barbarajeannerelationships HOW IS IT WE PASS MANY PEOPLE EVERY DAY WITH NO CONNECTION. WE MEET PEOPLE ONLINE WITH NO CONNECTION. IF WE DO MEET YOUR ONLINE INTEREST MOST OF THE TIME THERE IS NO CONNECTION. YET WHY IS IT WHEN WE SEE THAT SPECIAL PERSON SMILE AT US ACROSS THE ROOM YOU FEEL THE CONNECTION? I ONCE SAW A GUY ON A DATE ACROSS THE BAR DURING FOOTBALL SEASON. THE LIGHTS WERE BRIGHT & HE KEPT SMILING AT ME. BUT SADLY I LEFT. ON A DIFFERENT NIGHT I WAS OUT & A GUY CAME TO EAT IN A PUB & SAT IN THE STOOL NEXT TO ME. HE WAS EATING WHEN I TURNED TO HIM & HE SAID OMG I WENT TO THAT BAR WHERE I FIRST SAW YOU LOOKING FOR YOU. IT WAS DEAD SO I CAME HERE & YOUR HERE. YOU ARE. WE WERE TOGETHER 6 YEARS. YEAH THAT'S THE SAD PART PEOPLE CHANGE, SHIT HAPPENS, THAT SHIT IS CALLED LIFE. FORGIVE MY FRENCH. #loveyourself #love #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #relationship 1d

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barbarajeannerelationships GIRLS WE NEED TO LIGHTEN UP IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS. WE'RE A BUNDLE OF FUN WHEN YOU FIRST MEET YOUR PARTNER. BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE GIRLS BECOME A NAG, A MOM & LOSE THE FRIENDSHIP THAT EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS. A GUY WILL HAVE THE WANT TO BE AROUND YOU IF THEY KNOW YOU ARE THEIR PARTNER & NOT GOING TO SCOLDED. TREATING THEM AS A CHILD INSTEAD OF A GROWN UP WILL EVENTUALLY BACK FIRE. YOU AREN'T HERE TO MOLD OR CHANGE YOUR PARTNER, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THAT MEANS YOU ARE A COUPLE.& DO KNOW YOU GET MORE WITH SOFTNESS THEN ACTING LIKE YOU'RE A BOSS. SO PUT AWAY THE BROOMSTICK & HAVE A NIGHT OF LAUGHTER & FUN iT DOES WONDERS FOR A RELATIONSHIP. OF COURSE YOU WILL HAVE DISAGREEMENTS BUT HOW YOU HANDLE IT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #relationship #forever #fun #laugh 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships THE PROBLEM IS WE DON'T WANT THE PERSON WHO WANTS TO BE WITH US. THE ONE THAT WANTS TO GIVE US THE MOON & THE STARS. WE WANT THE ONE THAT IS MAKING IT CLEAR THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN US. THE ONE THAT BREAKS OUR HEARTS CONSTANTLY. THE PERSON WHO BREAKS US DOWN & MAKES US FEEL SHITTY. HOW F**KED UP IS THAT. WE NEED TO STOP & LEARN TO BECOME MENTALLY HEALTHY TO WANT SOMEONE THAT WANTS TO LOVE US. NOT SOMEONE WE WANT TO LOVE. WHEN WE LEARN THAT IS WHEN WE WILL FIND REAL LOVE & A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. & DON'T SAY THAT'S NOT WHO YOU WANT. NO! THEY YOU LOVE DRAMA. YOU WANT TO CRY TO YOUR FRIENDS & ASK WHAT EVERYTHING MEANS. LET ME TELL YOU SO IT'S CLEAR. THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU. & DON'T WANT YOU. IF THEY WANTED TO BE WITH YOU THEY WOULD. PERIOD!!!#loveyourself #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships #relationship #closure #happiness 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships THE THINGS WE GIRLS (&GUYS) CAN COME UP WITH & DO FOR THE PERSON WE LOVE. HERE ARE SOME OF MINE IN MY YOUNGER STUPID YEARS. I'D MAKE THEM TAPES WITH THEIR FAVORITE SONGS. DROVE AN HOUR AWAY TO THEIR HOUSE WHEN THEY CALLED ME AT 11PM & TOLD ME THEY MISSED ME. MADE PHOTO ALBUMS OF MYSELF BECAUSE IF THEY DIDN'T WANT TO SEE ME IN