barbarajeannerelationships Today's rules of marriage or a lifetime partner seems to have changed or be a thing of the past. There is no longer lifetime romance or I can't live without you for always & forever. Relationships seems to end 6 months if it even last that long. If it does last & turns from lust to love why are couple's so fast to throw in the towel. Could it be like the old saying "the grass is greener on the other side" but is it? People say it's hard to find a good man or woman, but when we do find them, we seem not to want it. It's like we are children & we get bored of a toy & throw it aside for the new one. Is it men that have changed or are women willing to accept less? Are men simply satisfied going to work, doing their weekly agenda & seeing their love interest when they're n need of affection intimacy or maybe just sex. Is dating the new commitment? Is romance dead? Is it too late to bring it back? How can we get back on the same page? It might be too much to ask a guy to come to our rescue as a knight & shining armor. But maybe if women as a whole wouldn't accept anything but more, we might just get romance back in our men. I can't speak for all women, just hopeless romantics like me. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heartbroken #relationship #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2d

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barbarajeannerelationships WE FALL IN LOVE. GUYS FALL & WHEN IT BECOMES A ROUTINE THEY SLACK. THEY LIKE TO PLAY SO WHATEVER IT IS THAT KEEPS THEM PREOCCUPIED THAT'S WHERE THEY FOCUS. SPORTS, VIDEO GAMES, FRIENDS. NOW GIRLS WHEN WE LOVE. WE LOVE MORE BY THE MINUTE WE DON'T KNOW WHEN TO LET GO. WE HOLD, CAN'T LET GO & CAN'T ACCEPT NOT TO BE WITH THIS PERSON WHO WE WANT, LOVE CAN'T SEE OURSELVES WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT IF YOU DON'T LET GO YOU ARE GOING TO BE DRAG THROUGH SHIT THAT WILL BRUISE YOUR MIND HEART & SOUL. RIP YOU TO SHREDS. NO ONE IS WORTH THAT. IF IT'S HAPPENING IT'S BECAUSE THE PERSON DRAGGING YOU DOESN'T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU. SO GET UP, DUST YOURSELF OFF. TURN AROUND ONCE "SAY "YOU F**CKING ASSWHOLE" & WALK AWAY. WITH YOUR CHIN UP. BECAUSE WHAT YOU DID WAS HARD AS HELL. BUT KEEP WALKING IT GETS BETTER. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #love #care #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever 2d

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY PEOPLE DON'T KNOW HOW TO CARRY A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. HOW? BE ABLE TO CARRY A CONVERSATION THIS CREATES THE WANT TO TALK TO YOU. HAVE A FUN KICK ASS TIME WHEN YOU'RE TOGETHER. THIS WILL KEEP THEM WANTING TO SEE YOU. KNOW HOW TO USE YOUR SEXUALITY TO CREATE THE DESIRE TO ENTICE THEM TO WANT YOUR BODY.THIS WELL MAKE THEM GRAVE YOU. HAVE SUBSTANCE & YOUR OWN HOBBIES. DON'T ASK WHERE YOU GOING, WHAT YOU'RE DOING, WHO YOU'RE WITH, THAT'S ANNOYING. DON'T BE ALL UP IN THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS. THE MORE YOU'RE COOL ABOUT THINGS THE MORE THEY'LL WANT TO SHARE THEIR LIFE. BE THEIR FRIEND. THEIR BEST FRIEND & IT WILL GIVE THEM THE WANT TO HAVE YOU HAS THIER PARTNER. THE WANT IS VERY IMPORTANT. HOW IMPORTANT? WELL EITHER THEY WANT YOU OR NOT. SEE HOW IMPORTANT IT IS. