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barbarajeannerelationships I JUST WANTED TO SAY HAPPY HOLIDAYS & THANKS TO THOSE WHO STAYED WITH ME WHILE I WASN'T GIVING MY 100% BECAUSE I WAS WORKING ON MY LONG OVERDUE BOOK & TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS. DOING SO I LOST OVER 25,000 PEOPLE. BUT I'M BACK. MY BOOKS COMING OUT. AND KNOW IF YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEMS WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP I AM HERE. LOVE, BARBARA JEANNE XO 6d
  •   itssrisaa__ Happy isn't the word, getting through life is how I can describe it. Im moving, schools shit, etc lol. 5d
  •   karenlynnn Hi I just came to say thanks for the like on my selfie! 5d
  •   tinkerman54 Same to you my friend - keep it safe... @barbarajeannerelationships 5d
  •   that_girl_clarri Oh okay! Im so buying it now happy holidays! Did the book come out already? @barbarajeannerelationships 5d
  •   mitchw04 Awe thanks love! I may just show up on your door one day! You are the sweetest....I just love your positive energy! Xoxo 5d
  •   just_alexxxis I still love yu Barbara!!! you're an amazing woman who has been there for me since the beginning. Your impact is great and your wisdom, I have conformed to. Thank you for your time and love! Happy Holidays to you as well you angel !!! , Alexis Juliana 5d
  •   hanachimera Happy Holidays @barbarajeannerelationships I wish you happiness and more. love ya.. 5d
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barbarajeannerelationships The start of a relationship is always "US", but as time goes by it goes either way. "We or "You & I". This tells you which way your relationship is going to go. But we have to learn to create the want. The want to see you. The want to be with you. The want to continue the relationship. But not everyone knows how to create or keep the want. In my book you will not only learn how to create it. You will learn how to conquer it. I walked into a bar to meet my guy and he said "after 4 years you still make me have the want to see you". You don't want after 4 years to be a there for convenience or comfort. That would be sad. And eventually you 2 would just exist. Then we can work on always & forever. We seem to be having trouble with that one as well.♡ 6d

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barbarajeannerelationships YOU GOT TO RESPECT YOURSELF. WE ALL KNOW WHAT'S RIGHT. YET WE PUT OURSELVES IN SITUATIONS & REGRET THEM. DON'T ALLOW ANY MAN TO HIT IT & NEVER CALL YOU AGAIN. THAT JUST BRINGS YOUR SELF ESTEEM DOWN WAY LOW. DON'T MAKE A RELATIONSHIP IN YOUR HEAD THAT ISN'T THAT TOO BRINGS HEARTACHE & MAKES YOU FEEL CRAPPIE WHEN IT'S NOT. GIRLS WHEN YOU LIKE A GUY, WHEN YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP & THEY DON'T CALL LET THEM BE. THIS AGAIN F**KS WITH YOUR SELF ESTEEM. YOU GIVE IT UP SO EASY & TELL HIM "OH I NEVER DO THIS" HE DOESN'T BELIEVE YOU. SO DON'T DO IT. KNOW YOUR WORTH. DON'T TREAT YOURSELF OR THINK OF YOURSELF LESS THEN PRECIOUS. AND GUYS... GIRL GO WITH THEIR FEELINGS & YOU GO WITH YOUR PENIS, ESPECIALLY AT FIRST. SO IF YOU KNOW YOUR JUST THERE TO BANG HER & BAIL KEEP IT REAL. BE TRUE & GOOD WILL COME TO YOU. IT JUST F**KS UP WOMENS HEADS. DON'T TELL US YOUR THE PRESIDENT WHEN YOU UNEMPLOYED. GIRLS RATHER KNOW THE TRUTH. SO GIRLS DON'T GET TAINTED. AND YOU KEEP YOUR GOOD KARMA. HOW YOU GONNA WIN WHEN YOU AIN'T RIGHT WITHIN? WE ALL NEED TO BE RIGHT MIND SOUL & BODY, THIS BRINGS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #letitgo #karma #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships YOU CAN TRULY LOVE A PERSON & WANT TO BE WITH THIS PERSON, BUT SOMEHOW YOU JUST CAN'T SEEM TO PULL IT OFF, OR YOU SABOTAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY YOUR BEHAVIOR. WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS IF YOU LOVE THE PERSON? MANY PEOPLE GROW UP IN DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES & WE GET A BIT MORE TAINTED THEN WE MIGHT THINK. SOME PEOPLE HOLD ON TOO TIGHTLY TO THE PAST & IT PREVENTS YOU FROM GOING TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN'T BE IN TWO PLACES MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY AT THE SAME TIME. 1.IT CONFUSES YOU. 2. IT BRINGS CONFUSION INTO YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP 3. WHAT YOU GET IS A DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP. WHATEVER ISSUES YOU HAVE YOU WILL CARRY IT FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER. GETTING MORE LAGGUGE AS YOU GO. WHAT THIS DOES IS JUST F**KS YOU UP SO MUCH MORE. SO HOW DO YOU HEAL. FIRST OFF KEEP REPEATING "LET IT GO. ALL THE SADNESS, HURT, PAIN & DISAPPOINTMENT. FROM YOUR CHILDHOOD/FAMILY FRIENDS & RELATIONSHIPS. REMEMBER EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT. SOME GOOD, SOME WILL SUCK. BUT YOU NEED TO BE MENTALLY HEALTHY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. WRITE DOWN ALL YOUR THOUGHTS. GOOD, BAD & UNEASY ONES. TAKE TIME TO READ THEM . AND WHEN YOU ARE READY PUT THEM IN A BOX & BURY THEM. HAVE A MENTAL CEREMONY & SAY GOODBYE. