barbarajeannerelationships IF YOU LOVE A PERSON, ESPECIALLY A PERSON THAT YOU CALL YOUR PARTNER ...AND YOU TREAT THEM CRAPPIE, HOW DO YOU EXPECT THE LOVE TO STAY? EVENTUALLY THE LOVE WILL BE GONE FOR YOU FROM YOUR PARTNERS HEART, AND EVENTUALLY THEY WILL BE GONE AS WELL. #love #loveyourself #relationship #advice #counseling #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 1d

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barbarajeannerelationships SO IT'S OVER. BUT IN YOUR HEART IT'S NOT. YOU HAVE SO MANY UNANSWERED QUESTIONS. SO MANY THINGS CREEPY THROUGH YOUR HEAD. WHY DID HE OR SHE STOP LOVING ME. DO THEY STILL LOVE ME. I CAN'T EVER SEE MYSELF WITH ANYONE ELSE. I DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE... EVER. YOU THINK OF THEM & YOUR HEART DROPS, STOP & SKIPS A BEAT. YOUR MIND IS CONGESTED WITH WHAT WENT WRONG. WAS IT YOU? WAS IT THEM? WILL THEY COME BACK? OR IS THIS THE END. IS THIS RELATIONSHIP REALLY OVER. STOP! YOU ARE IN OVER DRIVE & YOU NEED TO SLOW DOWN & BREATH. WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH IS IN YOU HANDS TO RELEASE & LET GO. ALL YOU ARE GOING TO DO IS MAKE YOUR SELF SICK. TIME DOES HEALS ALL. AND IF YOU FIND YOURSELF NOT BEING ABLE TO LET GO & TIMES IS FLYING BY. YOU NEED TO SEE SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP YOU TO GET OVER THIS. ALL YOU ARE DOING IS KEEPING YOURSELF FROM LOVING. AND TO BE LOVED IS A NECESSITY OF LIFE. IT IS AN ASSET THAT MAKES YOU STRIVE IN LIFE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. AND WE ALL DESERVE THAT. SO LET GO OF YOU BAGGAGE OR GARBAGE SO YOU CAN WALK FREELY TO FIND THE LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH DESERVE #love #happy #loveyourself #heart #letitgo #cry #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships GUYS & GIRLS MEET. THEY BOTH ARE ON COMMON GROUNDS. BUT AT SOME POINT (THIS HAPPENS EVERYTIME, TIMING IS DIFFERENT) BUT AT SOME POINT THE GUY PULLS BACK. FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER THEY COME UP IN THEIR HEADS WHY THEY NEED TO PULL BACK. THIS IS WHEN THE CALLS ARE LESS, THE TEXTS ARE LESS. AND WHAT ONCE SEEMED TO BE A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP IN THE MAKING IS NOW FILLED WITH MANY DOUBT. NOW THE GIRL IN THIS RELATIONSHIP TRIES TO FIGURE OUT WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR GUYS HEAD. YOU MAY BE THE BEST FOR THEM. BUT YOU WILL NEVER WIN AGAINST A GUYS HEAD. AT THIS POINT YOU SHOULD BACK UP & GIRLS YOU NEED TO REASSESS AS WELL. DO YOU WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU START TO BE CONFUSED, HEART FEELS LIKE IT'S BRUISED & TEARS MAY EVEN COME. WHAT TO DO? RELAX, BREATHE. NEXT, REALIZE YOU WILL BECOME TANGLED IN THE RELATIONSHIP OF DOUBT, LITTLE CARE, & NO CONSISTENCY. BECAUSE YOUR GUY WILL CALL YOU WHEN IN NEED OF INTAMACY. NOW DOES THAT SOUND FAIR. TO BOOST THEM WHEN THEY NEED A BOOST, OR GET TIRED OF THERE HAND. THIS SHOULD NOT BE ACCEPTABLE TO YOU BY ANY MEANS. WE ALLOW THIS BEHAVIOR. IF GIRLS WOULD STOP OPENING THEIR LEGS & KNOW IT'S SEX. AND GIRLS KEEP IN MIND, YOU'LL SEE THEM NEXT TIME THEY NEED THE SAME. THIS IS BY NO MEANS A RELATIONSHIP. BUT IN GIRLS HEADS THIS IS A RELATIONSHIP & THAT IS SO SAD. A RELATIONSHIP IS 2 PEOPLE IN LOVE GROWING TOGETHER. IF THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT, DON'T ACCEPT LESS. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #letitgo #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WE KNOW WHEN WE FEEL LOVED. EVEN IF YOU ARE UNHEALTHY AS A PERSON, YOU STILL COME TO FEEL THE LOVE SOMEONE GIVES TO YOU. IT MAKES YOU FEEL SECURE, A COMFORT OF KNOWING THAT THIS PERSON ISN'T GOING ANYWHERE. YOU KNOW BECAUSE YOU CAN FEEL THEY ARE CONCERNED WITH YOUR WELL BEING. YOU ARE A PRIORITY. BUT IN RETURN YOU NEED TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER FEEL THE SAME. THIS IS A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO MANY PEOPLE STAY WHEN THEY KNOW THEY SHOULD BE LONG GONE. FIRST OFF, YOU DON'T WANT TO GET COMFORTABLE BEING TREATED ANY LESS THAN YOU SHOULD BE. BECAUSE IT WILL BECOME NORMAL TO ACCEPT A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT HEALTHY. SECOND, WASTING TIME TRYING TO MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU IS EXHAUSTING. NOT JUST THAT VERY UNHEALTHY. SO WE COME TO A PLACE WHERE YOU ARE COMFORTABLE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE COME TO ACCEPT. SO YOU'RE ACCEPTING JUST TO GET BY & EXIST. REALLY, WHEN YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. DON'T YOU THINK THAT'S SAD TO EVEN THINK THAT WAY. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #healthy #preach # truth #happiness #real #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships GIRLS OF ALL AGES NEED TO KNOW THAT WE CAN LIVE WITHOUT ANYONE. WE HAVE LIVED OUR WHOLE LIVES UNTIL THAT DAY YOU MEET THIS PERSON THAT YOU NOW FEEL THAT YOU CAN'T GO ON WITHOUT THEM. INFACT WE HAD MANY GOOD TIMES WITHOUT THIS PERSON. SO WE MIGHT THINK WE CAN'T, BUT IN REALITY WE CAN. MANY GIRLS OF ALL AGES ARE PUT IN SITUATIONS THAT THEY SHOULD JUST WALK AWAY, YET WE STAND THERE FEELING AKWARD THINKING & FEELING THIS IS ALL WRONG. IF SOMEONE IS TREATING YOU LIKE THEY DON'T CARE. THERE'S NOTHING TO WONDER, THIS PERSON TRULY DOESN'T CARE. WHEN WE DON'T & WON'T ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT BEING TREATED PROPERLY IS WHEN WE WILL GET RELATIONSHIPS MORE INTACT. GIRLS ARE GIVING GUYS TO MUCH POWER OVER THEIR LIVES. GIRLS CAN BE SELFISH. BUT A GIRL IN LOVE DOES ANYTHING FOR THE PERSON THEY LOVE. GUYS ARE SELFISH, & THE PROBLEM IS THEY'RE OKAY BEING ALONE & HAVING A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP. BUT WHEN GIRLS STOP ACCEPTING THIS WE JUST MIGHT GET HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIPS BACK ON THE MAP. #loveyourself #love #advice #letitgo #relationship #guys #girl #healthy #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships THIS IS THE YO YO RELATIONSHIP. ONE MINUTE YOUR HAPPY SAYING OK THIS MIGHT WORK. THE NEXT MINUTE YOU ARE THING WTF HELL NO THIS WON'T WORK. IT MAKES YOU SO CONFUSED, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, YOU LOVE THEM, YOU DON'T. DO YOU LEAVE OR STAY? YOU LITERALLY FEEL LIKE THIS DAY AFTER DAY. YET YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING. WHY? MAYBE BECAUSE YOUR TIME INVESTED. MAYBE TRUE CARE. IT COULD BE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN OR BEING ALONE. BUT THIS RELATIONSHIP LITTERALLY GETS YOU SICK. IT BREAKS DOWN YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM & ACTUALLY PRODUCES TOXINS IN YOUR BODY. MANY RELATIONSHIPS BECOME LIKE THIS. SO WHAT TO YOU DO? WHEN YOU GET TO THIS POINT, SOMETHING HAS TO TRULY CHANGE FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP TO GET BACK ON TRACK. BUT IF IT CONTINUES WITH I LOVE THEM, I LOVE THEM NOT. THEY MIGHT BE FEELING THIS AS WELL. SIT & HAVE A TALK, SEE WHERE THEIR HEAD & HEART IS AT. IT MIGHT HELP. AFTER THAT IF THE YO YO CONTINUES, SAD TO SAY BUT YOU GOT TO LET IT GO & SAY GOODBYE TO THE YO YO. #loveyourself #love #advice #letitgo #counseling #relationship #guy #girl #preach #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships DO YOU EVER SAY THE SAME WORDS OVER "WHY DO I KEEP PICKING THE WRONG GUY, OR GIRL. OR DO YOU KEEP GOING BACK TO SOMEONE WITH NO CHANGE? WE HAVE 2 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN GENERAL. THE GIVERS & THE TAKERS. IF YOU ARE A GIVER IT'S IN YOUR NATURE TO SOMEHOW ALWAYS GET IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP. THE TAKERS ARE THE PEOPLE WHO YOU ARE HELPING DRAIN YOU UNTIL YOU HAVE NOTHING LEFT TO GIVE. AND THIS CAN BE FINANCIALLY, MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY DRAINING. BUT GIVERS ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN. I AM BY NO MEANS PUTTING DOWN PEOPLE WHO ARE THE TAKERS. BUT THINK OF WHO YOU ARE. ARE YOU A GIVER OR A TAKER. NOW THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN ONE. YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND BEING EITHER IS TOXIC TO FINDING A HEALTHY RERELATIONSHIP. YOU NEED TO GIVE & TAKE. AND WE ALL KNOW THIS. IT DOES SEEM THAT GIVERS TEND TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS ALL THE TIME BECAUSE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE LOVED, PAMPERED & DOTTED ON. THE TAKERS NEED TO REALIZE THAT AT SOME POINT THE CARE TAKERS GETS TIRED OF GIVING & EVENTUALLY MOVES ON. AND IN THE LONG RUN AS WE GROW OLDER MANY TAKERS FIND THEMSELVES ALONE. SO KNOWING IF YOU ARE A GIVER YOU NEED TO LEARN TO ACCEPT, EXPECT & LET THE PERSON WHO YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, LOVE YOU, DO FOR YOU. KNOW THEY SHOULD BE GIVING BACK. TAKERS NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THIS IS SELFISH. IF YOU JUST TAKE & DON'T GIVE, THEN WHO'S DOING FOR YOUR PARTNER? NOBODY. KNOW THIS IS NOT ONLY UNFAIR, IT'S DOWN RIGHT WRONG. SO ALL I CAN SAY TO THE TAKERS, HOW CAN YOU MAKE IT RIGHT? START TO GIVE. IT WILL NOT ONLY GIVE YOU A HAPPIER & HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIP IT'S SHOULD FEEL GOOD KNOWING YOU ARE MAKING YOUR PARTNER HAPPY. IF IT DOESN'T & IF YOU LIKE BEING A TAKER. WHEN ALL YOUR LOOKS ARE GONE. ALL YOU'LL HAVE IS YOU. YOU MIGHT SAY "I HAVE MY MONEY. WELL I GUESS YOU CAN GO BUY SOMEONE & IT WON'T MATTER IF THEY ARE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MONEY. IN CLOSING IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GIVE PLEASE LEAVE THE GIVERS ALONE. #love #advice #you #letitgo #guy #girl #relationship #healthy #truth #preach #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WE WANT LOVE & WE WANT IT NOW. WE SEE THAT HOT GUY, OR THE SWEET ASS GIRL & YOUR TARGET IS OUT. YOU WANT THEM. YOU DESIRE THEM, BUT YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THEM, OR IF THEY WOULD EVEN BE INTERESTED. A GUY COMES UP TO A GIRL ASKING IF THEY'D LIKE A DRINK. THE GIRL EITHER ACCEPTS, WHILE THEY ROLL THEUR EYES BEHIND THE GUYS BACK, OR YOU DO THE RIGHT THING & DON'T ACCEPT. AND GUYS LIKE WHAT THEY SEE, EVEN THOUGH THE GIRL PAYS NO MIND TO YOU. YOU START TO TALK TO HER WITH LITTLE SUCCESS. AND YOU ASK HER OUT OR FOR HER DIGITS ANYWAY. DON'T WE WANT TO BE TRULY LOVED, DESIRED, PUT FIRST, THE FEELING THAT YOUR IMPORTANT IN THIS PERSONS LIFE? WHEN A PERSON REALLY WANTS YOU IT SHOULD START OFF FABULOUS. THINGS YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR. THE FEELING OF BEING WANTED. WANTING TO BE WITH YOU, SPEND TIME TOGETHER. CALLS YOU, TEXTS YOU. AND ANSWERS WHEN YOU CALL. THESE THINGS ARE HUGE. AND IT FEELS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. THINGS MAY CHANGE. BUT ANY RELATIONSHIP SHOULD START OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT. WHEN YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE, THINGS THAT ARE RED FLAGS. IF THEY HAVE & EX