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY RELATIONSHIPS NOW A DAYS ARE THESE HALF ASS, DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. IT'S MORE LIKE 2 PEOPLE WHO COME TOGETHER, HOOK UP & GO ON THIER WAY.I HAVE TO SAY IT'S SOME SORT OF RELATIONSHIP BUT NOT A HEALTHY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. MANY TIMES YOU CAN'T DEPEND ON THIS PERSON TO BE THERE FOR YOU. MOST TIMES THESE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THE GIRL GETS EMOTIONALLY HOOKED & THE GUYS MOVES ON TO A GIRL & GET INTO A MORE SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. SO GIRLS IF YOU FEEL CARE, LOVE OR ARE STALKING THIS PERSON'S PAGES ONLINE BUT FEEL FUNNY TO PICK UP THE PHONE OR TEXT & WORSE OFF YOU HAVE TEXTED & THEY HAVE NOT ANSWERED. DON'T GIVE YOUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU & YOUR VAGINA" . DON'T BE USED FOR SEX & WHEN THEY ARE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEY GO WITH ANOTHER. THEN YOU'LL FEEL DEEPLY CRUSHED & USED. 5d

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barbarajeannerelationships PEOPLE ASK ME "WHEN WILL I STOP LOVING HIM (OR HER) IT FEELS LIKE IT'S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. I SAY "OH BUT IT WILL". THEY SAY BUT WHEN". I SAY "I DON'T KNOW WHEN BUT IT WILL HAPPEN & YOU'LL KNOW". SO MANY PEOPLE LOVE THE WRONG PERSON. BUT ONCE YOU HAVE FALLEN IT'S SO HARD TO GET OUT. GIRLS FALL SO HARD. WE BELIEVE, WE PUT HOPE IN THIS PERSON WHO WE HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR. WE'D GIVE EVERYTHING & ANYTHING. WE CRY, WE GET PUT IN AWKWARD SHITTY SITUATION & WE EVEN LOOK LIKE FOOLS. BUT 99% OF THE TIME WHEN A WOMEN IS DONE SHE'S DONE. THAT'S THE DIFFERENCE WITH GUYS. GUYS GIVE THEN GET LAZY, BORED & NOT ONLY UNTIL THEIR PARTNER LEAVES DO THEY FEEL HEARTBROKEN. GEEZ THAT'S WHAT IT? BUT WHAT HAPPENED IF WE COULD GET IN SYNC? COULD WE PULL A RELATIONSHIP OFF, THE FOREVER & ALWAYS? 5d

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barbarajeannerelationships DID YOU EVER REALIZE THAT THE PEOPLE YOU REALLY LIKE YOU DO SUMMERSAULTS TRYING TO KEEP THEM HAPPY. WE DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THEY WOULD ACCEPT US FOR WHO WE ARE BECAUSE WE DON'T EVEN WANT TO TAKE THAT CHANGE. TO LET THEM SEE US MESSY, UNRAVELLED. I HAD THIS GUY THAT I MET ABOUT 3 MONTHS BEFORE I HAD MY BRAIN ANEURYSM. HE WAS LITERALLY IN BED WITH ME AT THE HOSPITAL FOR A FULL MONTH. AS TIME WENT ON I KNOW HE CARED BUT NOT LIKE ONE SHOULD. HE LOVE THE HAPPY ME.THAT DRESSED TO IMPRESS & MADE HIM LAUGH ME. OH & LETS NOT FORGET THE AWESOME SEX THAT HE SAID IT WAS THE BEST SEX HE EVER HAD. BUT WHEN I NEEDED HELP CARRYING THE AIR CONDITIONER I BOUGHT. HELPING ME CARRY & PUT TOGETHER MY FUTON, NOT THERE. 28 TIMES IN THE HOSPITAL, 8 SURGERIES I CAN COUNT THE TIMES HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL. I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 6 YEARS. WHAT A WASTE. WHY AM I TELLING YOU SOMETHING SO INTIMATE. LOVE IS MESSY, HARD & AWESOME BUT IN YOUR HEART YOU ALWAYS KNOW AT SOME POINT IF IT'S RIGHT OR NOT. WHEN YOU KNOW IT'S RIGHT GIVE IT YOUR ALL & HAVE A BALL. WHEN YOU KNOW IT'S WRONG LET IT GO. EVENTUALLY IT WILL COME TO AN END & ALL YOU'LL HAVE IS HEARTACHE. STOP WASTING TIME. WE ALL SAY WE HAVE NOTHING BUT TIME. BUT WE DON'T KNOW THAT. WE DO KNOW THAT WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. LIVE TO BE LOVE NOT CHASING, HEARTBROKEN OR IN A FUCKED UP MESS. BE HAPPY. FIND THAT PERSON THAT LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY & LOVE. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #love #care #kiss #you #heartbroken #barbarajeannerelationships 6d

