barbarajeannerelationships MOST GIRLS TEND TO RUN INTO THIS SITUATION ONCE IN THEIR LIFE. IF THEY'RE UNLUCKY IT HITS THEM AGAIN. WORSE SENERIO OVER & OVER. BITING OUR TONGUES OVER & OVER AFRAID THAT THE PERSON WE LOVE WELL JUST GO AWAY. WHY? BECAUSE DEEP DOWN WE MIGHT FEEL THEY JUST DON'T CARE ENOUGH. SOMETIMES EVEN THOSE RELATIONSHIPS THAT BEGAN SO STRONG MAY FADE INTO ALL UNCERTAINTIES. SO WE JUST DON'T SAY WHAT'S KILLING US INSIDE. FEAR OF THEM WALKING OUT. BUT KNOW IF YOU ARE AFRAID TO SPEAK, THERE IS MORE THEN YOUR VOICE THAT IS MISSING FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP. GUYS & GIRLS WE NEED TO START TO ONLY STAY WHERE WE KNOW & FEEL WE ARE WANTED. BEING AFRAID TO LOSE SOMEONE MEANS DO YOU HAVE THEM TO BEGIN WITH? THAT'S WHAT YOU NEED TO REALIZE. ASK YOURSELF NEXT TIME THAT YOU'RE HURTING OR CRYING FROM YOUR PARTNER & YOU SIT THERE CRYING WHEN INSIDE YOUR DYING TO SCREAM "YOU F**KIN ASSHOLE". LET'S START TO ONLY BE IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. YEAH THAT SOUNDS GOOD, DON'T YOU THINK ♡ #relationships #counseling #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #priceless #brokenhearted #loveyourself #love #barbarajeannerelationships 11h

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barbarajeannerelationships WE SEEM TO BE A GENERATION OF LESS IS BETTER. WE ELIMINATE WORDS BY JUST USING LETTERS LIKE "OMG". WE TEXT INSTEAD OF TALKING, WHICH GOES ON IN RELATIONSHIPS. SO IF WE TEXT INSTEAD OF TALKING WHERE IS THE INTIMACY? IT'S OK IF IT'S JUST FOR A QUICK MESSAGE OR A HELLO, I'M THINKING OF YOU. NOW THAT IS SWEET. BUT MANY USE IT FOR THE ONLY MEANS OF COMMUNICATION. SOMEWHERE DOWN THE ROAD IF WE CONTINUE WE WILL LOSE RELATIONSHIPS COMPLETELY. IT'S ALREADY BECOMING EXTINCT. MANY PEOPLE ARE BUSY & DON'T LIKE TO TALK ON THE PHONE. BUT THAT IS ONE THING GIRLS STILL LOVE. IT'S SUGAR TO THEIR HEART TO HEAR THE VOICE OF THE PERSON THEY LOVE. GUYS SEEM AT TIMES IT'S EVEN TOO HARD TO TEXT. IF GIRLS ACCEPT THIS WE WILL BE IN TROUBLE. IT'S GIVING GUYS A PASS TO GIVE LESS & LESS. HOW MUCH LESS ARE WE GOING TO ACCEPT. NO ONE, GIRL OR GUY SHOULD ACCEPT THIS FROM THE PERSON THEY LOVE. YOU GOT TO SET WHAT YOU WILL ACCEPT. AND PLEASE FOR GOODNESS SAKE DON'T ACCEPT LESS. OR EVENTUALLY WE WILL LOSE INTIMACY, RESPECT, RELATIONSHIPS & THIS LITTLE THING THAT WE CALL LOVE! #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #guy #girl #relationships #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 1d

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barbarajeannerelationships AS CHILDREN WE LEARN WHAT WE SEE. WE DO WHAT WE KNOW WE CAN GET AWAY WITH. SOME ARE BOLD ENOUGH TO DO THINGS THEY KNOW THEY'LL GET CAUGHT BUT DON'T CARE ENOUGH OR JUST DON'T GIVE A F**K. AS ADULTS IT'S THE SAME. AS PARTNERS WE MIMIC ONE ANOTHER MORE THAN YOU THINK. WE BEGIN TO LIKE EACH OTHER SHOWS, HABITS, TEAMS, FOODS ETC. WE GET INTO A DAILY ROUTINE. BUT WHEN THINGS GO A BIT SOUR, 1 OF THE 2 USUALLY STARTS TO DO THINGS THEY KNOW IS WRONG. WHEN THEY SEE THE OTHER IS TOO WEAK TO DO ANYTHING, LIKE LEAVE, THEY CONTINUE. THEY DON'T STOP UNTIL THE OTHER ONE IS DOING THE SAME HURTFUL THINGS OR THEY'RE DONE. EVENTUALLY EVERYTHING COMES TO AN END LOSING A RELATIONSHIP. BUT IS IT THE RELATIONSHIP OR THE PERSON? I SAY THE PERSON. SOME PEOPLE AREN'T READY, SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST WARPED. WHO ARE YOU IN THE RELATIONSHIP? IF YOU ARE THE ONE HURTING, IT'S TIME TO DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING MY FRIEND. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #letitgo #priceless #guy #girl #hurt #heal #barbarajeannerelationships 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships YOU FIND LOVE, THAT LOVE THAT GIVE YOU BUTTERFLIES. THEN YOU BREAK UP, YOU MAKE UP, ONLY TO BREAK UP FOR GOOD. TEARS & FEARS THAT YOUR HEART WILL NEVER FIND ANOTHER LOVE OR GET OVER THIS ONE. I'VE GIVEN THIS ADVICE ALL MY LIFE. YOU THINK YOU'LL NEVER FIND ANOTHER PERSON TO LOVE THE WAY YOU LOVED YOUR LAST. YOUR HEART WILL NEVER HEAL. BUT YOU DO. AND THE NEXT TIME YOU FALL FOR SOMEONE THOSE LOVING FEELINGS WILL COME RUSHING BACK. THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. YOU MIGHT BE YOUNG OR NOT READY BUT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR LOVING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WHILE YOU'RE IN THEM. WE GO INTO RELATIONSHIPS THAT TURN SORE QUICKLY BUT WE STAY. WE NEED TO WANT MORE, NEED MORE & RESPECT OURSELVES TO ONLY BE TREATED AS SUCH. THIS IS THE BUILDING BLOCK TO A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON. UNTIL THEN, LOVE & BE STRONG ENOUGH THAT WHEN IS DONE YOU LET GO. NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS MEANT TO BE FOREVER. SOME ARE MEANT FOR A REASON WE DON'T KNOW. BUT THE NUMBER ONE RULE IS LOVE YOURSELF THAT MUCH WHEN YOUR ARE CRYING HURTFUL TEARS FROM THE PERSON WHO'S SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOU BE STRONG ENOUGH TO CUT THE STRINGS & SAY BYE! #love #advice #relationships #counseling #letitgo #loveyourself #guy #girl #respect #barbarajeannerelationships 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships BOTH MEN & WOMEN HAVE THEIR FAULTS. BUT ONE THAT MANY MEN DO IS TWIST THINGS AROUND. TAKE GIRLS FOR GRANTED & DO THE MOST SHITTIEST THINGS THAT NO ONE SHOULD TAKE. BUT A GIRL IN LOVE TAKES AN ABNORMAL AMOUNT OF BULLSHIT. EXAMPLE, GUYS DO SOMETHING WRONG & EITHER KNOW OR DON'T, BUT, EITHER WAY THEY DON'T CARE, NOT ENOUGH. GIRLS LITERALLY ALLOW A GUY TO TORTURES THEM. WHY? BECAUSE WHEN WE LOVE WE LOVE HARD TILL THE END. BUT THE END LEAVES GIRLS WEARY & BROKEN. BUT GIRLS DO MOVE ON WHEN THEIR NEXT LOVE INTEREST POPS UP. BECAUSE WE TRULY WANT TO BE LOVED & BE IN LOVE. THE ONLY ADVICE GALS DON'T BRING ALL YOU BAGGAGE OF THE PAST. IT SHOULD BE LEFT OUT LIKE YESTERDAY'S GARBAGE. YOU ALLOWED SOMEONE TO HURT YOU FOR TOO LONG. LOVE, LOVE HARD, TAKE CHANCES & YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE. AS I ALWAYS SAY KEEP THOSE EYES OPEN. GUYS, GIRLS HAVE THERE WRONG DOINGS BUT THIS ONE IS FOR THE GIRLS, NEXT ONE WILL BE FOR YOU GUYS. ONE LAST THING IF YOU DON'T WANT SOMEONE WHO IS DIGGING YOU FELLOWS, TELL THEM STRAIGHT OUT. IN THE LONG RUN IT HELPS. GIRLS SOMETIMES NEEDS FOR YOU TO BE BRUTALLY HONESTY. CAUSE GIRL SOMETIMES MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WHERE THERE ISN'T ONE. #relationships #love #loveyourself #counseling #priceless #letitgo #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships SO AS I WROTE IN MY LAST POST THAT JOHNNY DEPP SAID HE WOULD DIE WITHOUT WINONA RYDER. YET HERE HE IS A FEW YEARS LATER WITH KATE MOSS. A RELATIONSHIP THAT LASTED 4 YEARS WITH A 2 MONTHS ENGAGEMENT BEFORE THEY SPLIT FOR GOOD. THEN HE MOVED ON TO A GIRLFRIEND WHICH HE