cupcakesncardigans Ben: Man!! Me: what happened??
Ben: take the cars to the car wash but daddy snowing( snoring). Get the towel mom. We almost finished.
Me: umm... What??
Ben: the towel. Please. Thank you.
16h

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cupcakesncardigans Ask his father can we do this again?? Thanks in advance. Ok. Bye. My throwback️. 16h

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cupcakesncardigans why not put an "S" on the tree for SANTA ( Christmas lights initial business coming 2015). COUNT DOWN!! 3d
  •   maryjane_isha FINALLY got that tree up 2d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @maryjane_isha oh snap. You got jokes. Yes we have our tree up.... With no gifts under it tho... 2d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @maryjane_isha what's up with our reup!! 2d
  •   maryjane_isha I haven't posted anything lol. Mr. Ben probably already has everything anyway ! 3h
  •   cupcakesncardigans @maryjane_isha well you're the only one I really trust so I'm making sure to ask you before I start dealing with these other fools. But we hardly have size 9 or 10. I haven't brought him any new footwear cause he already had so many pairs in size 8. I going to see if they will have a sale on some Jordan's soon. Honestly he only has like 4 pairs ( remember those retros you got me. The red pair and the white. Another pair of gammas and the Jeremy Scott gold for his bday in May. That's it!!) 3h

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cupcakesncardigans Well, well, well. Who in the hell and high waters left the gate open??? So Mr. Adal is backWhat a damn twistI almost had my entire house in an outrage with all the gasping and yelling I was doing tonight. Not only was #TheAffair great but #Homeland put the icing on my cake. I have so much to say, so many questions ( I know half of my followers don't even watch @showtime let alone Homeland) if anyone wants to chat. Let's go.... This episode made me want to...... #DarAdal #homeland #PeterQuinn #Carrie #FMurrayAbraham #showtime #Omg 5d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @lenabfly I work for homeland security and sometimes I am in the meetings tripping. One day i almost asked during briefing about Haqqani. I was feeling like Carrie ( someone put some sh*t in my tea). It's so easy to relate these situations to my current position 4d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @lenabfly let's do this. I am going to re watch tonight's episode and then watch season 1. You need to do the same and let's agree to come back either Thursday or Friday night to talk about what we discovered. Because Sunday... Is going to be EPIC!! And we might have to wait till next fall to see season 5. 4d
  •   biancaoehme I never thought Saul could be involved but it is now possible double double double cross #quinnforever 4d
  •   madameamazin You gonna make me start watching 4d
  •   weadoremocha Goose bumps 4d
  •   weadoremocha I'm pretty sure Saul is not involved not possible 4d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @weadoremocha please explain!!! From season 1 Saul was sneaky. I have always had my doubts. Shoot, I had no idea about Adal and look. Riding dirty in the backseat. 4d

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cupcakesncardigans Well thank you soo much federal government for making it not only harder but impossible to get a level 17 bonus this yr. so in keeping with the " I didn't get level 17" spirit. The end of this year will be epic. Lots of middle fingers, missed swipes, extra bathroom breaks, hoop earrings, long hair and dare I say.... GUM POPPING!!! Now take that. Wish we were having a party or something but that's just wishful thinking. Happy Holidays from Me!! 5d
  •   xo_lanii gurl its been awhile since ive been at work-any news? 5d
  •   younggiftednblack Lmbo right 5d
  •   cutbyroyalty It all starts today! They know this shit is coming! 5d
  •   i_am_sha1_ I just wear the uniform at this point. Smdh 5d
  •   rnj429 Word, no point in really trying anymore. 5d

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cupcakesncardigans Get over it and get with the program. The countdown has begun. Every yr it's the same ol' excuses. You know it comes around every yr. Same date, different day. Geesh, can a girl come to work and enjoy the spirit of the holidays without the long faces and empty pockets. I'm still excited tho...on the inside. 5d

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cupcakesncardigans the way I see it, Chester( the tree) waited 8yrs for us to find him this holiday season. . 5d

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cupcakesncardigans Never too early. Tracing, coloring, engaging, imagining, identifying, problem solving.... You name it we're doing it. He might not like doing "Homework" but he will certainly thank me in the future. Making every moment count. #WorkingHarderThanEver #BlackLivesMatter #TheRoot #PracticeMakesPerfect #WorkHardPlayHarder #DontJustProvideEducate 6d
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  •   cupcakesncardigans @soccermom17 thank you darling. I was going to tag you of course. But this is such a small step for a giant. His teacher complains he doesn't like to hold a pencil... Hello lady, give him a crayons then. As long as I do my part, if she has anything to say I just pull put his worksheets from home. I think he is dumbing himself down because they are all on different levels. Any suggestions?? 6d
  •   soccermom17 Hello he's only 2 most two year old don't have a great pencil grasp! And I suggest the chunky pencils or crayons! Also maybe he's not ready to hold a pencil!! Maybe that's not a stage he wants to master right now! So don't push him! And focus on his strengths 6d
  •   cupcakesncardigans @soccermom17 . I would like to make learning fun. When he's in a good mood, i can get him to write/color/ trace/ read just about anything. He has both chunky crayons & my first pencil( chunky). We even have triangle crayons. He enjoys learning. I think her expectations are a little to high. He just turned 2 1/2. But we ready. Let her try it. This momma has his folder ready. He enjoys books, making circles and playing memory games. We started letting him "read" to us. Plus we do ABCmouse.com at least 20mins a day. He loves getting tickets. I told him, more tickets more treats. So far we have 2 hamsters and 7 fish. He has to clean & feed all his animals daily. ( makes me want a tank at home). Thank you for your help. Means a lot. Sometimes I juggle everything, until I'm left moving my hands after everything has dropped. I have to remember he is 2 and his father & I have his best interest. And dddaaaassssiiiiittttt 6d