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barbarajeannerelationships WHY IS THERE ALWAYS THAT ONE PERSON THAT WE LOVE. NOT THAT THEY EVEN DESERVE ALL OUR LOVE. MOST TIMES THESE ARE THE ONE'S MOST LIKELY DON'T DERSEVE ANYTHING. BUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON WE CAN'T STOP LOVING THEM. ALMOST AS IF THEY ARE A MAGNET. THAT WE CAN'T STAY AWAY FROM. SO WHAT DO WE DO LOVE THEM? WAIT TO SEE IF THEY COME AROUND? HELL NO. WHAT DID YOU THINK I WAS GOING TO TELL YOU TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU? NOW DOESN'T THAT SOUND STUPID. WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU LOVE A PERSON WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #sadness 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships TODAY'S DATING IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN YEARS PRIOR. IT WAS EASIER WHEN YOU WOULD SEE SOMEONE THAT YOU LIKED. IT WAS FACE TO FACE SO THERE WAS NO HIDING WHO YOU WERE, WHAT YOU LOOKED LIKE & YOUR REAL PERSONALITY. NOT THE BRAVERY SOME SEEM TO HAVE BEHIND THE COMPUTER. TODAY MANY PEOPLE SEEM TO HAVE & WANT MORE THAN ONE. THEY WILL SAY HI CUTIE WHEN AM I GOING TO MEET YOU? MANY TIMES THEY ARE SAYING THOSE SAME EXACT WORDS TO MANY OTHERS NOT EVEN HAVING ANY INTENTIONS OF EVEN MEETING. SO YOU DO MEET & YOU TAKE A LIKING TO ONE ANOTHER. BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN WHEN THING WERE GOING GREAT. WELL AT LEAST YOU THOUGHT SO. YOU AREN'T HEARING FROM YOUR NEW ROMANTIC FRIEND WITH BENEFITS. YOU GET THIS FEELING THEY MIGHT BE HOOKING UP WITH OTHERS. EWH RIGHT! SO WHAT DO YOU DO NOW? WELL LET'S WINED THIS BACK A BIT. FIRST DON'T GIVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH THIS PERSON IF YOU CARE FOR. ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR FIRST MEETING. SECOND NEVER EVER BECOME PLAN B. IF YOU SETTLE SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE YOU WILL GET HURT. SO SPEAK UP. IF THEY'RE DODGING YOUR CALLS & TEXT LET IT GO. THAT'S SO RUDE OF THEM. IT MAKES ME WANT TO SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF THEM. KNOW YOUR WORTH... PLAN A & DON'T ACCEPT OR GET USED TO ANYTHING LESS. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #happiness #romantic # guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #love #barbarajeannerelationships 2w
  •   htodak2 @barbarajeannerelationships - My thoughts and intentions exactly. Couldn't respect me enough to tell the truth- then I don't need to hear anymore. I know my #self worth and if he doesn't see what I brought to the table-he can eat alone 2w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Stay strong and I'm here if you get weak to remind you he's such a scrumbag & dick. So disrespectful towards you. He'll miss yoy. S good girl is hard to find. But do not pick up that phone. You'll both be going bsck n forth for nothing. The only way for you to get him to never do thst again if you choose to go back is to know that he had top work on getting you back. If you accept it he'll do it again and again. Keep n touch and let me know please @htodak2 2w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships I always glad to see you on my page. . Means a lot. Thanks sweetheart xo @j_a_k_6 2w
  •   sherry_franklin Well we live in fl. He has soo many girls trying to get with him he has not tried to get back or get with her she is unfortunately Ill I hope getting proper medical care. He is traumatized and now terrified of another relationship 3rd time burned I'm not going to allow him to give up I try to tell him that there is love out there I know because of the love I found when I found a wonderful man with a beautiful baby boy that showed me true love that I had never been given now it took 5 years to get me to marry him he had to ask 3 times my first love and husband was extremely abusive broken bones kind of abuse I escaped that with a suitcase full of clothes and my life.i was terrified to give myself to trust to be but love for my boys and their protective love was so real I learned to give my heart to them and trust that it would be returned. I'm interviewing all his potential partners and hoping for the one to come 2w
  •   alohadanhawaii I Just wanted to say that what you do is amazing! Mind if I give you a \Hug/! Hope your having a wonderful day 1w