THAT'S STILL INVOLVED, YOU GET THE FEELING AFTER ONLY A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME IT FEELS AS IF THE COULD TAKE OR LEAVE YOU. THAT'S SUCH A SHITTY FEELING. IF THEIR FRIENDS ARE EVERYTHING TO THEM. THEY DON'T HAVE GOALS OR MOTIVATION & THEY POP PILLS, DRINK TOO MUCH OR SMOKE TOO MUCH WEED. ALTHOUGH YOU MAY THINK IT'S NO BIG DEAL IT ABSOLUTELY ALTERS THEM & YOUR RELATIONSHIP YOU 2 HAVE. WE ALL KNOW WHAT LOVE FEELS LIKE. WE MIGHT BE UNHEALTHY TO RECEIVE THE RIGHT PERSON BUT WITH THESE TIPS. IT SHOULD HELP YOU BE ON YOUR WAY. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #truth #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU START OFF IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIGH HOPES. THINKING YOU BOTH ARE ON THE SAME PAGE. UNTIL TIME PASSES & OF COURSE YOU CAN'T HOLD UP A FRONT FOREVER. EVENTUALLY BOTH OF YOUR TRUE COLORS COMES OUT & MAY LEAVE YOU BOTH THINKING HUMM? MANY TIMES THIS IS WHERE WE HIT A BUMP WHERE WE DECIDE IF ALL THE GOOD OUT WAYS THE BAD. NOW A DAYS THIS PERIOD SEEMS SO SHORT. THAT A RELATIONSHIP WILL COME & GO BEFORE THE WEEK ENDS. GIRLS WE HAVE MORE CONTROL THAN YOU THINK. MANY GIRLS GIVE UP THE GOODS WAY TOO SOON. IF YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX THAT'S YOUR OWN BUSSINESS BUT I THINK THIS SHOULD ONLY BE GIVEN WHEN YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF & YOUR PARTNER. THAT AFTER YOU ALLOW THEM TO HAVE YOUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU HAVE. YOU NEED TO THINK HOW SHITTY WOULD IT FEEL IF THEY PULLED AWAY AFTER IT WAS DONE. YOU WOULD NOW WONDER IF YOU WERE BAD IN BED, DID HE TRULY CARE, OR IS THAT ALL HE WANTED. SO WHEN YOU OPEN THOSE LEGS UP THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCE OF THE AFTER AFFECT. WHEN YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE. BE OPEN, HAVE FUN EVEN IF IT TURNS INTO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IT WAS A NICE NIGHT. AND YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU MIGHT MEET SOMEONE IN THE MOST OPPORTUNE TIME. LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, IT SHOULD INCLUDE, FUN, LAUGHTER, BEING OPEN, TALKING, FEELING COMFORTABLE. DON'T GO BY WHAT THEY DO, DRIVE, OR WHERE THEY LIVE. THAT DOES NOT MAKE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP. A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS THE FEELING OF COMFORT, CARE COMMUNICATION, BEING THERE, DRIVE TO DO & LOVE. THE REST ARE THINGS YOU CAN WORK ON. BUT THESE ARE A GOOD START. YOU MIGHT THINK CHEMISTRY, YES THAT IS IMPORTANT BUT THIS IS SOMETHING THAT COULD GROW HAS YOU GROW TO CARE. CHEMISTY OR HAVING SEX IS ONE OF THE FIRST ACT OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT BECOMES LAZY. GO FIGURE. BUT THINK ABOUT NEXT TIME YOU SAY A RELATIONSHIP STARTS WITH CHEMISTY. IF IT'S THERE, AWESOME. IF IT GROWS, WAY AWESOME. BECAUSE YOU NOW HAVE A BEST FRIEND & A LOVER. NOW THAT'S FANTASTIC ♡ #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships I HEAR THIS ONE ALL THE TIME. THIS IS A HUGE DESTRUCTION IN RELATIONSHIPS. MANY GIRLS GO THROUGH THIS ONE. 2 PEOPLE MEET & THEY'RE OFF TO AN AWESOME START. THE GUY CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU, TALK TO YOU, YOU ARE ON HIS MIND JUST ABOUT EVERY MINUTE. YOU PUT A SKIP TO HIS STEP. THIS IS REAL GIRLS THINK. THEY FEEL SO LOVED. THIS GUY IS SO OPEN, I SEE MYSELF FALLING & FAST. OH BUT HE FEELS IT TOO. SPENDING BOTH OF YOUR DAYS OFF TOGETHER. BUT WITHOUT NOTICE THINGS START TO CHANGE. THE GIRL DOESN'T KNOW WHY SO SHE TRIES TO FIGURE IT OUT. WHAT'S GOING ON, WHAT'S GOING WRONG. SHE TRIES NOT TO