PERSON THEY WOULD HAVE A PICS OF ME. NOT 1 BUT A BOOK FULL. OH BOY. I COULD GO ON & ON. WHAT'S WORSE IS I'VE DONE THIS OVER & OVER FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE. UGH! AND THE ONES I HAVE THE HEALTHIEST RELATIONSHIPS WITH ARE THOSE I DON'T TRY AT ALL. JUST SIMPLY BEING MYSELF. SO BE YOU & THAT ALONE WILL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON. DOING ALL THOSE CRAZY THINGS DOESN'T HELP. ESPECIALLY IN THE LONG RUN. IN THE LONG RUN THEY HAVE TO WANT YOU, LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO BE WITH YOU. ALL THOSE IDIOTIC THINGS DOESN'T HELP, PERIOD! #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #redflags #unhealthy 5d
  •   pollypokit I finally found him @barbarajeannerelationships and you're so right - I'm just me and my crazy self and he accepts it and loves me for me! Without me even trying! It's the best. Like you said - trust your intuition as it never lies! When you know you know 4d
  •   audaciouspurpose Preach @barbarajeannerelationships We need to take the time to care for and uplift ourselves. #liveyouraudaciouspurpose All of that effort can go into creating and appreciating someone wonderful. You! 4d
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  •   slim1956 I know, our younger days were truly crazy ones, those days are gone, now it's if you don't want to see me..see ya..I 've got no time for your BS..girl..lifes to short for all of that now, quite frankly I'm very happy without a man..for now..just weeding through the waste of my time pile..I'm happy spending time with my family and friends..life is good..no drama☆4d
  •   slim1956 Hi Barbara, I was so happy to hear from you, I hope all is well with you and the man drama, it's my bedtime but I just wanted to stop by to let you know that I haven't forgotten you, so good night from me in Hampton, Virginia (eastern Virgina), water, water every where, you'd love it, big hugs, kisses and love dear friend, take care..I'll be back as soon as I get a chance to visit longer 4d
  •   andreasixxz The unfortunate truth 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN A F**KED UP RELATIONSHIP, TOUGHEN UP. ENOUGH OF LETTING THIS PERSON MAKE YOU FEEL SHITTY, CRY OR WORTHLESS. STOP WASTING PRECIOUS TIME ON DUMB ASS PEOPLE. SEE PEOPLE USUALLY KNOW WHEN SOMEONE IS SO SMITTEN & IN LOVE WITH THEM, YET THEY ALLOW YOU TO BE BAFFLED, STAY UNSURE OR THEY MIGHT LIKE YOU AROUND TO MAKE THEM FEEL BETTER, FOR BACKUP OR IF THEY ARE IN NEED OF A LITTLE TLC. THEY SHOULD BE UP FRONT & HONEST. TELL YOU NO ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU & ME, NEVER EVER. THEN WE CAN MOVE ON & STOP WITH THE GUESSING GAME OF WHAT DOES THAT MEAN. OR DO THEY LIKE ME. YOU HAVE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO. WHAT? ANYTHING BUT WASTE ANYMORE TIME ON A PERSON WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU! YOU ARE TOO PRECIOUS. REMEMBER THAT ALWAYS #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 7d