  •   misunderstood071991 Thank you :'( I needed to hear this 1w
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  •   misunderstood071991 I'm numb. I've been heart broken three times already, yes I'm 23 but I've been through too much at such a young age, choices yes, not feeling bad for myself as much as I am trying to change the type of man I choose to love,... why do I keep attracting these heartless assholes? he broke my heart twice within a year, he blew me off n stopped talking to me around Christmas n now stopped talking to me again, idk WHAT I did, he just ignores me, Not fair, sucks, Bc all I asked for was communication, I wrote a novel to him trying to make him understand how I felt n I got nothing, why?? I don't understand, when he says he doesn't understand his advice is "he's foreign" any advice ladies or gentleman??? 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships MEN ARE VERY VISUAL, THAT IS WHAT FIRST CATCHES THEIR EYE. SECOND IS A GOOD PERSONALITY. THEY ACTUALLY WANT A BEST FRIEND THAT THEY CAN HAVE FUN WITH & NOT JUDGE THEM. WHEN YOU ENTER YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP OR THE ONE YOU'RE IN GIVE IT A SHOT. P.S. ANOTHER TIP; WHEN YOU HAVE A GOOD KIND PERSONALITY MAKES YOU APPEALING & MORE BEAUTIFUL TO A GUY. SO IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT THE LOOKS WHEN A GUY FALLS. OH & HAVING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER HELPS. NOT COMPLETELY NECESSARY, BUT CONFIDENT THAT YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IS A TURN ON. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #love #care 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MAN & A WOMEN? A WOMAN FALLS IN LOVE, NO GAMES. SHE IN WITHOUT DOUBT. NOW A GUY HE'S IN, OUT, UNSURE, ALL DIFFERENT FEELINGS. A GIRL WILL MAKE A FOOL OF HERSELF TO PROVE HOW MUCH SHE LOVES HER MAN. BUT A MAN PULLS BACK, BUT COMES FORWARD WHEN HE KNOWS HE HAS SOMEONE OF VALUE TO HIM. NOW HERE'S THE THING. THE GIRL HAS HER LATE NIGHT CRIES, SLEEPLESS NIGHTS & HAS HER DOUBTS OF WHY HE DOESN'T WANT HER. BUT ONE DAY FOR SOME REASON SHE STOPS CRYING & IS ABLE TO MOVE ON. NOW A MAN DIDN'T KNOW HOW MUCH HE TRULY LOVED HERNUNTIL SHE'S DONE & GONE. NOW HE GRIEVES. BUT WHERE A WOMEN WANTS TO LOVE & CAN MOVE ON. IT TAKES A MAN A LONG TIME TO HEAL. SOMETIMES A LIFETIME. WE AREN'T CHILDREN. WE NEED TO PUT ALL THE GAMES ASIDE & TREAT THE PERSON YOU ARE PERUSING WITH THE UP MOST CARE & LOVE. YOU MAY BE PASSING UP THE RIGHT PERSON BECAUSE YOUR SO SCATTERED WITH QUANTITY INSTEAD OF QUALITY. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE IT MAY SAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships THE FEELING OF BEING IN LOVE IS SUCH AN AMAZING FEELiNG. WE TARNISH IT WITH HATEFUL WORDS, HURTFUL ACTIONS & LITTLE CARE. DIDN'T YOUR MOTHER TELL YOU, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY THEN KEEP YOUR DAMN MOUTH SHUT. WELL I ADDED THE LAST PART. BUT IF WE DIDN'T TRY TO HURT THE PERSON WE LOVE TO THE CORE, ANIMOSITY WOULDN'T START & GET TO THE EXTREME. MOST LIKELY THERE WOULD STILL BE UNTARNISHED HEALTHY LOVE. LET'S STOP WITH THE HATING & THE HURTING ACTIONS & WORDS & KEEP THE LOVE WE WANT WHERE IT SHOULD BE CLOSE TO OUR HEARTS. #loveyourself #life #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN GIRLS FALL IN LOVE WE FALL HARD. WE SEEM TO GIVE & GIVE & OUR PARTNER SEEMS TO TAKE & TAKE. BUT ONE DAY LIKE EVERYTHING IT GETS OLD TO GIVE & NOT RECEIVE. IT FEELS SHITTY TO LOVE BUT NOT FEEL THAT LOVE IN RETURN. WHEN GIRLS GET TIRED & LOSE INTEREST WE'RE DONE. WE MIGHT THINK ABOUT IT. WE EVEN MIGHT TRY. BUT MOST TIMES IT DOESN'T MATTER ALL WE EVENTUALLY REMEMBER IS THE HURT, THE PAIN. SO WHEN WE FINALLY LET GO. WERE GONE & MOST TIMES IT'S FOR GOOD. #loveyourself #life #love #care #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags 2w