STAYED WITH & BROKE UP AFTER 14 YEARS UNION. YET SOME PEOPLE DO MAKE IT TO THE ALWAYS & FOREVER. HOW? STAY BEST FRIENDS & LOVERS. WE ALL GROW. GROW TOGETHER. HOW? YOU ARE TWO PEOPLE YES, BUT IN A MARRIAGE YOU ARE ONE. SO YOU SHOULD GROW TOGETHER. BE TEAMMATES & EVERYTHING IS WE. BE RESPECTFUL TO ONE ANOTHER, & MAKE SURE YOU SPEND TIME. IT'S QUALITY NOT QUANTITY. YOU CAN SPEND AN HOUR LAUGHING, TALKING & MAYBE EVEN SNEAKING IN A QUICKIE. (THAT WOULD MEAN SEX) OR RAGGING & NAGGING & BOTH WALK AWAY THINKING WHY AM I WITH HER/HIM. REMEMBER NOTHING IS DIFFERENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP AS TIME GOES BY. IT WHAT YOU 2 MAKE. BUT IF YOU DON'T MAKE IT, DON'T GET STUCK IN THE PAST. IT WILL KEEP YOU FROM THE PRESENT. AND IF YOU KEEP POSITIVE & WITH SOME WORK YOU JUST MAKE THE ALWAYS & FOREVER ♡ 1w
  •   sabrinasparkle @devan_lutz we need to write a book on our dudes 1w
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  •   princesse_j_ So well said and it's very true. It takes 2 people to want to work at it and if only one party does the work, it will be trouble and there's not expecting the relationship to last. My as well just accept the fact that it won't work and part ways like mature adults. 1w
  •   joycedream.green Typical #Male lol 7d
  •   kevinwarrilow People don't change, they just emphasise different aspects of their character as time passes. If you choose to love someone then surely it is intended to be forever? Don't treat love like it's a passing fad because it's not, it's the most precious and personal thing you have, choose wisely before sharing it and DO NOT fuck people about. 6d
  •   pinksweetness76 ️it! Great advice as always! 5d
  •   bballgurl_76 I think it has to do with holding the other person on a pedestal when u fall in love, and when u start to realize the other person is far less than perfect that it all turns around. Some people hold on too long and suffer too much with someone, while others don't even want to put in an effort and walk away easily thinking it's easy to replace. Online dating makes this so much easier...promise of a good love seconds away without going through the whole idea of approaching someone and putting yourself out there for the real you, not the glammed up filtered version. Too bad so many put so little value on love and making it work... 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships JOHNNY DEPP PRONOUNCED HE'S LOVE FOR WINONA RYDER IN THIS STATEMENT BACK IN 1989. HE WOULD JUST DIE WITHOUT HER. YET IN THE FOLLOWING POST I AM PUTTING UP HE SHOWS HE'S LOVE FOR KATE MOSS. A 4 YEAR RELATIONSHIP THAT STARTED IN 1994, HAD A 2 MONTH ENGAGEMENT, BUT THEY SPLIT IN 1998. WHERE DOES THE LOVE GO? 2 PEOPLE WHO SEEM SO IN LOVE, BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE SO IN LOVE, & I BELIEVE THEY WERE. BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE SOMETHING CHANGES. THE LOVE THEY ONCE SHARE COMES TO AN END. AND HAVING MONEY DOESN'T HELP. WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE, ALL BETS ARE OFF. SO IS THERE ANYWAY TO BE ABLE TO SUSTAIN THE TERM ALWAYS & FOREVER. DID IT EVER EXIST? OR WAS IT YEARS AGO WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED TILL DEATH DO WE PART WAS THE ONLY OPTION. AND IF YOU DID DIVORCE YOU WERE CONSIDERED & OUTCAST. SO THOSE COUPLES WHO MAKE IT, WHAT ARE THEY DOING RIGHT? (READ NEXT POST