TEXT OR CALL, BUT THAT DOESN'T DO ANYTHING. EVERYTHING SHE DOES DOESN'T SEEM TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE. SO SHE SPEAKS UP, BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE. SO WHAT'S GOING ON? IT'S WHAT ALMOST EVER GUY SEEMS TO DO NOW. SO COULD IT BE ANOTHER GIRL? WHETHER SOMEONE ELSE COMES INTO THE PICTURE ON HIS BEHALF. MAYBE AN EX, OR SOMEONE NEW IT DOESN'T MATTER. THE KEY THING IS THAT HE'S BACKING UP. THE LAST THING YOU WANT TO DO IS CHASE. THE MORE YOU MOVE FORWARD THE MORE HE STEPS BACK. SO WHAT IS A GIRL TO DO? WALK AWAY. HE KNOWS ENOUGH ABOUT YOU & KNOWS WHERE YOU ARE. SO DO YOU & IF HE COMES BACK IT WAS MEANT TO BE. IF HE DOESN'T THEN YOU DIDN'T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME WAITING & WONDERING. TIME & YOUR LIFE IS TO PRECIOUS TO BE F**KED WITH. JUST THINK HOW F**KED UP THEY ARE TO TREAT YOU THIS WAY. IT SURE ISN'T THE WAY HE WAS WHEN YOU 2 MET. SO KEEP WALKING. LASTLY WHEN THIS STARTS TO HAPPEN THESE ARE CALLED RED FLAGS. SOMETIMES THE GUY YOU OVERLOOK MIGHT BE THE GUY THAT WOULD MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A PRINCESS. TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN. SO LOOK AT THOSE GUYS YOU LEFT ON THE SIDELINES. THOSE MIGHT BE THE ONES THAT WILL TREAT YOU AS YOU KNOW YOU SHOULD BE & IN THE LONG RUN THAT'S FAR MORE IMPORTANT. #loveyourself #love #advice #letitgo #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #preach #truth #healthy #happiness #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN DOES A RELATIONSHIP WORK? WHEN YOU CLOG THE TOILET & IT OVERFLOWS INSTEAD OF PANICKING, YOU CALMLY CALL YOUR SWEETIE FOR HELP & YOU LAUGH ABOUT IT LATER. YOU WAKE UP & YOU AREN'T WORRIED HOW MESSY YOU LOOK, BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOUR LOVED FOR YOU. YOUR SECRETS ARE TO SHARE BECAUSE YOU TRUST THEM TO TELL.
MANY TIMES WE GO FOR PEOPLE THAT YOU TWO MAY HAVE A CONNECTION, THINGS MIGHT BE GREAT, BUT YOU DON'T HAVE THAT COMFORT. YOU ABSOLUTELY NEED TO BE TOTALLY YOURSELF. OF COURSE WHEN YOU MEET YOU DON'T WANT TO PASS GAS, BURP & TELL SOMEONE TO PULL YOUR FINGER. COME ON NOW. YOU DO HAVE CLASS. BUT YOU NEED TO BE YOU FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO TRULY WORK. IF NOT DO YOU TRULY KNOW WHO YOU ARE DATING? AND DO THEY KNOW WHO YOU TRULY ARE. SO WHEN YOU'RE LOOKING FOR LOVE. MAKE SURE AT SOME POINT YOU BEGIN TO BE ABLE TO BE YOU! #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #loveyourself #love #advice #letitgo #barbarajeannerelationships
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barbarajeannerelationships PEOPLE SAY "I LOVE THAT CAR, "I LOVE THAT DRESS". BUT TO LOVE A PERSON IS THE DEFINITION OF LOVE. NOW TO BE IN LOVE IS WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP GOES TO AT SOME POINT. AS TIME GOES BY THERE IS SO MANY MIXED EMOTIONS INVOLVED. AT ONE MINUTE YOU MIGHT SAY "I HATE HIM, OR HER". BUT THAT IN LOVE. FEELING MIXED EMOTIONS OF EVERY KIND OF FEELINGS. IT IS A BLEND OF MEMORIES, LOVE, IN LOVE, CARE & TIME INVESTED. WITH THE GOOD, BAD & EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN. INSTEAD OF HOPPING FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER. KNOW BEING WITH ONE PERSON & KNOWING THEY'LL BE THERE THROUGH THICK & THIN, GOID & BAD. WHAT YOU COME OUT WITH IS A BEST FRIEND. ALL THAT MUXED TOGETHER IS LIFE WITH A PARTNER & NOTHING COULD EVER BE BETTER THAN THAT. YOU MIGHT BE YOUNG & TIME FOR FUN. BUT WHEN IT'S TIME TO GROW UP & PUT YOUR BIG PANTS ON, PLEASE THINK OF MY WORDS. IT JUST MIGHT SAVE OR HELP YOU KNOW WHAT A REAL RELATIONSHIP IS♡ #love #advice #relationship #loveyourself #guy #girl #counseling #preach #truth #real #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships YOUR RELATIONSHIP GETS HARD YOU WANT OUT. SHE NAGS, YOU WANT SOMEONE SWEET. HE'S POOR, YOU WANT SOMEONE WITH MONEY. THERE WILL ALWAYS A MILLION REASONS TO LEAVE, OR CHEAT. SHE DOESN'T GIVE YOU ENOUGH STIMULATION. HE DOESN'T TELL YOU HOW PRETTY YOU ARE. ALL OF THESE THINGS THAT I MENTIONED CAN MAKE OR BREAK A RELATIONSHIP AFTER AWHILE. BUT YOU ALSO HAVE A VOICE TO SPEAK UP. TELL THEM ONCE, THEY HEARD YOU. NOW IT'S THEIR JOB TO CHANGE. IF THEY CARE ENOUGH THEY WILL. YOU CAN MOVE ON & GUESS WHAT? YOU WILL HAVE SIMILAR PROBLEMS IN ANY & EVERY RELATIONSHIP. SO AS LONG AS THIS PERSON SHOWS TRUE CARE, HAS YOUR BACK & YOU KNOW & FEEL THE LOVE FROM THEM. YOU CAN 99% OF THE TIME WORK IT OUT. EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS COMMUNICATION. THAT IS NECESSARY. STOP MOVING AROUND FROM PERSON TO PERSON WAITING TO GET SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T NAG, THAT HAS MONEY, OR IS A DOOR MAT. THAT YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT. IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD HAVE FUN, LAUGHTER & JOY, A PARTNER & BEDT FRIEND. BUT WITH EVERY UP, EVENTUALLY COMES A DOWN. THIS IS WHERE YOU GOT TO PULL UP YOUR BIG BOY, OR GIRL PANTS & ACT ACCORDINGLY. IF YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THEN YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE. PLEASE DO SO! #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #loveyourself #love #advice #barbarajeannerelationships 2mon

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barbarajeannerelationships A RELATIONSHIP THAT WAS ONCE FILLED WITH LOVE & LAUGHTER IS FADING. YOU KNOW IT, YOU FEEL IT BUT THERE SEEMS LITTLE YOU CAN DO. YOU FEEL THE DISTANCE THE LACK OF CARE. & IT SEEMS NO LONGER THERE. BUT DO KNOW THIS IF YOU MADE A DIFFERENCE IN THIS PERSONS LIFE YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED. WHEN WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WE OFTEN FEEL LIKE WE WANT SOMETHING ELSE, ANYTHING ELSE. SO WE VENTURE OUT. ONLY TO REALIZE YOU HAD A GOOD THING. EVERYTHING YOU NEEDED. WE HAVE TO STOP THINKING WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. TREATING PEOPLE AS TOYS THAT YOU THROW ASIDE WHEN YOU GET BORED FOR A NEW ONE. IF THAT'S THE CASE WHY NOT TREASURE PEOPLE LIKE YOU DID YOU FAVORITE BLANKET OR BINKY. WE ALL KNOW THE GRASS ISN'T GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. STOP IT ALREADY. IF THE PERSON WHO YOU ARE WITH IS A GEM DON'T THROW THEN AWAY FOR A ROCK. #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #loveyourself #barbarajeannerelationships 3mon

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barbarajeannerelationships GUYS SEEM TO ENTER INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH FULL INTENT TO BECOME A COUPLE. BUT IF THE GIRL DOES ANYTHING THAT THE GUY DOESN'T LIKE, THEY ARE SO EASY TO LET IT GO & DISREGARD THEM.
GIRLS SEEM TO OVER ANALYZE THE RELATIONSHIP TOO QUICKLY, INSTEAD OF JUST ENJOYING GETTING TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER, THEY QUESTION WHAT EVERYTHING MEANS. THIS IS A TURN OF FOR A GUY.
MANY GUYS HOLD ONTO THEIR PAST RELATIONSHIP & DOING THIS STOPS THEM FROM ENTERING A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH A CLEAN HEALTHY CHANCE.
GIRLS IF YOU ARE DONE & OVER A GUY. DON'T ENTER BACK INTO YOUR EX'S LIFE BECAUSE YOU'RE ALONE. OR BECAUSE YOU HEAR THEY'RE WITH ANOTHER GIRL. ESPECIALLY IF THE GIRL IS GOOD LOOKING. MANY GIRL DON'T WANT THE GUY, THEY WANT TO WIN. THIS IS WRONG.