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cupcakesncardigans My entire circle is getting so small it's now a triangle. No invites, no text messages, no IG comments. Just us, living, exploring and figuring this whole world out together. 12/13/14. Him, I & our son. Step by step, day by day. 2015.... Our bags are packed!!! 6d

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cupcakesncardigans same ol story. Everybody is broke. Great! Now what??? Guess my man is stuck watching chick flicks and picking out my nail polish. 1w

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cupcakesncardigans Purpose over Profit. #ralphwemerson 1w

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cupcakesncardigans As a matter of fact....2015!? I can't see you in it. Ok. Bye 1w

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cupcakesncardigans Geesh @showtime got me tripping with anger, tears and anxiety. All Fara ever wanted was some kind words from Carrie. Too damn late now. RIP Fara. #NazaninBoniadi #Showtime #Homeland #Fara #almostOver #2episodesleft 2w
  •   realtalkt Word 2w
  •   cupcakesncardigans @realtalkt omg. I didn't know you watched Homeland??? We could have been talking about that instead️. . Don't forget 2w
  •   realtalkt Ya man I'm all in son shouldn't have opened the volt thou 2w
  •   nicknocksy Im still thinking about Fara 12 hours later! She did what she thought was important for our people; almost screwed up her family life early on and then died for her fellow people. she never gave up her religion. Smh. I kinda think max laid it on her heavy, like after there was nothing Carrie could do. Too much salt in the wound, or no? 2w
  •   cupcakesncardigans @nicknocksy her loyalty to both her ppl & work was amazing. Working for the government is a hectic job as is, so I can only image the rest. I agree with you. But on the flip side you know Carrie felt threatened by her because she is Muslim. Because Carrie was always the go to female, the fighter and Fara came in with a strength that Carrie never had...PRIDE!!! It was sad to see her go but it was the best way for her to go. Now the plot thickens. Enjoy your week. Can't wait for next sunday 2w
  •   nicknocksy Ya you're right! Hit that on the head! Well @cupcakesncardigans , till Sunday! Ill look forward to hearing your point of view. Im kinda expecting something to go down with the Ambassador's joke of a parter and that belt.. I cannot predict this show at all! Not in 4 seasons! 8) have a great week as well! 2w

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cupcakesncardigans The essence of friends & family. My family is so cool, laid back , down to earth but don't take it for a weakness!!! We don't need make up, fancy clothes, alcohol or reservations to have a great time. This is exactly what all of us used to speak about. Our kids playing, our men laughing and just enjoying life. Well I think we're almost there. Can't wait to see what 2015 has in stores for all of us. #BenAndHisGodMotherFocusedTho #HappyBirthdayJoy #OurBkFamily #RedCupParty 2w

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cupcakesncardigans Happy birthday Joy!!! Greatest moments always include great family & friends. Amazing friend, hustler, my Peppa Pig Turn Up mom. Someone I can truly say is a genuine spirit. Wishing her all the best. #HappyBirthdayJoy. ( oh, hi Ben ) 2w

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cupcakesncardigans Last min prep before the big surprise PARTY!!! #HappyBirthdayJoy 2w

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cupcakesncardigans There's a war going on outside NO MAN IS SAFE!!! Hide ya kids, hide your blacks. #Garner #Brown #NoJustice #NoChurchInTheWild #saveourChildren 2w

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cupcakesncardigans Welcome to the Purge!! Law enforcement only identifies themselves after the Purge. Regardless to testimony, video and witnesses...the only time being a cop matters is when it's time to defend their actions. #WelcomeToAmerica #NoChurchInTheWild #ThePurge #NoJustice #Garner #Brown 2w

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cupcakesncardigans I don't mind what ppl say, I am more concern with what they understand about me. When ppl are closed minded, negative and judgmental, you can not expect any more from them. At this point in my life, if you are still bitter over something that happened 6-10yrs ago then honey I will say a prayer for you. I am not that person anymore. We have all grown and left serval childish ways behind. An apology is due....so here it goes. Sorry you wasted the last few years of your life upset with someone you never spoke to. Sorry you didn't have an opportunity to confront me. Sorry!! Now go ahead. Live. You are free now. Your welcome. 2w

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cupcakesncardigans I can barely keep my eyes open. 2w
  •   march_love Barelyyyy girl when you find it share it 2w
  •   cupcakesncardigans @march_love will do. I almost put soda in Ben's cereal. Thank goodness the boy has sense. He yelled "milk mommy. Milk!!" 2w

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