  •   elvi__1 @ben_upenya food for thought! 😐 2w
  •   just_alexxxis I'm finally letting go of my, now 2years, guy!!!! Ex then back then ex then back and now..... It's STILL the same probs. Truth of matter is, as we are not going to change our certain habits for anyone or thing, a guy won't either. If it's embedded in him, his core is made of this...... Smh but it's the truth. So unless you accept the meanness no need to continue on thinking he might "change". He won't change for you he won't change for Noone any time soon. And by the time he IS ready to change, he won't have changed too much... 2w
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  •   lovefaithnrose Been there done that!!! 2w
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barbarajeannerelationships MOST PEOPLE DON'T LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS HEALTHY, FULL OF TENDER LOVE & CARE. WE DON'T LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS FILLED WITH FUN, LAUGHTER & JOY. NOW OF COURSE EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS ITS UPS & DOWNS & BUMPS. BUT IF SOMEONE DOES WANT OUT MANY TIMES IT'S NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE DOING RIGHT BY THEM. PROBABLY YOU HANDED THEM ALL THE FUEL, LACK OF TLC & NO REASON TO STAY. MANY PEOPLE THINK ONCE YOU ARE A COUPLE YOU CAN SLACK. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT IF YOU WANT TO BE ALONE. IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOING NO ONE HAS TO TELL YOU. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. IF YOU DON'T KNOW? DO WHAT YOU DID TO GET YOUR PARTNER TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. NOTHING HAS CHANGED. WHY WOULD YOU TREAT THEM DIFFERENTLY? LOVE IS LIKE A PLANT. YOU DON'T WATER IT. IT DIES. YOU CAN REPLACE A PLANT BUT SOMETIMES YOU'LL NEVER FIND A PERSON LIKE YOU LOST. DON'T BE IN THE POSITION THAT YOU'LL KICK YOURSELF. DO THE RIGHT THING, PERIOD! #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #happiness #romantic #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships I WANT EVERYONE TO ASK THEMSELVES IF THEY KNOW HOW TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP? HOW TO CONDUCT THEMSELVES FROM MEETING TO COURTING & THEN INTO A FULL YOU & ME =WE RELATIONSHIP? IF YOU WERE TO KNOW THE SECRET THAT WOULD GIVE YOU A HUGE ADVANTAGE ON ACHIEVING THIS WOULD YOU WANT TO KNOW? MANY PEOPLE EITHER CAN'T FIND, CAN'T KEEP & OR SAY IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE IT TO LONG TERM. MOST OF US TRULY WANT THAT REMARKABLE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH RELATIONSHIP. WE WANT TO FEEL THAT SOMEONE LOVES US THAT MUCH. BECAUSE AS I SAID IT BEFORE "WHILE LOVE DOES LAST IT FEELS FU*KING UNBELIEVABLE & KNOW THERE IS YOUR OTHER HALF OUT THERE. BUT WHEN YOU THINK YOU DO FIND THEM. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THEM TO KEEP THEM? JUST ASKING #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships THERE IS AN SONG FROM THE 80's THAT SAID THIS EXACTLY. "HE WANTS HER, BUT SHE WANTS HIM & HE WANTS SOMEONE ELSE YOU JUST CANT WIN". BUT TO FIND A TRUE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP & LOVE WE NEED TO LEARN TO FIND LOVE WITH THE PERSON WHO WANTS US. OR WOULD FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE. SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE CONSISTENT IN YOU ARE THE PERSON THAT THEY WANT, PERIOD. MANY TIMES WE WANT WHO WE WANT & WE SAY WE'RE NOT GOING TO SETTLE. BUT SETTLING WOULD BE GOING FOR A PERSON WHO TREATS YOU BADLY, NOT SOMEONE WHO WOULD GIVE YOU THE WORLD. YES YOU NEED CHEMISTRY