TO FIND OUT HOW) 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships SO MANY PEOPLE ARE IN THIS SITUATION. WHEN 2 PEOPLE GET TOGETHER IT MOST LIKELY STARTS ON AN EVEN SCALE. AS TIME PASSES IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS 1 OF THE 2 BECOMES THE DOMINANT ONE. BEING IN CONTROL THIS PERSON SEEMS TO BECOME RECKLESS WITH THEIR PARTNERS HEART. WHY? BECAUSE THEY PRETTY MUCH KNOW THEY CAN TREAT THEIR PARTNER LIKE SHIT. KNOWING THAT THEY'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE. HOW DO THEY KNOW? USUALLY THE LESS DOMINANT ONE IS TAKING SO MUCH BULLSHIT THAT YOU BOTH KNOW YOU SHOULDN'T BE TAKING. WHAT'S WORSE IT COULD EVEN GET TO THE POINT WHERE THE MORE DOMINANT ONE GETS SO COCKY & CARELESS THAT EVEN WHEN THEY'RE WRONG, THEY'RE NOT WRONG. THE WEAKER ONE IS THINKING WHAT THE FU*K, BUT STILL STAYS. YOU'LL BE CRYING, BROKENHEARTED & NOT UNTIL IT'S GETS COMPLETELY OUT OF CONTROL THE ONE BEING TREATED WITH LITTLE CARE DOES SOMETHING. AND IN THE BACK OF THEIR HEAD THEY'RE STILL HOPING. I TOLD YOU I AM GOING TO PUT IT STRAIGHT RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE. WE HAVE TO HAVE SOME PRIDE HIGHER THAN A CURB. STOP BEING A DOORMAT. THIS MEANS ANYONE ACCEPTING ANY & EVERYTHING WE KNOW WE SHOULD BE SAYING "GO FU*K YOURSELF, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE. SO YOU GOT TO NIP THIS WHEN IT STARTS. THEN YOU MIGHT HAVE A CHANCE TO REDIRECT THE RELATIONSHIP KNOWING YOU WON'T TAKE SHIT. PERIOD. BE STRONG. I'LL SAY IT UNTIL YOU ALL ACTUALLY ARE. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #letitgo #priceless #brokenhearted #counseling #guy #girl #relationships #happy #truth #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships So I said in 2015 I was going to help do my best to straighten up the mess that people have made of relationships. Girls I have to say that when we go for a guy we like, even a guy that we are already in a relationship with, when they want you the way that they should, they will absolutely let you know without a doubt. Many times girls will push & push to find out what the guy or the person they like is feeling about us. We want to hear it from their mouths. We want them to come out and say "I want you or leave me alone I don't like you, can't you get it? I'm not showing you any affection or attention yet you still keep questioning the matter". Yeah that doesn't sound so fun to hear something so nasty. Yet we allow ourselves to be tortured, to cry & to feel this hollow pit in our stomach over a person who shows us no emotion. So I'm here not to hurt any girls (or even those guys who do this) feelings but to be frank about a relationship. It takes 2 people to like one another, or love each other mutually. If one of the two is not feeling it on the same level the one that's doing all the trying, all the caring, & all the loving will end up just doing all the crying. While the person you are crying over is not feeling a thing. No care, no emotion. Guys need to have the balls to say I don't like you but they don't. They hope the girl gets the idea by them showing lack of attention. So I'm here to tell every girl, you aren't worth less because a person doesn't like you. But you can't get mad or insulted because the person doesn't show you the care that you want them to. So starting now hopefully after you read this, tell your friends & people that