reason. But I won't sacrifice my love for myself to appease someone who isn't content with themselves, nor will I settle for the sake of having fly IG pics or someone to call my "everyday crush." Sometimes, we need to "not" be wanted by the ones we claim we NEED in order for us to begin falling in love with ourselves. With that said...thank "you." 4mon

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deactivatedfatgirl #TBT ah, me with the duck lips and bad blonde wig. Here's yet another moment in the Angeles of Los that I remember. I'll spare a lengthy blog post but what I will say is, I went in with one thing in mind and ended up doing WAY more than I said I would...all because the price was right AND it funded my abusive habits. It's so crazy to me how I can recall every single detail of those times just by looking at pics. I was out there psychoanalyzing everybody, keeping little notes about the things that I witnessed, and constantly saying "I'm glad I'm not like any of them." Truth is, I was in many ways. It'll be 9 years since that time pretty soon. Haven't set foot on Cali since. If pictures can make me flashback to that crappy time in my life, I cant even imagine what seeing specific things and places would do. Once again, I am super duper thankful that God pulled me through that. I fought giving up way too much because I knew it meant that Id have to give IN. Sometimes we think that it's so much easier to live of the world instead of simply living in it, that we won't be accepted if we focus a little less on the desires of others and fix our focus on CHRIST. None of this has been easy for me. There are moments that I still wanna curse folks out or go out on a date that'll end up leading nowhere but us taking turns laying on our backs. But when I think of how much He's sacrificed on my behalf? Man, the LEAST I can do is work to spread His message and live my life like I'm EXTRA glad that He covered me just one more time! I said I wouldn't make this long but...my heart is consumed with gratitude right now. In this very moment, I feel full with love and absolute admiration! Thank God I'm not the girl you see in the pic anymore! Thank God FOR REAL, shawty! 5mon
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  •   iammrsfabulous This! ! ! Lord @deactivatedfatgirl really about to make a "G" tear up right now. Like... I remember you way back from the Blackvoices posting days. I have followed your career. I know from whence God has bought you (and me)from. I'm in NC and I have always felt a sense of being related to you because of your roots being here. I have prayed for you many times. It brings joy to my heart to see your light shining the way it is. 4mon
  •   deactivatedfatgirl Thank you my friend @iammrsfabulous I appreciate you! What was your bv name? 4mon
  •   iammrsfabulous Lawd I had so many! Lol. MrsTCFab was one of them. HolyGirl, MrsChurchGirl... hahaha... I got kicked out a FEW times hence the change of name. The Entertainment thread was my Favorite! @deactivatedfatgirl 4mon
  •   iammissfaye Wow! I hadn't really been able to follow your journey since I closed my Youtube page. To see this, I'm like #MindBlown!!! Amazing! I'm uber proud (not just that you gave your life to Christ and you're spreading a positive message) but that you're the woman who will NEVER accept defeat! Much love! 3mon
  •   haitian_sensation_ej @deactivatedfatgirl...You epitomize resiliency. Stay strong, God bless. 1mon
  •   doitallmomma_ I think l I saw a porn wit u in it it was great....@deactivatedfatgirl 2w

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deactivatedfatgirl Took this pic the other day. I don't show my face much with all the memes and stuff. But I'm still here. (lipstick is the Woo of Ruby. Anytime you see me in red, know that it's always the Woo of Ruby). 5mon

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deactivatedfatgirl In case you can't see it. Guy is kneeling in prayer asking God to protect Him. As he gets up to walk away, a rock hits him in the head. He shouts, "Why, God, Why?" He turns around and sees God taking several rocks to His face and body. God then looks at the boy and says, "Im sorry. Did I miss one? Are you alright?" I love cute things like this. Might be kinda cheesy to some but we can all use reminders that no matter what it is that we're facing, God is on the front line handling our biggest battles. We pray. We believe. We receive His blessings and mercy. What a gracious God we serve. So loving and protecting! Thanks for sending me this, Ray. Goodnight yall. 5mon

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deactivatedfatgirl Whether you're bruised, broken, lost, feeling unworthy, or stressed, God only wants you to give Him your heart, for you to come back to your "first love" so that He can pour into you and show you what it means to be cleansed, made over, and set free. Proverbs 3:5-6 says "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In ALL your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your path." The feeling of freedom, true love, and contentment is one that only He can provide and its waiting for us all on the other side of shame and fear. Give Him your heart; I don't think that's too much to ask. No matter what, He's gonna love ya anyway! Goodnight everybody! 6mon

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