BUT IT WOULD BE HEALTHIER IN THE LONG RUN TO LOVE A PERSON WHO'S CRAZY ABOUT YOU. OPEN YOUR HEART & EYES TO ALL OPTIONS. THE PERSON YOU NEED MAY BE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, OR RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER. STOP CHASING A PERSON WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU. LOVE IS NOT A GAME OF TAG. IT'S REAL WITH FEELINGS & DON'T YOU WANT TO BE LOVED & TREATED LIKE YOU SHOULD? STOP CHASING A DREAM & START LOVING WHAT COULD BE REALITY, A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. 3w
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  •   anjauregui You're soo right about chasing love. But I'd rather be alone than with someone who I'm not crazy about. 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Oh sweetie of course you don't want to be with someone you can't stomach. But when you open your eyes and heart to people someone that you would never give a thought to might be the one you never know. Sometimes I'm like picky and I have this guy that is such a good guy that it would be crazy to go for something more exciting. Everyone gets old or annoying but someone that adore you can make you say yah he's a good one @anjauregui @mizzsiza @devonna89 @lucile_55 @lovelyyem @missdagmara @lucile_55 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Oh sweetie of course you don't want to be with someone you can't stomach. But when you open your eyes and heart to people someone that you would never give a thought to might be the one you never know. Sometimes I'm like picky I have this guy that is such a good guy that it would be crazy to go for something more exciting. Everyone gets old or annoying but someone that adore you can make you say yah he's a good one.@lovefaithnrose @f.y.r1 @rubyruby_woo @niyo275 @femmemonde @4youreyezonly7 @quinfixie3 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Oh sweetie of course you don't want to be with someone you can't stomach. But when you open your eyes and heart to people someone that you would never give a thought to might be the one you never know. Sometimes I'm like picky I have this guy that is such a good guy that it would be crazy to go for something more exciting. Everyone gets old or annoying but someone that adore you can make you say yah he's a good one.@yoly2005 @aberisha84 @mayavamp I'm here if you need. Stay strong.you do know your worth 3w
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barbarajeannerelationships YOU BREAK UP, HAVE A FIGHT OR MAYBE YOU'RE JUST CONFUSED WITH WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP. WHAT'S GOING ON IN THEIR HEAD. ALL YOU KNOW IS YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT. KEEP IT SIMPLE. IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU NEED TO GET THE F*CK OUT. WHY YOU ASK? BECAUSE LOVE....LOVE YOU FEEL, PERIOD! #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 3w
  •   rememberme_911 Tbh I can relate to this quote so much right now lol but anyway ur so pretty n I love seeing your posts. 3w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Thanks beautiful. And I am always here if you need. Remember no matter how you feel don't allow anyone to make you not feel beautiful because you are. 3w
  •   j_a_k_6 I'm from arabian gulf 3w
  •   princesse_j_ If you can't feel love and start questioning; it's a clear sign your innate soul knows something is not right and it's guiding you. So, trust that gut and take that chance and trust that there will always something better out there 3w
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  •   barbarajeannerelationships Absolutely right sweetie. Good words♡ @princesse_j_ 3w