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barbarajeannerelationships WHAT I HAVE NOTICED IN MY LIFETIME IS THAT WHEN I SHOW AN OVERABUNDANCE OF WANTING A PERSON IT'S A NO GO. WHEN I'M DONE & REALLY DON'T GIVE A SHIT HERE THEM COME BACK SAYING THEY MISS ME. ISN'T THAT A JOY. WHEN I WAS THERE THEY IGNORED ME. NOW THAT I'M GONE THEY WANT ME. HELL YA I KNOW THAT I'M THE BEST YOU EVER HAD OR WILL EVER HAVE. BUT YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE & LIKE HELL WILL I GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE TO STOMP ON MY HEART. HOW DO I KNOW YOU WILL? YOU'RE STILL YOU. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #heart #hurt #pain #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE SEEM TO ALWAYS WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. THE PERSON WHO IS UNREACHABLE. THE PERSON THAT WE HAVE DONE SO MUCH FOR. WHEN I LOVE, I GIVE MY ALL. I PUT MY HEART INTO IT COMPLETELY. BUT MANY OF US DO. IT SEEMS THAT BOTH PEOPLE START OUT ON THE SAME LEVEL OF GIVING, CARING & LOVING. BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE IT BECOMES UNEVEN. WE FEEL THE CHANGE & WE TRY EVEN HARDER. BUT EVENTUALLY WE GET TIRED & THROW IN THE TOWEL. THEN SOMEWHERE DOWN THE ROAD THE PERSON THAT YOU TRIED SO HARD TO MAKE THEM LOVE YOU DECIDES THEY, WANT YOU & COMES CALLING. MANY TIMES THEY HAVEN'T CHANGED. SO GIVE IT THOUGHT IF GOING BACKWARDS IS WHAT YOU WANT. SOME PEOPLE LEARN. OTHERS JUST WANT HOW SPECIAL YOU MADE THEN FEEL. THEY REALIZED THEY WEREN'T THAT SPECIAL IT WAS YOU THAT THOUGHT THAT THEY WERE. THEY ASSUMED EVERYONE DID. BEING WITHOUT YOU MADE THEM REALIZE THEY WERE WRONG & THEY LIST A GOOD THING. MAYBE YOU'RE TOO GOOD TO BE A SECOND THOUGHT. #loveyourself #life #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE FALL IN LOVE & WE FEEL AS IF WE TRULY COULD NEVER LIVE WITHOUT THIS PERSON. WE ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS CRAP. WHEN YOU THINK BACK TO YOUR FIRST CRUSH YOU EVER HAD. YOU MIGHT OF EVEN CRIED OVER THEM. AND LOOK AT YOU STILL LIVING & BREATHING. WE NEED TO STOP THINKING WE CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT A PERSON. IF THEY DON'T WANT YOU WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM? IF YOU'RE NOT WANTED KEEP STEPPING & ONLY STOP WHEN THE PERSON WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. LOVES YOU & TREATS YOU LIKE YOU KNOW YOU SHOULD BE TREATED. YOU SAY AWE WHEN YOU SEE A COUPLE SO IN LOVE. SO WHY WOULD YOU WANT OR ACCEPT LESS? #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #sad #love #life #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY PEOPLE ARE SO CRITICAL WHEN THEY ARE N A RELATIONSHIP HOW COULD ONE POSSIBLE MAKE IT. WHEN AS SOON AS SOMETHING BOTHERS US ABOUT THE PERSON WE BAIL. BUT WHEN DID WE BECOME SO PERFECT THAT NO ONE SEEMS TO BE SUFFICIENT ENOUGH FOR US. .YET WE WILL GET IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT WE GET TREATED LIKE SHIT. WE FIGHT FOR THOSE. BUT THE ONES THAT ARE HEALTHY & WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR US, THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT WE AREN'T INTERESTED N. ISN'T THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP IS TO BE LOVED? THEN WHY DO WE PICK PEOPLE THAT AREN'T NICE TO US & WORSE WE STAY UNHAPPY & MISERABLE THINKING THIS IS WHAT WE WANT. WE NEED TO LEARN WHAT LOVE N A RELATIONSHIP IS. BECAUSE IT SEEMS AS IF WE HAVE FORGOTTEN. BUT LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO LIFT 2 PEOPLE TOGETHER. NOT MAKE YOU CRY & BE UNHAPPY. BUT WE KNOW THIS WE JUST NEED TO START PRACTICING IT. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships LOVE FEELS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. YET SO MANY PEOPLE WANT TO KEEP ALL RELATIONSHIPS CASUAL. SO IF YOU GET SICK OR COME TO BE IN NEED, YOU HAVE A PHONE FULL OF NUMBERS THAT WERE NOTHING MORE THAN A HOOK UP. WOULDN'T THAT BE SAD IF YOU WERE SO DOWN & CRYING & HAD NO ONE TO CALL ON TO BE THERE FOR YOU. JUST A THOUGHT I HAD. I FEEL SAD WRITING THIS. YOU MIGHT SAY "OH MY FAMILY "BUT MOST FAMILY EVENTUALLY GETS TIRED & HAS THIER OWN LIFE. ONLY THAT PERSON THAT LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY WOULD BE THE ONE BY YOUR SIDE. #loveyourself #life #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #sadness #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN GIRLS LOVE, WE FALL HARD & LOVE HARD. GIRLS WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING TO GET THE LOVE FROM THIS PERSON WHOM THEY SO DESPERATELY THINK THEY CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT. A GIRL WILL GIVE THEIR SHIRT OFF THEIR BACK. THEY WILL GIVE THE PERSON THEY LOVE THEIR VERY LAST DIME..AND IF A GIRL IS TRYING THIS HARD IT USUALLY BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT RIGHT. IF A RELATIONSHIP IS RIGHT THE ONLY THING NEEDED TO KEEP A LOVE IS TO LOVE & BE THERE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SHOWER THEM WITH GIFTS, BEG TO SEE THEM, AS WELL AS BEG FOR THEIR ATTENTION. IF THAT IS THE CASE. WHAT'S NEEDED, IS FOR YOU TO WALK AWAY. IT'S WASTED TIME. BECAUSE EVENTUALLY THIS IS HOW IT WILL END. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE TALK TO STRANGERS, OUT LOVED ONES WITH NO FILTER. NO REALIZING THAT YOU'LL RUIN A STRANGER'S DAY. BUT WITH YOUR LOVE ONES YOU CAN RUIN A RELATIONSHIP. SO USE YOUR WORDS WISELY. OR IT CAN BE YOUR HEART THAT GETS BROKEN. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #picoftheday 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN A COUPLE HAS AN ARGUMENT YOU CAN EITHER ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE OR DISTINGUISH IT BY HOW YOU REACT. YOU CAN CONTINUE TO SEE WHO CAN HURT THE MOST, WHO CAN BE THE WINNER BUT IN THE LONG RUN YOU MAY LOSE BECAUSE WHILE YOU WERE TOO BUSY WINNING YOU WERE HURTING THE PERSON WHO YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO LOVE. NOW YOU ARE THE LOSER. THINK ABOUT IT. IS IT WORTH IT? WHEN YOU CAN STOP IT BEFORE IT EVEN GETS OUT OF CONTROL.YOU KNOW THE WORDS DON'T YOU? I LOVE YOU, I'M SORRY. WHATEVER WORDS ARE NEEDED. ..SAY THEM! 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships SO MANY RELATIONSHIPS ONE OF THE TWO NEVER SEEMS TO COME FIRST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. EXAMPLE I DATED A GUY WHO HAD 2 CHILDREN. I LOVED THEM AS IF THEY WERE MY OWN. BUT SOMEHOW THE EX BECAME PART OF THE PACKAGE. SHE WAS ALWAYS AROUND, ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE HAD NO BOYFRIEND. UGH! THE CHILDREN I UNDERSTAND, THAT ONES A GIVEN. THEN YOU HAVE THEIR PAST, MAYBE A MOM THAT DOESN'T WANT TO LET GO. AS WELL AS THE EX. WAIT JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE HIM. AS SOON AS YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM.SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM ANYMORE. OK BACK ON TRACK. THEIR JOB, IT COULD BE FRIENDS A