you know are going through this to STOP! Every relationship that has a chance to make it has 2 people that love each other enough to go through the highs, the lows & the in betweens. If you're not getting that girl or guy, let it go. There are people who would want you in a heartbeat. Come on let's stop going for the wrong people. Aren't you so over being sad, getting hurt & crying? #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #advice #loveyourself #love #respect #letitgo #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN WE WANT THE RELATIONSHIP WE ARE IN TO WORK WE DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING & EVERYTHING. ESPECIALLY US GIRLS. WE BUY THEM THINGS THAT WE THINK THEY'LL LIKE. WE SEND PICS OF OURSELVES, CRY, STALK, THROW OURSELVES AT THEM LIKE A DAMN FOOL. WHEN IS IT ENOUGH? IT'S ENOUGH WHEN YOU KNOW THEY ARE NOT DOING RIGHT BY YOU. IT'S DONE WHEN YOU KNOW THEY'RE NOT FEELING YOU & IT'S DONE WHEN YOU FEEL ALONE :( GIRLS GET YOURSELF UP DUST YOURSELF OFF & GET YOUR GROVE ON. YOU ARE NOBODY'S WELCOME MAT. GUY'S THAT ARE DOING THE SAME STOP GIVING TO A GIRL THAT HAS YOU IN THE FRIENDS ZONE. IN 2015 I THINK IT'S TIME TO LET GO OF THE RELATIONSHIPS THAT AREN'T HEALTHY, AREN'T GOING ANYWHERE & LET THAT LOVE COME ON THROUGH. YOU MIGHT BE SAYING WHERE DO I FIND THIS PERSON? THEY HAVE BEEN ALL AROUND YOU. THE ONES THAT WOULD & WANT TO LOVE US WE OVERLOOK THEM TO FIND A CHALLENGE. WTF LIKE A CHALLENGE IS WORTH MORE. NO IT'S A FU*KING GAME. GIRLS PUT ON SOME PERFUME, GUYS PUT ON YOUR COLOGNE & GET OUT THERE. SPRAY YOUR SCENT A LITTLE HERE A LITTLE THERE & THEY'LL COME KNOCKING. BUT ONLY OPEN UP WHEN IT'S THE REAL DEAL. HOW DO YOU KNOW? YOU'LL KNOW CAUSE THEY WON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO. 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships LET'S SAY FOR 2015 NO MORE GAMES. THIS MEANS NO MORE GAMES IN OUR OWN HEADS. ASKING EVERY FRIEND, OR ANYONE WHO WILL LISTEN, WHAT DO YOU THINK THIS MEANS? WE ALL KNOW THE ANSWERS TO THE QUESTION "IF THE PERSON WE LOVE, LOVES US BACK. PLEASE STOP ASKING. IF A PERSON WANTS YOU, YOU'LL KNOW IT. IF A PERSON WANTED YOU BUT NOW HAS A CHANGE OF HEART YOU WILL KNOW IT. HOW? THEY WILL SHOW LITTLE CARE. MOST OF ALL YOUR HEART WILL ACHE OVER THIS PERSON. THAT IS NOT LOVE. THAT IS NOT CARE.
WE NEED TO LEARN TO LET GO OF RELATIONSHIPS GOING NOWHERE. WE HAVE TO STOP LOVING PEOPLE WHO DON'T LOVE US BACK. WE MUNILATE OUR MINDS WITH CHAOS TO NOT FEEL LONELY. BUT AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BREAKS US. BREAKS OUR SPIRIT. DON'T ALLOW ANYONE TO BREAK YOU, OR TAKE AWAY YOUR HAPPINESS. YOU KNOW THEY ARE TREATING YOU LIKE SHIT. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF & LET THEM GO. SO IN 2015 YOU CONTROL YOUR DESTINY & I'LL BE DAMN IF I ALLOW ANYONE I KNOW TO WASTE A DAY ON A PERSON WHO IS TREATING THEM ANYWAY LESS THEN AWESOME & WITH LOVE! #loveyourself #love #advice #relationships #strong #counseling #guy #girl #letitgo #barbarajeannerelationships