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE LOVE & TO BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. IN MY BOOK. I WILL TEACH YOU. I WILL TAKE YOU THERE YOU JUST HAVE TO BE WILLING & READY.♡ #relationships #counseling #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #priceless #brokenhearted #childhood #heal #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY TIMES GIRLS FALL IN LOVE & THEY BUILD A STORY OF WHAT THEY WANT THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE . IT MAY BE REALLY AWESOME AT 1 POINT. EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED. IN OTHER SITUATIONS IT NEVER WAS. IT'S JUST SOMETHING YOU WANT SO BADLY. SO YOU BUILD UP THIS RELATIONSHIP THAT IS JUST NOT HAPPENING. EXAMPLE, THE COP I WAS WITH FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS. TOGETHER WE WERE ABSOLUTELY PERFECT. AT ONE POINT HE WANTED TO MARRY ME. BUT HE WAS GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE & IT CHANGED HIM. THE CLOSENESS I FELT CHANGED INTO A FEELING OF LONELINESS AT TIMES. STAYING FAITHFUL BECAUSE I LOVED HIM THAT MUCH, BUT YET I KNEW THERE WERE MANY FLAWS. HE WAS ABLE TO LEAVE & BASICALLY LEAVE ME BEHIND. WHEN I ASKED WHATEVER HAPPENED TO THOSE WORDS YOU TOLD ME. "YOU GOT IT WRONG THE FIRST TIME BUT THE SECOND TIME (WITH ME) YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT RIGHT". HE LOOKED AT ME & SAID "I DON'T KNOW". IT WAS A HALF ASS RELATIONSHIP. I ACCEPTED IT. WHEN HE THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BREAK THINGS OFF, HE WAS DEVASTATED. SO I THOUGHT "WOW HE MUST LOVE ME. BUT IT WASN'T ENOUGH & I KNEW IT WAS TIME TO LET HIM FREE & LET HIM BE. SO THAT I COULD ONCE AGAIN LEARN TO BE ME. AND WHEN THE TIME WAS RIGHT & WITH THE RIGHT PERSON I SET IN TO TRY AGAIN. WE CAN'T PUT A NUMBER ON HOW MANY RELATIONSHIPS WE HAVE BEEN IN. WE JUST CAN'T STAY BECAUSE WE SETTLE. WE SHOULD LEARN TO ENJOY EACH RELATIONSHIP & WHEN WE KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT, THEN IT'S TIME TO BOW OUT & LET IT BE. DON'T BE AFRAID OF THE UNKNOWN & STAY STUCK IN AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. KEEP THE FAITH & THE RIGHT PERSON WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE. AND IF YOU'RE LUCKY ONE DAY IT MIGHT BE THAT PERSON FOR ALWAYS & FOREVER. THAT IS WHAT I AM TRYING TO TEACH TO SUCCEED THIS. I BELIEVE 1 DAY I WILL♡ 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships We meet, things are AWESOME. We fall in love & it flows. But at some point we get lazy. Girls bring out the nagging, acting more like a mom then a girlfriend. Guy's feel what happened to that fun girl. The one that let me hang out with my friends & seem so cool. So guys thinks this is a ticket to start looking for another. To them the grass is greener on the other side or so they think. And they are will to jump that fence to see. Ok...so now the girl feels the change. The guy's slacking. The attention to the girl is as he really doesn't care. The girl tries harder. We have a couple that was once in love. Once so perfect together, now it seems to be heading in a reckless direction for the heart. Girls have to stop being controlling & guys get your head where it should be in your relationship. We have to stop thinking something better, something greener is over the other side of the fence. Nothings their but shit on the grass & dirty ass mud. If you find someone that you did fall for, stay & do what it takes to keep your relationship. Guys, girls need a hug, a kiss, & to hear "I love you". Treat her with care and she'll be there. Girls start off laughing with your guy being his best friend. That's who he wants. A best friend & a lover, treat him as such. Don't change into his mom! Doing this will keep a relationship alive. If you keep believing you want out. Eventually you'll get you wish. Remember with every person there's always going to be something you don't like about this person. If you find a person you really dig, when it's time ... the sex is great, you laugh together. Stop! Look no further. You have something good. Do what's necessary to keep it. Don't know how? Ask! I'm always here ♡ #relationships #love #counseling #guy #girl #advice #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 2w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Absolutely we always want new. But shouldn't people be in a different category? You'd think so. Maybe that's what needs to change. It's a mind game. Happy Holidays ♡ @bcasey91 2w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Know your worth. We like new. Boys like toys and girls like shinny and new. But we shouldn't put people in that category. Things don't have hearts that can be broken. Love you & happy holidays ♡ @htodak2 2w