HOBBIE. THIS LIST COULD GO ON & ON. BUT YOU GET THE POINT. IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE ARE NECESSITIES THAT NEEDS TO GET DONE.BUT AT SOME POINT YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO COME FIRST. YOU OR YOUR PARTNER CAN'T BE DOWN THE LIST THAT YOU OR YOUR PARTNER ARE NEVER A PRIORITY. EVENTUALLY IT GETS OLD & YOU FIGURE WHY STAY? YOUR PARTNER IS SO PREOCCUPIED THAT YOU MIGHT NOT EVEN BE MISSED. THE PATHETIC THING IS WHEN THE PERSON REALIZES YOU'RE GONE THEY MISS YOU. TO LATE. BOTTOM LINE IF YOU WANT TO KEEP A LOVE. YOU GOT TO SHOW YOU LOVE... THEM! #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #happiness #romantic #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES LIFE CAN THROW YOU CURVES THAT CAN GET YOU DOWN. THEN COMES ALONG ANOTHER CURVE & YOU AREN'T READY & IT KNOCKS YOU DOWN LIKE A WAVE IN THE OCEAN. AT THE BEACH YOU DIVE INTO AN ONCOMING WAVE. AS YOU GO TO GET UP ANOTHER WAVE COMES & IT PUSHES YOU BACK UNDER. & JUST WHEN YOU GET BACK ON YOUR FEET, DAMN THE NEXT WAVE COMES BEFORE YOU COULD EVEN GET YOUR BALANCE. BUT THOSE ARE JUST WAVES & THE WATER IS REFRESHING. IN LIFE WHEN YOU GET KNOCKED DOWN OVER & OVER IT REALLY SUCKS. BUT, YES THERE IS ALWAYS A BUT... YOU HAVE TO STAND STRONG & KNOW LIFE IS NEVER PREDICTABLE. IF YOU HAD THE SAME DAY OVER & OVER LIFE WOULD BE BORING. WE LIKE THOSE THINGS THAT MAKE US FEEL ALIVE. BUT WITH THE GOOD COMES THE BAD. WITH THE UP THERE IS THE DOWN. THERE IS ALWAYS A FLIP SIDE. BUT IF YOU HAVE SOMEONE TO MAKE THE JOURNEY SMOOTHER & HAPPIER WELL THAT MAKES LIFE A WHOLE LOT BETTER. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #picoftheday 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES YOU SEE A PERSON & JUST BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE YOU THINK YOU'RE IN LOVE. YOU WANT TO MEET THIS PERSON SO BADLY. IT'S NOW A MISSION. YEARS AGO WE KNEW WHERE EVERYONE WOULD BE OUT ON FRIDAY NIGHT & THE HOTSPOT ON SATURDAY. THERE YOU COULD DRESS TO IMPRESS TO CATCH THE EYES OF THIS PERSON YOU ARE DREAMING TO BE WITH. YOU HAD THE CHANCE TO TALK IN PERSON. YOU KNEW IF YOU 2 HAD CHEMISTRY. AND BY TALKING YOU 2 COULD SEE IF THERE WAS SUBSTANCE TO WANT MORE. YOU WERE ABLE TO HAVE A FACE TO FACE CONVERSION & IF ALL WENT WELL YOU WOULD GO ON A DATE. THERE YOU WOULD SEE IF YOU REALLY HAD THINGS TO RELATE & THAT'S HOW MANY RELATIONSHIPS STARTED. NOW A DAYS IT'S SO DIFFERENT. ALL YOU HAVE TO GO BY WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE ONLINE YOU'RE INTERESTED IN IS THEIER PICS THEY PUT UP. YOU TRULY DON'T KNOW WHO IS ON THE OTHER SIDE & IF THEY HAVE ANOTHER LIFE OR A SIGNIFICANT OTHER. YOU CAN WASTE LOTS OF TIME ON SOMEONE THAT WILL ADD UP TO NOTHING. IT'S ALMOST A GAME. BUT THE REALITY IS THAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, THEY JUST LIKE TALKING. WASTING TIME BECAUSE THEY ARE BORED. BUT YOU MIGHT NOT BE. YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP. SO HOW CAN WE STOP WASTING OUR TIME WITH SOMEONE WHO SIMPLY DOESN'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP? WARNING SIGNS THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG? THEY DON'T TRY TTO MEET YOU. OR IF THEY DO IT'S NOT A NORMAL MEETING & YOUR HEART & INTUITION WILL TELL YOU SOMETHING IS JUST NOT RIGHT. MAIN QUESTION DO YOU BOTH WANT RELATIONSHIPS, BOOTY CALLS? BUT YOU NEED TO BE ON THE SAME PAGE. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I'D LIKE TO CHANGE IT UP A BIT TODAY TO A SERIOUS DISEASE. PEOPLE LIVING WITH LUPUS OR ANY IMMUNE DEFICIENCY DISEASE BATTLES IT EVERY DAY. SOME DAYS ARE BETTER THAN OTHERS. BUT JUST WHEN WE THINK WE ARE DOING WELL. IT COMES BACK & MAKES SURE YOU KNOW WHO'S BOSS OF YOUR BODY. YOU HAVE TO STAY STRONG & KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE. SAD TO SAY MILLIONS ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE. SUCH AS I MYSELF. LUPUS SUCKS LOVE YOU ALL #loveyourself #love 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY WOMEN WANT A MAN TO LOVE US, BE THERE FOR US & HAVE OUR BACK. AS WE LIVE WITH THEM THEY FAIL SO MANY TIMES TO DO THE THINGS WE NEED. IF WE'RE MARRIED IT'S SEEMS TO END EVENTUALLY, OR YOU STAY BUT YOU'RE UNHAPPY WISHING YOU COULD WALK OUT BUT FOR SOME REASON YOU CAN'T. IF IT'S A PERSON WHO WE ARE DATING WE ASK & ASK FOR THESE THINGS WE NEED BUT THEY DON'T DO. EVENTUALLY THE RELATIONSHIP USUALLY ENDS AS WELL. SO WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? CHANGE. WOMEN CHANGE IN MANY WAYS AS WELL. WHAT MIGHT HELP IS THE WANT TO BE THERE & MANY GUYS AT THIS POINT MAY THINK THEY DON'T WANT TO BE THERE. NOT UNTIL YOU LEAVE DOES IT HIT THEM. WE NEED COMMUNICATION BETWEEN BOTH PARTNERS. REALIZE YOU NEED TO SHOW CARE & LOVE FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO SURVIVE. LIKE A PLANT NO WATER IT DIES. AS WE HUMANS WE DO THE SAME. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #care #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I WROTE THIS IN MY MINI NOTE YESTERDAY BUT I WANTED TO TELL U HOW IMPORTANT THIS 1 IS. FIRST OFF BOTH PEOPLE HAVE 2 WANT A RELATIONSHIP TO BE A RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN'T CALL CHASING & OR BEING A BOOTY CALL A RELATIONSHIP. IT'S SOME SORT OF A RELATIONSHIP BUT AN UNHEALTHY 1. A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS 1 THAT STARTS WITH BOTH PEOPLE EXCITED TO B WITH 1 ANOTHER. TO TALK, TEXT & SEE EACH OTHER. IF THAT'S NOT WHAT YOUR GETTING. EXIT & BREATHE UNTIL THE RIGHT PERSON COMES ALONG. HOW WILL U KNOW? ITS EFFORTLESS & U BOTH WILL B EXCITED. MANY TIMES 2 PEOPLE DO JUMP IN BUT 1 JUMPS OUT. I'M SORRY GUYS BUT IT'S USUALLY U & IT LEAVES THE OTHER PERSON WONDERING WHAT WENT WRONG. THAT'S A SHITTY FEELING TRY NOT 2 DO IT TO ANYONE. BECAUSE PEOPLE CAN BECOME ATTACHED VERY EASILY. SO IF YOUR NOT READY, NOT SURE. STAY SINGLE & MINGLE & DON'T GET SOMEONE INVOLVED. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #healthy #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships SO MANY OF THE POST PEOPLE PUT UP ARE SO SIMILAR. SO I WILL BE POSTING SOME OF THE PROBLEMS I HEAR EVERY DAY. IF YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE...LOVE! DON'T LOVE HALF ASS. THAT'S THE EXACT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL HAVE. BREATHE & WAIT FOR THE PERSON WHO TRULY SHOWS THEY WANT YOU. YOU STILL MIGHT END WITH HEARTACHE BUT YOU SHOULDN'T START A RELATIONSHIP WITH SUCH! #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #heart happiness ##barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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