LASTLY IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP (GIRL OR GUY) DON'T ENTER ONE & F**K SOMEONE ELSES LIFE UP. MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY, THIS WAY YOU HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF MAKING YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP WORK♡ #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships
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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES GIRLS FEEL WHEN A GUY WANTS SEX GIRLS WILL GIVE HEAD TO PLEASE THE GUY. MANY YOUNG GIRLS DO THIS AFRAID THAT THE GUY WILL STOP LIKING THEM. GIVING HEAD NOW BECOMES SOMETHING YOU DISLIKE BECAUSE IT WAS USED AS A TACTIC TO NOT HAVE SEX. OPPOSED TO BEING A GESTURE OF GIVING PLEASURE TO THE GUY YOU CARE OR MAYBE EVEN LOVE. IN SEX & THE CITY CHARLOTTE HATED IT. SAMANTHA SAID IT WAS A NECESSITY. SAMANTHA IS RIGHT. 99% OF GUYS LOVE IT. SOMETIMES IT'S A GOOD WAY TO SHOW YOUR GUY A NICE SURPRISE WHEN HE LEAST EXPECTS IT. EITHER WAY HEAD OR A BLOW JOB SHOULD ONLY BE GIVEN WHEN YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH THE GUY. ENOUGH TO GO DOWN & WORK AS SAMANTHA SAYS. BUT IF YOU REALAX & SEE HOW YOUR MAN IS ENJOYING WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO HIM, THAT SHOULD GIVE YOU A LITTLE BIT OF A HIGH. KNOWING YOU'RE MAKING YOUR MAN FEEL SO GOOD. BUT GUYS PLEASE BE GROOMED THE SAME WAY YOU LIKE US GIRLS TO BE. PLEASE WEED WACK YOUR GARDEN. P.S. GUYS DON'T WORRY GIRLS POST ABOUT THIS IS COMING. #loveyourself #relationship #love #advice #guy #girl #counseling #truth #barbarajeannerelationships 3mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WHY IS IT THAT MANY TIMES WE FALL FOR PEOPLE WHO GIVE NOTHING BACK TO US. OK SOMETIMES IT'S TOO LATE. THEY WERE ONCE NICE & GOOD FOR US BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE THEY CHANGED & BECAME PEOPLE WHO WE SHOULDN'T BE WITH. ALTHOUGH WE KNOW THIS. WE ACCEPT SHIT THAT'S PRETTY F**KED UP FROM THIS PERSON. WE HOLD ON WAY TOO LONG & WE KNOW THIS. WHY? MAYBE WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. MAYBE WERE AFRAID TO BE ALONE BUT WE GOT TO STOP & THINK. I'M SURE YOU'RE GOING WAY ABOVE & BEYOND TRYING TO KEEP THIS PERSON. SO I CAN ONLY SAY THIS. ASK YOURSELF. YOU'RE TAKING CARE OF THEM BUT WHO IS TAKING CARE OF YOU? NOBODY. NOW LET GO & MOVE THE F**K ON. #loveyourself #relationship #letitgo #advice #counseling #love #guy #girl #truth #barbarajeannerelationships 3mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WHAT COULD BE THE PROBLEM IN MOST RELATIONSHIPS? ONE BIG ONE, COULD BE THAT WE ARE ALL YES YES YES, CAUGHT UP IN ALL THE CUTE THINGS OF A NEW RELATIONSHIP. WE PUT EVERYTHING ON THE BACK BURNER & LET IT SIT THERE & STEW. UNTIL YOU CAN ACTUALLY SAY YOU 2 ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THEN ALL THE BURNERS LIGHT AT SOME POINT. WE WANT TO SAY SO MANY THINGS BUT WHEN YOU LET THEM HAPPEN OR CONDONE THEM FOR A PERIOD OF TIME IT'S HARD TO FIX THEM. BECAUSE NOW THEY SEEM TO END UP IN A DISAGREEMENT, OR A FIGHT. SO HOW CAN WE STOP THIS LACK OF COMMUNICATION FROM HAPPENING. COMMUNICATE FROM DAY ONE. HOW? WITH WHAT YOU LIKE, WHAT YOU DON'T. WHAT YOU'RE WILLING TO ACCEPT & WHAT'S A DEAL BREAKER. IF WE WAIT TOO LONG THEN IT'S HARD TO SAY SOMETHING. A FEW BIG ONES IS BOUNDARIES WITH AN EX. EVEN IF YOU HAVE KIDS WITH THIS PERSON. THERE SHOULD BE BOUNDARIES. I WOULD SAY TRULY MINIMAL. UNLESS YOU WANT A COMMUNITY RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE TOO MANY HANDS & FEET IN ONE RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LET GO OF YOUR EX, THEN YOU SHOULD BE WITH THEM. DO