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barbarajeannerelationships THIS ONE IS SO IMPORTANT BECAUSE EVERY TIME WE'RE WRAPPED UP OBSESSING OVER A PERSON WHO DOESN'T GIVE US THE TIME OF DAY. OR LET'S SAY THEY ARE THE ONES THAT ARE NOT DOING RIGHT BY US. IS IT BECAUSE WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE? OR ARE WE A GLUTEN FOR PUNISHMENT. YOU KNOW WHAT, IT DOESN'T MATTER. NOPE NOT THIS YEAR. THIS IS THE YEAR THAT I AM GOING TO BUILD STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN & GET RID OF THOSE GUYS THAT LET GIRL WALK ALL OVER YOU. WE ARE GOING TO ALL BECOME SO STRONG & THIS MEANS TAKE BACK THE CONTROL OVER OUR LIVES. EITHER FROM WHO YOU ARE WITH NOW THAT YOU SHOULDN'T BE, OR IF YOU ARE THE ONE THAT ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE CHASING. SAY GOODBYE TO THAT PERSON. THIS YEAR IS A HEALTHY YEAR. MIND, HEART, BODY & SOUL. YEP WE'RE GOING TO CLEANSE OUT ALL THE WRONG SO THAT YOU CAN ALLOW YOURSELF TO ENTER OR CHANGE THE RELATIONSHIP YOUR IN TO A COMPLETELY HEALTHY ONE. AND TO BE LOVED HOW YOU SHOULD OF BEEN. NO MORE TEARS. WELCOME TO 2015 & THE NEW YOU! LOVE YOU ALL, BARBARA JEANNE ♡ 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships I TOOK A MUCH NEEDED BREAK TO REGROUP. BUT I AM BACK FULL FORCE. I AM GOING TO BE ON IG FULL TIME. I AM GOING TO GO HARD TO HELP REPAIR BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS. IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP AS TIME GOES BY THERE IS GOING TO BE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT THE PERSON WHO YOU ARE WITH. BUT THAT MEANS EVERY PERSON. DON'T THINK IT'S GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE BECAUSE IT'S NOT. IT'S ACTUALLY THE SAME SHIT, JUST DIFFERENT SIDE. SO IF YOU HAVE A GOOD ONE. THANK GOD & HOLD THAT PERSON DEAR & NEAR. AND KNOW THAT EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS WORK #loveyourself #love #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships This couple that looked so in love with on screen was not how it started. Ryan Gosling thought Rachel McAdams wasn't good enough for the part. He didn't even want to do he's lines with her. He stomped off set many times stating he can't work with her. Later what they had on screen they took off screen. With a real life romance. Even winning favorite kiss in the MTV Movie Awards. Yet they did come to an end after a 3 year relationship. And when The Notebook had there reunion, everyone was there but Ryan Gosling. Sad but it shows that romantic movies that are fairytales in reality end just like we do in real life, with heartache & breakups. #relationships #love #advice #counseling #loveyourself #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships There was a guy that married a girl & had a beautiful baby daughter. The girl was young & naive. She loved this guy so much. Showed him love that he never had. Did everything for this man. He treated her horribly. He was verbally & emotionally abusive. She had enough & left. Years later he still mourns to their daughter over her.
There was a guy that was in the Navy. He was out of control in every aspect of his life. He met a girl & became the best man he could possibly be. And was told by his superiors at work. But eventually thought the grass was greener. She had enough & told him to leave. He once again lived a reckless life & lost everything. Years later he asked the girl to take him back.
There was a guy that partied all the time using different drugs. Had no direction. He met a girl & he stopped partying besides social. He got a job & became a family man. He became the best man he could be. Eventually he became reckless in every aspect & the girl finally left. Till this day he wants her back desperately.