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barbarajeannerelationships THIS IS FOR ALL GUYS TO MAKE ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP'S YOU HAVE SMOOTHER. IF YOU ARE NOT FEELING A GIRL & YOU KNOW THEY ARE FEELING YOU. SHHH...DON'T SAY A WORD. ANYTHING YOU SAY GIRLS HOLD ONTO IT & TO THEM IT MEANS WAY MORE. IT MEANS THERE IS A CHANCE FOR YOU 2. IF YOU MAKE EXCUSES GIRLS THINK THERE IS A CHANCE. ANYTHING & EVERYTHING YOU SAY MAKES GIRLS BELIEVE THERE IS A CHANCE. SO THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GO AWAY. GIRLS IF A GUY IS NOT TALKING TO YOU & BASICALLY IT'S ALL YOU, CHANCES ARE THEY ARE NOT INTO YOU & LET IT GO. NO NEED TO ASK WHAT ANYTHING MEANS BECAUSE IF THEY WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEY WILL & YOU BETTER BELIEVE YOU'LL KNOW IT. SO GUY'S ONCE AGAIN SHHH...DON'T SAY A WORD! #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships ONE THING THAT I KEEP IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT I EVER HAD IS TO ALWAYS HAVE FUN & LAUGHTER WITH MY PARTNER. MANY COUPLES STOP THE SILLY GOOFY THINGS THAT YOU ONCE HAD & GET TOO SERIOUS. YOU NEED TO HAVE THE WANT IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO SURVIVE. THE WANT TO SEE EACH OTHER. THE WANT TO SPEND TIME TOGETHER, TO HOLD YOU, KISS YOU & THE LIST GOES ON. BUT CREATING IT IS NECESSARY. SO HAVE FUN.ENJOY ONE ANOTHER & TREAT YOUR PARTNER AS A BEST FRIEND. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY SHOULD BE. THE NAGGING, BITCHING & FIGHTING SOMETIMES CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. SO CHOOSE YOU FIGHTS & BICKERING TO A MINIMUM. WHEN YOU DO HAVE A GRIPE, SAY IT ONCE & LET IT GO. IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE YOUR PARTNER. LOVE THEM & LET THINGS BE AS THEY WILL. IF THEY CARE THEY'LL HEAR EVERY WORD THAT YOU SAY. #loveyourself #life #happines #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #laugh #fun #we #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHY IS IT NOW A DAYS MANY PEOPLE FIND IT SO HARD TO COMMIT. THEY WANT TO KEEP THINGS AT BAY. THEY MAY WANT YOU THERE BUT JUST NOT "THE YOU & ME FOREVER. SO IT MAY BE A BOOTY CALL. OR A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP. WHERE THEY SEE YOU OCCASIONALLY. BUT WHAT THIS REALLY DOES IT GIVES THEM WHAT THEY WANT. SOME TLC & SEX. SO WHY WOULD THEY HAVE TO COMMIT. ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE. GIVING THEM VARIETY. HAVE MORE PRIDE. HAVE MORE SELF WORTH FOR YOURSELF. HOW TO GET A PERSON IS LAUGH, HAVE A BLAST. BECOME BESTS FRIENDS & WANT THAT COMMITMENT EVEN IF IT'S NOT FOREVER. KNOW THAT WHILE YOU ARE DIGGING THEM THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE. BECAUSE TO ME COMMUNITY SEX WHERE YOUR HAVING SEX WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE THEN BACK TO ME. THAT iS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. DON'T BE AN OPTION. WHILE YOUR RELATIONSHIP DOES LAST. #loveyourself #life #love #laugh #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships THIS TO ME IS ONE OF LIFE'S GREATEST FEELINGS. THAT MOMENT WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE BOTH FALLEN IN LOVE. IT'S EVEN GREATER WHEN YOU HEAR "I LOVE YOU FROM THIS PERSON WHOM YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH. THAT CONNECTION THAT THE PERSON WHO YOU LOVE HOLDS YOU DEAR & NEAR TO THEIR HEART. THIS FEELING IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. BUT HOW CAN WE KEEP THIS FEELINGS FROM CHANGING? YOU HAVE TO MAINTAIN & ACT WHO YOU ARE WHEN YOU TWO MET. YOU NEED TO GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO LAUGH & STAY BEST FRIENDS. THIS GIVES YOU A GREATER CHANCE TO SUCCEED. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship 4w

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