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barbarajeannerelationships JUST A THOUGHT! 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Thank u to all that left many sweet messages, I do try to answer, but if I didn't please know I take notice. U all have a place n my heart even if it's this place we call IG. As we rock in2 the new year, dress yourself up n your love. Learn to truly love yourself, know your value, that u r absolutely priceless! 5mon
  •   ritacianci1964 Where r u off to princess!? 5mon
  •   ritacianci1964 I will have the mice bring the pumpkin around ! 5mon
  •   alc1996 @barbarajeannerelationships hey beautiful hope you had an amazing Christmas and I hope your new year is blessed with lots of love family and friends and good health. As always love your post your an amazing person happy New Years barb 5mon
  •   mayavamp how are you darling ??? 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships LOVE YOUR PARTNER LIKE YOU DID WHEN YOU FELL IN LOVE & THEY WILL BE YOUR FOREVER. 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Some people say that they forgive but they don't forget. Yes you can do this so it doesn't happen again. But God forgives, Period! Why is there a stipulation with our forgiveness? 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WHO YOU CAN BE WITH, BUT THE RIGHT ONE IS A NEEDLE IN A HAY STACK. WHEN YOU FIND THAT PERSON THAT YOU CAN FEEL YOURSELF & WANT TO COME HOME TO. HOLD THEM DEARLY, BECAUSE THAT'S A BIG GIFT, A BLESSING, HUGE! Barbara Jeanne xo 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships THIS IS ADVICE I GAVE A CLOSE GUY FRIEND WHO SAID HE'S STUBBORN. WE DON'T NEED TO WIN. A RELATIONSHIP ISN'T A GAME OF WHO'S RIGHT OR WRONG. IF YOU PLAY THIS GAME, EVENTUALLY YOU'LL LOSE, THE GAME & THE PERSON, JUST A THOUGHT! BARBARA JEANNE ♡ 5mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Take notice on how you treat people. Your family, friends and your significant other. You want to encourage, lift and make sure these important people in your life feel loved. We tend to do this more easily for friends, more so than the person you're sleeping with. That your so intimate with. But it might be that they aren't giving as much love, or the love you want back as well. So to better your relationships let's start to communicate & love a little more with those in your bed. Doing this you will strengthen your relationship. All those crazy things you do with your friends you should be doing it with your partner. When this happens is when your relationship will feel more complete. (PS if your partner doesn't want to do all of those silly, crazy things. Find what it is that brought you two together, or a middle ground of comfort) But for goodness sakes have fun and laugh. Sometimes it just gets lost & it just needs to be found. Love Barbara Jeanne xo 6mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Somewhere in this busy, chaotic society with have lost some of the values necessary to have a healthy relationship. No matter if its friendship family or a romantic type relationship we have come to a point where we need to take a step back and just look. We are a society that takes very easily. And expects. My mother told be when you give, you give out of the goodness of your heart, not because you expect something back in return. Loyalty is something that lacks in families, so if we aren't learning it at home, how will we know it's something so important to keep a healthy relationship. Just a thought! Love Barbara Jeanne xo 6mon

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  •   togetherlovinglife Well said. 7mon
  •   alohadanhawaii Just wanted to say "Hi and Thank You" sending positive vibes your way 6mon
  •   keaw_endorphins How are you.. Why you are so quiet nowadays .. I hope everything is going well with you... Xoxo 6mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Many people stay in relationships that are no longer. How you two got to this place that is no longer a good healthy love, I'm not sure. I'm not here today to tell you how to fix it. I'm here to tell you that if you feel you are existing and not living. As hard as it may be, you need to ask yourself, do I love myself? Do I feel happy in this relationship? You got to remember that you have one life to live, to be happy. Life is not to sit there with anxiety, or to have the feeling of despair & hopelessness. You may be afraid of the unknown. But you need to reach deep down inside of you to find the strength nessaccary to move on. It's hard as hell. Not because you don't want to go. You thought of leaving over and over. But because you're afraid. But if you believe in God. You need not worry. God doesn't want you to be unhappy, that's the darkness you are feeling. This is an unhealthy, & unhappy place. So know if you follow the light of goodness it will only bring you to a safe place. From there your opportunities will be countless.Remember you are the writer, the star & the director of your life. You make it what you want. Don't accept anything less. Now get writing. Love, Barbara Jeanne xo 7mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN 2 PEOPLE MEET & AS YOU GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER, YOU LEARN THE PATTERN OF THIS PERSON YOU HAVE ENTERED A RELATIONSHIP WITH. AS TIME GOES BY WHEN THINGS START TO CHANGE FOR THE WORSE, SOMETHING THAT CLICKS ON IN YOUR GUT THAT IS TELLING YOU SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT. THIS IS WHERE YOU REEVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN ASK, YOU CAN DO YOUR HOMEWORK TO SEE WHAT'S GOING ON, (OR WRONG) IF IT CONTINUES, DO ASK. BUT IF YOUR GUT IS TELLING YOU SOMETHING IS WRONG, IT MOST LIKELY IS. DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOSE THIS PERSON. YOU CAN'T LOSE, SOMEONE THAT YOU DON'T HAVE. SO BOW OUT, IF THEY WANT YOU THEY'LL COME BACK AROUND. BUT DON'T EVER ACCEPT TO BE AN OPTION. BARBARA JEANNE 9mon