There was a guy who met a girl. Went out of his way to get her. Won her heart & became a happier man because of her. Where he was once wounded he felt love. He told her that the only time he was happy was with her. She made him a better man but he was reckless with her heart. Without her he lost everything. The problem is although a man hunts & conquers many not all, slack, take the girl for granted & thinks it's greener on the other side. Which is not. They lose the girl that helped him to be a better man. A girl, once she's in love she's content until the guy shows no interest. She fights for his love without success she'll finally give up. But if this women was a great women that made an impact on there lives it's a big loss. In the case of these 4 guys. They never recovered the loss of this one girl. Was she special? Maybe. Was she me? Absolutely! #karma #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #barbarajeannerelationships
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  •   barbarajeannerelationships Thanks for reading ♡ @mrs_gosdin 4w
  •   olejnikp The lesson here is true love is neither in a man, or in a woman but in God. Because although he, or she may love unconditionally it is only for a season ... there eventually is a time where that love fades, but God's love never dies. 4w
  •   sosochify That how I feel.I gave everything to him and want him to be happy ... But he lied to me and played with my heart ... I told him to leave but I am very sad. I am hurt and I don't know what to do to recover smile. I hope he will regret me but I had to move on and meet someone that can take care of me and love me. Please pray for me ... @barbarajeannerelationships 4w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships I got your message on fb would you like to talk? I can give you my number or we can chat on Facebook. @sosochify I do know what you mean♡ 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Happy New Year's ♡ @kathyt1223 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships I truly agree. You have to leave it in God's hands. For when you do he will do what's best for you. Thank you for your input. Happy New Year's ♡ @olejnikp 3w
  •   olejnikp @barbarajeannerelationships happy new year to you too! :) 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships It's so important to be with someone who you can be yourself. Many times we fall into relationships that are unhealthy. Not because they are verbally or physically abusive but you are afraid to speak. You never win the argument, why? Because they don't care enough. Whatever you say seems to go in 1 ear & out the other. They don't text as they should. Don't call like they should. Seeing you is on their time. Either they are selfish or they don't care enough about you. This bring on a large amount of stress. You are constantly trying to make them love you. Figure out why they don't. Letting you down over & over. This is why it's unhealthy. We have enough stress in life. And then we have to top it off with crying. That empty feeling in you gut. That's your intuition telling you something is wrong. But instead of letting go, many times we try everything to make them love us. This is toxic. Love is feeling loved, feeling wanted. And it should lift you up, not make you unhappy. If this sounds familiar, letting go is easier said than done. But you know eventually it ends. So end it with dignity. With you head held high. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #letitgo #priceless #letitgo #happy #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships When woman loves, we fall hard & we love hard. A man falls but then he steps back & rations the situation. Do I really like her as much as she likes me? I still have feelings for my ex? Yatta, Yatta, Yatta. When women find a new love, the past is left behind. Women may be scared to love. But I believe not from the past but afraid to be hurt from the present love, because they were hurt before. Men hold on to the past many time way too long & it f**KS up every relationship after. Men you have got to let it go. You may pass up a great girl thinking about all the what if's & the ex. So many people are single being too damn picky. Meet people, have fun, there nothing wrong in mingling at any age. Keeping your mind heart & body young, it keeps you going. And the thing about loving yourself before you can love someone else. Ya I don't agree. Sometimes the person you love teaches you how to love, not only you but others. So dive in. It's better love & be loved, than not to love or be love at all. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN YOU FIRST START A RELATIONSHIP LIKE ANYTHING, IT'S FRESH & NEW. EVERYONE ALWAYS LIKE FRESH & NEW. SO WE WANT TO PLAY. WE WANT TO SEE THEM. TALK TO THEM. GETTING TEXTS FROM THEM MAKES YOU SMILE. BUT THERE ALWAYS COMES A TIME IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS THAT THERE IS A CHANGE. WHERE AT ONE TIME THEY COULDN'T GET ENOUGH OF YOU. YOU NOW HAVE FALLEN DOWN THEIR PRIORITIES LIST. THEY HAVE WORK, HOBBIES, FRIENDS. AS YOU GET OLDER THE PERSON MIGHT HAVE CHILDREN. SO WHERE DO YOU FIT IN WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP? IT'S NORMAL NOT TO ALWAYS BE FIRTST. BUT ONE CAN BE AT WORK & SEND YOU A TEXT "HEY I'M THINKING OF YOU". SEE HOW FAST THAT WAS. OR GIVE A QUICK CALL AT LUNCH. SO YOU STILL FEEL LIKE A TOP PRIORITY. MANY DON'T DO THIS. SO IF YOUR NOT. YOU HAVE TO SEE IF THIS PERSON YOU ARE WITH IS HORRIBLE AT MULTI TASKING. OR JUST DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN. THIS YOU NEED TO FIND OUT. BUT BEING ON THE BOTTOM OF YOUR PARTNERS PRIORITY LIST MAKES YOU FEEL CRAPPIE. SO ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION, BE HONEST & YOU HAVE YOU ANSWER. SO NOW WHAT? #advice #guy #girl #relationships #love #loveyourself #counseling #priceless #letitgo #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships IF ANY RELATIONSHIP IS GIVING YOU GRIEF, SADNESS OR HEARTACHE. KNOW THAT THIS IS NO WAY TO LIVE. YOU ARE IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP & NEED TO BOW OUT. YOU SHOULDN'T WAKE UP SAD & MISERABLE EVERYDAY. AND YOU SHOULDN'T CRY YOURSELF TO SLEEP. A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD LIFT YOU. MAKE YOU SMILE, MAKE YOUR HEART SMILE KNOWING SOMEONE LOVES YOU. THE FEELING OF COMFORT, RELAXATION, PEACE. THIS IS WHAT YOU FEEL IN A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO MANY PEOPLE LIVE & STAY IN BAD RELATIONSHIPS. DON'T SETTLE WITH NOT BEING LOVED. DON'T BE AFRAID THAT YOU WON'T MEET ANYONE ELSE. IT'S OK TO LOVE YOURSELF & TO BE ALONE. IT CAN ACTUALLY BE HEALTHY, TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF & BE CONTENT BEING ALONE. BUT THERE WILL COME A TIME THAT YOU WILL WANT SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE. THIS IS SOMETHING YOU CAN GIVE UP TO GOD. RITA WILSON WHO HAS BEEN MARRIED ALL THESE YEARS TO TOM HANKS SAID "I WOULD GO TO CHURCH EVERYDAY & ASKED GOD TO SEND ME SOMEONE GOOD & BOY DID HE LISTEN WHEN HE SENT ME TOM HANKS" GOD SENT ME THE BEST MAN". SO PUT YOUR LIFE IN GOD'S HANDS & HE WILL DO WHAT YOU CAN'T. SOMETIMES WE NEED HELP FINDING A GOOD PERSON. THERE ARE SO MANY BOOBIE PANTS PEOPLE OUT THERE. SO RELAX & LEAVE IT IN GOD'S HANDS. THEY ARE GOOD ONE'S. TRUST ME♡ #relationships #love #counseling #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #priceless #brokenhearted #loveyourself #God #happy #heal #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships THIS IS 4 ANYONE THAT IS MARRIED OR N ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. IT'S SOMETHING WE ALL NEED TO LEARN. 2 PEOPLE START OUT LIKING EVERYTHING ABOUT 1 ANOTHER. SOON YOU 2 ARE BEST FRIENDS. BUT AS YOU GET CLOSER YOU START TO SEE 1 ANOTHERS FLAWS. WERE A GUY SEES A PERSON THAT HE HAS COME TO LOVE. SOMEONE THAT HE CAN TELL HIS SECRETS & ALL HIS HIDDEN CORKS. THE GIRL AS WELL OPENS HER HEART & SOUL TO THIS PERSON SHE LOVES. WHERE YOU 2 ONCE ACCEPTED EVERYTHING ABOUT 1 ANOTHER YOU NOW POINT THEM OUT. ALL THOSE THINGS THAT YOU COULD TELL YOUR PARTNER YOU NO LONGER CAN WITHOUT BEING JUDGED. THIS STARTS THE BEGINNING OF SECRETS. WHERE 2 PEOPLE WHO ONCE SHARED EVERYTHING, NOW IS EITHER BACK TO TELLING THEIR FRIENDS OR MAYBE SOMEONE NEW THAT SEEMS TO COME INTO THE PICTURE. GIRLS TEND TO BECOME MOTHERS & BOSSY & GUYS TEND TO SHOW LITTLE CARE 4 THIS GIRL. THE GIRL HE LOVED & TOLD EVERYTHING TO. WE NEED TO KEEP THE FUN, ROMANCE & LOVE IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS. THIS MEANS NO JUDGMENT. REMEMBER YOU LOVE THIS PERSON & THERE IS NO REASON TO POINT OUT EACH OTHERS FLAWS. THIS MAKES THE PERSON YOU LOVE FEEL SHITTY. YOU NEED TO BE EACH OTHERS BEST FRIEND, LOVER. AND ANYTHING NEGATIVE TELL IT TO THEM WITH CARE. NOT IN A COMBATIVE WAY. IF YOU DO THIS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL EVENTUALLY END. THIS GOES FOR PARENTS, EVEN THOSE NEW PARENTS. YOU NEED TO HAVE GROWN UP TIME. TIME AS A COUPLE. ALTHOUGH IT MAY BE HARDER; BUT IT'S A NECESSITY. REMEMBER YOU ARE PARTNERS, A TEAM. WHEN YOU STAY AS SUCH, YOU WILL HAS A GREATER CHANCE FOR A HEALTHIER, HAPPIERS LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. 1mon

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