NOT USE THE EXCUSE. I'M DOING IT FOR THE CHILDREN. NOT REALLY, IT ACTUALLY GIVES THE CHILDREN FALSE HOPE ESPECIALLY YOUNGER ONES. YOU CAN'T STAY IN THE PAST IF YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A HEALTHY FUTURE WITH SOMEONE ELSE. SO SPEAK UP & USE YOUR VOICE. SAYING THINGS IN THE BEGINNING ARE EASIER TO SAY. YOU BOTH ARE ALL GAGA. AND YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE UP AGAINST BEFORE YOU INVEST TOO MUCH TIME. #loveyourself #relationship #letitgo #stay #truth #guy #girl #counseling #love #advice #preach #barbarajeannerelationships 3mon

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barbarajeannerelationships A RELATIONSHIP IS 2 PEOPLE THAT ADMIRE, RESPECT, CARE & LOVE ONE ANOTHER. ESPECIALLY IN THE BEGINNING WHEN IT'S UNTAINTED. BUT WHEN THE THE RELATIONSHIP STARTS SHAKING OR BEGINS TO GROW SHAKING AFTER A PERIOD OF TIME IT'S TIME TO CHANGE SOMETHING. IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS MAKING YOU QUESTION THE LOVE THEY HAVE FOR YOU & YOU'RE FIGHTING TO KEEP THIS RELATIONSHIP A FLOAT, THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY RERELATIONSHIP. LOVE CAN'T BE ONE SIDED, ONE PERSON DOING ALL THE WORK. IT SHOULD NOT BE YOU LOOKING AT YOUR PHONE, WAITING, TO ONLY GET A TOKEN TEXT. IF NOTHING IS CONSISTENT, THEIR BEHAVIOR IS ALWAYS SPORADIC & YOU'RE ALWAYS TYRING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT'S WRONG, OR WHAT'S GOING ON? AT SOME POINT YOU HAVE TO LET THIS RELATIONSHIP & PERSON GO. FOR SOME REASON THEY'RE ARE NOT READY, OR YOU'RE NOT THE ONE, BUT SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT. IT COULD BE THAT IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. I FIND A LOT OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY GUYS HOLD ONTO THEIR PAST RELATIONSHIP WHICH DOESN'T ALLOW THEM TO MOVE FORWARD. WHATEVER THE PROBLEM OR SITUATION IS AT THIS MOMENT IT'S NOT THE RIGHT KIND OF LOVE & YOU NEED TO REALIZE THIS. BY LETTING GO THEY MIGHT REALIZE THEY MISS YOU & YOU ARE THE ONE. BUT SOMETHING HAS TO CHANGE, IT CAN'T STAY THE SAME. OR YOU WILL ME MISERABLE FOR A LONG TIME. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN THINK THIS IS GOOD ENOUGH. IF YOU DO YOU NEED TO DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING YOURSELF ♡ #loveyourself #love #advice #letitgo #counseling #relationship #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 3mon

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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES 2 PEOPLE GET TOGETHER & ARE DOING FABULOUS. BUT FOR SOME REASON ONE OF THE 2 BECOMES DISENCHANTED & IT SEEMS SO OBVIOUS THAT THE PERSON HAS HAD A CHARGE OF HEART. WE CAN'T BE IN THEIR HEAD OR HEART TO KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON. AND USUALLY THE PERSON DOESN'T TELL YOU. WHY? IT DOESN'T TRULY MATTER. WHAT MATTERS IS THAT THIS PERSON IS NO LONGER THAT PERSON WHO SHOWED YOU TONS OF LOVE, CARE & HAPPINESS. YOU NOW HAVE TEARS, DOUBT & UNCERTAINTY. WHERE LOVE WAS YOU NOW FEEL LONELINESS & DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW SOMETHING ISN'T RIGHT. WE FIGHT FOR THEIR LOVE & THIS IS A NORMAL REACTION. BUT WHEN IN YOUR HEART YOU DON'T SEE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU ONCE HAD COMING AROUND AGAIN. BOW OUT, HOLD YOUR HEAD UP, TAKE BACK YOUR HEART & WAIT FOR THAT PERSON WHO TRULY WANTS TO HOLD YOUR HEART NEAR & DEAR TO THEM. UNTIL THEN WALK WITH JESUS, CHANCES ARE HE WILL LEAD YOU TO THE RIGHT PERSON. #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #counseling #loveyourself #Jesus # 3mon

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