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barbarajeannerelationships We treat our lover, our best friend, the one that at one time we couldn't get enough of them. But by our harsh words, mad moments to have what was once a beautiful union, is now tainted. How can you stay friends with someone from kindergarten, and I'm sure at some point they bugged the shit out of you. But the person you allow to be so intimate with you. You can be so damn mean, over and over. That being with one another now becomes cheaper to keep her, stay for the children, or where am I going now. Be nice, treat one another as a lover, a best friend, and with respect. Geez if you dislike someone that much that you are always mean, leave! 9mon

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barbarajeannerelationships I'm back. Thank you to those that stuck by me. I love you from the bottom of my heart.
LATELY IT SEEMS OUR SOCIETY IS MORE LIKE VAN HALEN'S "AIN'T TALKIN ABOUT LOVE". MORE PEOPLE WANT TO BE SINGLE & MINGLE. MY MOM DATED A GUY AFTER MY DAD. NOW HIM & HIS BUDDIES SIT IN THE MALL HANGING OUT. THAT EVEN MY MOM DUCKS NOT WANTING TO SEE HIM. WE NEED TO GET LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS BACK N ORDER. SO WE DON'T BECOME A SOCIETY OF GOLDEN GIRLS & CREEPY OLD MEN. JUST A THOUGHT. BARBARA JEANNE XOXO
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barbarajeannerelationships Awe yes, how sweet. People need to learn to love again. To have that want that a significant other will add happiness and love to their life. So many women and men have become so self sufficient that it takes a great leap of faith to change their lifestyle that you have become accustomed to. So many people think a relationship is more of a hassle then to realize that a healthy relationship nourishes your life. To be loved... Is the most rewarding gift. So accept it when it comes knocking & it feels right Barbara Jeanne #love # happiness #loveyourself #couple #advice #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 12mon

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barbarajeannerelationships They say you can be anyone you want to be online. But don't get the two mixed up. If you get happiness pretending to be who you are not. Then you need to get off line and fixed that shit. Love who you are, you are pretty awesome. xo Barbara Jeanne 12mon

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barbarajeannerelationships IF YOU LOVE A PERSON, ESPECIALLY A PERSON THAT YOU CALL YOUR PARTNER ...AND YOU TREAT THEM CRAPPIE, HOW DO YOU EXPECT THE LOVE TO STAY? EVENTUALLY THE LOVE WILL BE GONE FOR YOU FROM YOUR PARTNERS HEART, AND EVENTUALLY THEY WILL BE GONE AS WELL. #love #loveyourself #relationship #advice #counseling #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 1y

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barbarajeannerelationships SO IT'S OVER. BUT IN YOUR HEART IT'S NOT. YOU HAVE SO MANY UNANSWERED QUESTIONS. SO MANY THINGS CREEPY THROUGH YOUR HEAD. WHY DID HE OR SHE STOP LOVING ME. DO THEY STILL LOVE ME. I CAN'T EVER SEE MYSELF WITH ANYONE ELSE. I DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE... EVER. YOU THINK OF THEM & YOUR HEART DROPS, STOP & SKIPS A BEAT. YOUR MIND IS CONGESTED WITH WHAT WENT WRONG. WAS IT YOU? WAS IT THEM? WILL THEY COME BACK? OR IS THIS THE END. IS THIS RELATIONSHIP REALLY OVER. STOP! YOU ARE IN OVER DRIVE & YOU NEED TO SLOW DOWN & BREATH. WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH IS IN YOU HANDS TO RELEASE & LET GO. ALL YOU ARE GOING TO DO IS MAKE YOUR SELF SICK. TIME DOES HEALS ALL. AND IF YOU FIND YOURSELF NOT BEING ABLE TO LET GO & TIMES IS FLYING BY. YOU NEED TO SEE SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP YOU TO GET OVER THIS. ALL YOU ARE DOING IS KEEPING YOURSELF FROM LOVING. AND TO BE LOVED IS A NECESSITY OF LIFE. IT IS AN ASSET THAT MAKES YOU STRIVE IN LIFE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. AND WE ALL DESERVE THAT. SO LET GO OF YOU BAGGAGE OR GARBAGE SO YOU CAN WALK FREELY TO FIND THE LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH DESERVE #love #happy #loveyourself #heart #letitgo #cry #barbarajeannerelationships 1y