  •   barbarajeannerelationships Thanks sweetie. Yes we have to realize we like new things but when it comes to love that should be put in a different category. People get their hearts broken. Objects don't. Happy Holidays ♡ @mrs_gosdin 2w
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barbarajeannerelationships We usually start a relationship with both parties being very happy. The feelings quickly turn to a close friendship & maybe the feeling of falling in love. That friendship quickly turns into best friends & love. As we grow in the beginning it seems like there might be no end. Maybe this is the one. Girls seem to want this. Girls want the Prince. The knight in shining armor. Girls hanging in if they love or care about somebody. They hang in & try. Girls give it their all. At some point when the girls trying & the guy feels wow this went fast. Now you have 2 people swimming in the sea of love & all the sudden the guy jumps out. The girl is like " where did you go. Somehow this guy has checked out. This is how many of my clients, including myself has happened. Girls go hard with their heart. Guys go with their penis, then heart. But quickly switches to their head. Not what's good for them but how thief life changed. They almost talk themselves out of it. Now you have a girl thats devastated and the guy that has checked out mentally so you have two people on completely different pages that started on the same page. If this is the case then you have to reassessed the situation to see if it's worth holding onto. If the relationship, either friendship or a relationship boyfriend girlfriend is toxic it's unhealthy & unnecessary. And it's something that you have to let go. Know when to bow out. Don't be the only one in a relationship doing all the loving. That is dysfunctional. And you're worth way more then you're treating yourself . Always remember you're worth. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships When you're in love with a person, it's healthy when it's mutual. But many times at some point it's not. This is when I feel it's almost like if you are captive. But your captive to this person because you are wanting them to want you. Wanting them to love you. Wanting them to accept you. So you do whatever it takes to achieve this goal. But at some point I think that your mind & your heart takes over & then you go into overdrive. At this time the person that you are giving your heart to maybe is starting to pull away. This is something that you don't want. So you try harder. You give more. You might even become obsessed. This is where it becomes captive. Because you are no longer in control of yourself. They have control over you & you allowed this to happen. You never want to give anybody that much control over you ever! You need to look at yourself & all you're doing. All you're giving. Now if this person you are so In love with is not showing love as you love them. What do we do? Take a bow. Let the curtain close & walk away. Not that easy. But it's toxic & torture to be in any relationship that makes you sad, cry, hurt. Release & let go. When you do, so many things will open up. You'd be surprised. It's like the man upstairs rewards you for being so strong to let go of the wrong. Right or wrong letting go can still be hard as f**k! But it's so necessary. #relationships #love #loveyourself #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #advice #priceless #counseling #truth #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN IT COMES TO A POINT WHERE YOU INVESTED SO MUCH OF YOUR LIFE TO A PERSON & THEY SEEM TO GIVE TO EVERYONE BUT YOU. YOU GOT TO SAY "YOU'RE TAKING CARE OF THEM, I'M TAKING CARE OF YOU BUT WHO IS TAKING CARE OF ME..NOBODY! THIS MEANS MIND HEART SOUL & BODY. AS WELL AS FINANCIALLY. YOU GIVE EVERYTHING YOU HAVE & THEY GIVE BACK NOTHING. AT SOME POINT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH & IT'S TIME TO LET GO. BUT JUST TO DELETE A PERSON FROM YOUR LIFE THAT YOU LOVE SEEMS TO BE SO HARD. THIS CAN MAKE THINGS EASIER. EVERY TIME YOU THINK ABOUT THEM, CHANGE YOU TRAIN OF THOUGHT IMMEDIATELY. WRITE DOWN ALL THE GOOD & THE BAD. I'M SURE THAT THE BAD OUT DOES THE GOOD. FOLD OVER TO SEE IT. LOOK AT THIS LIST FREQUENTLY & YOUR HEART & MIND WILL START TO REALIZE HOW SHITTY THE LIST IS. YOU MIGHT THINK OF THINGS TO ADD ON, & DO SO. DOING THIS YOUR MIND WILL START TO DO IT AUTOMATICALLY. AT THIS POINT YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO DELETE THEM FOR REAL. THIS LEAVES YOU OPEN TO FIND SOMEONE BETTER. MAYBE WHO MIGHT TRULY WANT TO BE WITH YOU. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T ACT LIKE THEY CARE. DO YOU LIKE THAT FEELING OF BEING BROKENHEARTED. THAT PIT IN YOUR STOMACH THAT FEELS EMPTY. YEA ME NEITHER. MOVE ON. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #letitgo #priceless #brokenhearted #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships So many of my clients that I have worked with have the same exact situation. The only difference is that they're are a different couple. So it says to me that if everybody or many couples are experiencing the same problem. There's got to be a solution. We can't live our lives in one unhealthy relationship after another. At some point we have to stop & look at ourselves & spend time to learn to love ourselves. We can't be in s***** ass relationships our whole lives. It's as we are just existing & not truly living. We have one life, we can't live it in all f***** up relationships. Don't you want more for your life. Don't you want to really feel loved & feel special. And the thing is that there is somebody out there that will actually loves you. A person who actually wants to be with you. That person that will accept you unconditionally. And when you find that person then you have to realize that this person is good for you. Not the person you have to chase. Not the person that you had feel your have to be a QP doll. Not the person that you can't be yourself. And certainly not the person that you're afraid if you do or say something they'll leave. That's not love. Love makes you happy. Love makes you have a feeling of being content. That uneasy felling, if they're going to call or not that is not love. What it is, is a relationship you need to dump. Expect more & you will get more. But for goodness sake learn to love yourself. You're so much worth it. Only go with somebody that loves you. And if you see red flags that's a sign to leave. Something's not right & it's not your job to fix anybody. You want to help people be a nurse. You're not here to fix everybody in every relationship. A healthy relationship is 2 people loving & caring for one another. Love yourself enough to expect and accept nothing else but love in return. #relationships #love #loveyourself #advice #guy #girl #letitgo #counseling #priceless #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships When we are single or unhappy in a relationship we tend to think about our ex's or people in the past of what might of been. We might think they might be better, or we should of stayed wirh them. But being a person that has pretty much always been in a long term relationships my whole entire life there was only one point in my life that I took time to be by myself. And at that point it felt lonely to be alone. But the person that I left I realized was not the right person for me and it was time for me to move on. So I took the liberty of going on plenty of fish and was going on crazy amount of dates in a short amount of time. And doing so I could do research and maybe find someone new that I liked. So I prayed to God for someone to come into my life and it happened to be someone I knew for a long time. Someone to lifted me up and made me love life again. I was going through so many surgeries and had the brain aneurysm, pulmonary embolism and so many health issues that I was kind of weak to do it on my own. So I believe God sent this person to help me. Generally I'm a happy person. I can spend time on my own amusing myself for hours. But this time I was just too weak to do this myself. So he was a friend and it seemed God placed him in my life to lift me up. So either case you need to trust and have faith in a higher power to put somebody in your life to do this. So you can learn to love yourself and enjoy your life. And when it's time and you're ready and you feel complete with yourself and that you love yourself I truly believe the right person will come into your life. You just need to believe this, truly truly believe. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I'VE POSTED SOMETHING SIMILAR BUT IT'S A ISSUE THAT MANY OF US DO. CHASE. WHEN YOU WERE YOUNG & SOMEONE CHASED YOU, WHAT DID YOU DO? RUN AWAY & FAST. WE ARE PROGRAMED TO RUN. BUT WE ARE NOT 5 ANYMORE SO WHY DO WE FEEL THE NEED TO STILL RUN? AND WHY DON'T WE WANT THE PERSON WHO IS CHASING US USUALLY? OR IS IT JUST A NORMAL REACTION? AND WHY IS IT THAT THINGS OUT OF REACH WE FEEL MORE VALUE? WE MAKE IT CLEAR THAT IT'S A TURN OFF. HOW? WE BASICALLY IGNORE THEM & HOPE THEY GO AWAY. ARE WE ACTING LIKE CHILDREN WHO ARE STILL PLAYING ALL THESE GAMES. AND DOES IT EVER STOP? I'M NOT SURE IF WE EVER CAN GET OLD FASHION RELATIONSHIPS BACK. COURTING, WAITING FOR SEX & HAVING ALL THAT GOOD FUN BEFORE SEX. FLIRTY, FEELING, FONDLING, OH & FRENCH KISSING. I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF GUYS KNOW HOW TO FRENCH KISS. OR IS IT AFTER A CERTAIN AGE. THEY DON'T LIKE THE GERMS OF ANOTHER. OR IS IT YUCKY TO GUYS? BECAUSE WHAT I HEAR IS THAT GUYS THINK IT'S SEXY TO DOTHESE SOFT PECKS. LITTLE KISSES. WHO TOLD THEM THAT? I WANT OLD SCHOOL LOVIN BACK. HOLDING HAND, GOING ON RIDES & LAUGHING. LOTS OF LAUGHING. AND I WANT TO GO BACK TO BASES. SINCE I SEE WE ARE STILL PLAYING GAMES. I WANT THE FIRST BASE: KISSING. SECOND BASE FEELING OVER CLOTHES. THIRD BASE UNDER CLOTHES & USES FINGERS (TOO GRAPHIC )? AND FORTH BASE COMES WHEN WE HAD ENOUGH OF 1 THROUGH 3. WHY ARE WE IN A RUSH ANYWAY? WHERE ARE WE RUNNING TO? AND WHERE DO YOU GO WHEN SOMEONE CHASES YOU? THERE IS SO MANY QUESTIONS WITH SO MANY DIFFERENT ANSWERS. SO ALL I CAN SAY IS WHEN YOU LIKE SOMEONE DON'T CHASE THEM, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE RUNNING AWAY. F**K THAT. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE THAT WILL STAND STILL & HOLD YOUR HAND. BUT THE BASES, THAT ONE I THINK WE SHOULD KEEP♡ #relationships #counseling #advice #loveyourself #love #respect #guy #girl #romance #forever #kiss #sex #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships Girl of all ages, make sure you treat yourself with the up most respect. By respecting yourself the opposite sex & people will do so as well. When you are out & about conduct yourself like a lady at all times. Especially when interacting with the opposite sex, especially for the first time you 2 meet. Has you get to know one another you can loosen up & be more seductive. But when you initially meet you should always conduct yourself like a lady. You can be funny, be silly and carry on a great conversation. That is a turn on for guys. Just don't turn the conversation sexual. Doing so you now have this guy thinking "I'm going to get me some ass". Does that sound respectful? Ya I don't think so either. #loveyourself #love #respect #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #priceless #crown #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships When you enter a relationship both people are on their best behavior but as time goes by each individual has their negative personality traits come out. I personally feel that it's very important that you give a 100% into the relationship so it has less chances of ending, and for most that is the goal you want to achieve. But if for some reason you 2 do break up, it's always more painful to the one that gave more, loved more. We are the ones that end up broken hearted. The other may not feel it when you first breakup but to know that one day when they look back and think of you they will think that you were the best thing that they ever had and they let you go. And this memory will haunt them forever or for a really long time. Yes that may be cold or cruel but when I love, I love hard so don't f*** with my heart. Love you haha♡ 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships This is awesome but this why we have problems because girls feel this when they fall & their feelings don’t change till they are hurt & broken. Guys feel this until they have the girl & know they are secure or get bored, then they slack. This is what we need to change to get on the same page. Love is not a fairytale no matter how much we try, or want it. Although it may feels like so in the beginning the reality of it is life. We need to keep the spark of love alive. Many people change dramatically from when you two met. This is where the problems start to roll in. Yes we change, change is normal. How you love should get stronger by loving. So that is one thing that shouldn’t change, how you love the person. But remember it has to be 2 people. Once it’s becomes one it’s time to bow out. #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationships #counseling #advice #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships We are a generation that is doing more of what we want opposed to what is expected from us to do. Yet we are a selfish generation and although it's important to put yourself first it's also sad if you come first all the time. This leaves little room to allow another person to be loved enough as they should be. But when you meet that person that makes your heart race, your blood go warm and butterflies in your tummy. This feeling makes us feel alive. This is when you got to go for it. We crave to feel this. But ask yourself, when you find something that makes you feel so amazing do you have what it takes to pull it off or do you just let it go? Do you go back to you being selfish and just existing by yourself? I think that we need to start finding love. Love is necessary and a big part of who we are. Love is like a building blocks or stepping stones to our lives. It brings us to become a better person, a more loving person, giving person, happier person. You need this love in your life. All you have to do is be open...mind, heart, soul and body. You want to see all not just what makes your private part race. Just a thought. Live, love and don't just exist. #loveyourself #love #advice #guy #girl #relationships #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon
  •   love923 Amen! 1mon
  •   quinfixie3 so true very selfish generation more of a narcissistic culture... check out a great book call (Generation Me) 1mon
  •   mermaidbidisha You are so right !! 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships Millions of people around the world use the Internet daily. Many use it to seek friendship. Once 2 people have connected, these two individual spend many hours getting to know one another. Yet time goes by and you 2 have yet to meet. You talk online 4 many hours to the point that you grow to have such a strong connection. You think you know everything about this person behind the computer or phone, but all you truly know is what they have told you. In reality you still haven't met the person you have grown to have feelings for. Even though you have had opportunities but somehow they always seems to fail. Perhaps you need to look into this person a little bit further. This person you are falling for could be a catfish. What is a catfish? It is a person that seeks another individual by pretending they are someone who they are not. It could be because they are in a relationship already. It could be insecurity and feel you may not like the real them. Others do it just because. Whatever the case is, its not funny playing with a person's emotions. People are not toys. You are playing with people's feelings. Before you get to the point where you invest too much time and countless hours on this person. Make a deadline to meet and if it comes and goes and you haven't met you most likely are dealing with a carfish. Either way to have a real relationship you have to see the person. So if you haven't met and the deadline passes, let it go and let them go. Life is too short to just play and your heart is too fragile to be broken. #catfish #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #priceless #letitgo #happy #love #loveyourself #babarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships This is how it usually goes. A girl and a guy get together. Usually the guy is the one that pursues and the girl falls for the pursuit. The guy conquers and the girls is smitten. And here we have the beginning of a relationship. The relationship is going awesome but as time goes by things start to change. The girl struggles with this change in this person that she loves. He has become a completely different person from when they first met. The guy is slacking and showing little to no care for this poor girl that just wants things to be when they first had met. I believe that a lot of guys want the girl they have but will risk it to find what else is out there that could make them happy. Now this includes another girl as well..People in general are fickle. Guys are master of fickleness. Being fickle with material objects is one thing. But when it comes to a person that could cause much pain and most likely not to the guy but to the girl thats still is in love this with guy. When it comess to playing with toys thats one thing. A person, well that's a whole different situation because you're dealing with hurting peoples feelings and breaking peoples hearts. Guys may not agree but I have studied this subject so long with so many couples and 99% of all couples go through this situation and it goes pretty much exactly how I said. And it usually end with heartache. Guys think about that girl you are hurting is a person you once would do anything for. Do the right thing. Or you might be the one that ends with heartache. Oh wait that is exactly how it goes 99% of the time. Just a thought. A long one. But a thought to help anyone that might go through this. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #priceless #letitgo #karma #babarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships It's amazing what little things a guy can do to make his girl feel beautiful wonderful amazing happy, loved. Many times guys feel that they have to do major things, so what do they do? They don't do anything at all. Then there are guys that don't try at all. Why? Who knows. Maybe they are lazy, or maybe they just don't care. But some guys should stay alone. I know a girl that went out on Valentines day and bought lingerie at Victoria's Secret. Bought and cooked a home made dinner, baked cupcakes and bought him a gift. He came over late with cookie dough. To me that is NO effort, no care. All you have to say to a girl is I love you. You're beautiful. You're amazing. You're the love of my life. I can't believe I found. I can't see my life without you. If guys would say those words to their girl everyday she would be by her mans side. It's that easy. #love #loveyourself #guy #girl #advice #relationship #counseling #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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