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barbarajeannerelationships GUYS & GIRLS MEET. THEY BOTH ARE ON COMMON GROUNDS. BUT AT SOME POINT (THIS HAPPENS EVERYTIME, TIMING IS DIFFERENT) BUT AT SOME POINT THE GUY PULLS BACK. FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER THEY COME UP IN THEIR HEADS WHY THEY NEED TO PULL BACK. THIS IS WHEN THE CALLS ARE LESS, THE TEXTS ARE LESS. AND WHAT ONCE SEEMED TO BE A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP IN THE MAKING IS NOW FILLED WITH MANY DOUBT. NOW THE GIRL IN THIS RELATIONSHIP TRIES TO FIGURE OUT WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR GUYS HEAD. YOU MAY BE THE BEST FOR THEM. BUT YOU WILL NEVER WIN AGAINST A GUYS HEAD. AT THIS POINT YOU SHOULD BACK UP & GIRLS YOU NEED TO REASSESS AS WELL. DO YOU WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU START TO BE CONFUSED, HEART FEELS LIKE IT'S BRUISED & TEARS MAY EVEN COME. WHAT TO DO? RELAX, BREATHE. NEXT, REALIZE YOU WILL BECOME TANGLED IN THE RELATIONSHIP OF DOUBT, LITTLE CARE, & NO CONSISTENCY. BECAUSE YOUR GUY WILL CALL YOU WHEN IN NEED OF INTAMACY. NOW DOES THAT SOUND FAIR. TO BOOST THEM WHEN THEY NEED A BOOST, OR GET TIRED OF THERE HAND. THIS SHOULD NOT BE ACCEPTABLE TO YOU BY ANY MEANS. WE ALLOW THIS BEHAVIOR. IF GIRLS WOULD STOP OPENING THEIR LEGS & KNOW IT'S SEX. AND GIRLS KEEP IN MIND, YOU'LL SEE THEM NEXT TIME THEY NEED THE SAME. THIS IS BY NO MEANS A RELATIONSHIP. BUT IN GIRLS HEADS THIS IS A RELATIONSHIP & THAT IS SO SAD. A RELATIONSHIP IS 2 PEOPLE IN LOVE GROWING TOGETHER. IF THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT, DON'T ACCEPT LESS. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #letitgo #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 1y

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barbarajeannerelationships WE KNOW WHEN WE FEEL LOVED. EVEN IF YOU ARE UNHEALTHY AS A PERSON, YOU STILL COME TO FEEL THE LOVE SOMEONE GIVES TO YOU. IT MAKES YOU FEEL SECURE, A COMFORT OF KNOWING THAT THIS PERSON ISN'T GOING ANYWHERE. YOU KNOW BECAUSE YOU CAN FEEL THEY ARE CONCERNED WITH YOUR WELL BEING. YOU ARE A PRIORITY. BUT IN RETURN YOU NEED TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER FEEL THE SAME. THIS IS A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO MANY PEOPLE STAY WHEN THEY KNOW THEY SHOULD BE LONG GONE. FIRST OFF, YOU DON'T WANT TO GET COMFORTABLE BEING TREATED ANY LESS THAN YOU SHOULD BE. BECAUSE IT WILL BECOME NORMAL TO ACCEPT A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT HEALTHY. SECOND, WASTING TIME TRYING TO MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU IS EXHAUSTING. NOT JUST THAT VERY UNHEALTHY. SO WE COME TO A PLACE WHERE YOU ARE COMFORTABLE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE COME TO ACCEPT. SO YOU'RE ACCEPTING JUST TO GET BY & EXIST. REALLY, WHEN YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. DON'T YOU THINK THAT'S SAD TO EVEN THINK THAT WAY. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationship #guy #girl #healthy #preach # truth #happiness #real #barbarajeannerelationships 1y

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