barbarajeannerelationships Many times girls going to relationship with guys who think they're ready. They say they are ready but they're not. So what happens is in the beginning the guy text and calls you. He is excited to see and hear from you. But as time goes by it's not important to them because either they can't pull off, they just don't want to because the excitment is gone. Or they're not ready. Either way if this is the case you just need to move on. Because you are wasting your time and most likely will end with a heartache. If a guy is ready and is really into you they will call. They will want to see you, spend time with you and its not something you're struggling to get them to do. If the main problem of a relationships is just getting them to want to see you, text you and call you it's time to bail. You should not have to struggle for the person that is supposed to be interested in you for them to text you, call you, when both takes literally seconds just to say hey hi, how are you. For him to say sorry I was so busy I couldn't get to the phone, (when people carry their phones) is a crock of s***, he knows it, and you know it. And it goes the same for girls who are doing this to a guy. Be nice and do the right thing. Hurting a person for no reason is bad karma. That simple! #karma #love #guy #girl #priceless #counseling #loveyourself #letitgo #relationships #advice #hurt #babarajeannerelationships 9h

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barbarajeannerelationships We want to love. We want to be loved but sometimes the person that we love is not the right person. When we meet a person they come to us with their best face, their best attitude, their best everything, but as time passes all that goes away and what you have is the person in the raw. And many times this person is not who you met. So now you are in love with this person that is completely different, completely wrong for you but you have feelings. And instead of going with the red flags we continue with our heart and what we get from that is usually pain, sadness, and heartache. But what is the worst of all this person that you thought loved you so very much really doesn't show any care and is reckless with your heart. So how do you let go, how do you get strong? It may take a while but you have to start to see the person for who they are. See the pain that that person is putting you through. And as hard as it may be keep thinking that it's time to let go. Get mad at this person that doesn't care. And you will slowly disengage and get over them. And each relationship from thereforth you should check for the flags and keep your guard up enough that you just don't give your heart to everybody, you just don't give your body or have sex with everyone. They need to earn it slowly over time. Why? Because you are priceless and you need to behave as such. #loveyourself #love #advice #relationships #counseling #guy #girl #priceless #letitgo #happy #babarajeannerelationships #couple 2d

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barbarajeannerelationships I'm a love bug. I love being in love. I love to be loved and I love touching and feeling and being playful and that's me. Other people are different. Everyone has their own way of loving. Everyone has the way that they were brought up. Some people were brought up a little more stricter, stern. They may have been brought up in a more serious household. They may have not had laughter in their house. In my house my mom was always laughing, always happy. Yes there where times that she was tired or sad but overall it was just joyful and happy and loving and that's what I learned. Some people aren't touchy feely. Some people aren't calling you up all the time. Some people are selfish. Some people are colder. People are all different and if you want to be love they way you love and want it in return, you have to find someone who is like that. You can't just find somebody who is not like that and expect them to be. Yes you can do this to them and they will mimic it to a point. But asking over and over and it's something that they don't do it something they're not going to do. So if you meet somebody and there's that love honeymoon period . And that passes, and they lose that romantic loving passion they had in the beginning, this is the real them. People aren't going to love exactly the same. They may have other loving qualities you like. Love is give and take. When and if you find someone that loves you the way you want to be loved, the way that you love them, you will have a happier union. And when you do this, you will find a better relationship that will be longer lasting. #relationships #love #advice #counseling #loveyourself #babarajeannerelationships 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships When we first feel those feelings of love with a boy or girl in grammar school maybe high school or maybe it could of been kindergarten, we feel something but I'm not sure exactly we all know what it is. But as we get older we know that it's love. Being young many call it puppy love but I say that it's the purest of love because that love is not tainted. And yes I believe love is love. Why? We know that we love our parents we know that we love our sister's, brother's and grandparents, so we know that love is something that makes us feel good, feel special. We find that certain person that we may want to kiss or touch. We know that its something different, something special, something like love. As we grow and get older and feel pain and hurt from a break up. Pain from love not returned or pain of wanting someone that's unreachable we begin to become tainted. But love feels amazing and we know this so although we have had our hearts broken countless times we continue to search and find the love of our life. After so many times of being hurt we've come to realize that loving a person is just not enough. So do we just not love or do we learn what it takes to keep a person. What it takes to hold on to a relationship. And what we find is by doing this the love that we have doesn't die, it grows because we took time to learn about the person we love. We learn what it takes to keep their hearts where they should be right next to yours. And when you take time to do this. You will be able to have a loving, long lasting, always and forever relationship. 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY COUPLES CAN'T EVEN LAST THE HONEYMOON PERIOD OF THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE WE EXPECT THE PERSON TO BE CLOSE TO WHAT WE THINK IS PERFECT TO WHAT WE WANT. GUYS DON'T WANT A GIRL THAT NAGS OR TELLS THEM WANT TO DO. AS WELL AS THEY WANT TO FEEL THE NEWNESS OF HOW THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED. WHEN THINGS START TO CHANGE MANY GUYS BAIL. AND GIRLS LOOK AT WHAT'S CLOSE TO PERFECT IN THEIR EYES & MANY DON'T KNOW HOW OR WHAT EXACTLY IT IS THAT KEEPS THE GUY. SO IF GUYS LOOK FOR A GIRL THAT BASICALLY DOES EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS & HOW HE WANTS TO TREAT HER, WHEN YOU DO GET HER EVENTUALLY YOU'LL GET BORED & WILL WANT A GIRL MORE SIMULATING. AND THOSE GIRLS THAT SAY THEY AREN'T GOING TO SETTLE, YOU MAY BE WAITING FOR A VERY LONG TIME. SO WHAT IS IT THAT WILL HELP GET GUYS & GIRLS BACK ON THE SAME PAGE? LEARN. LOOK AT COUPLES THAT DID MAKE IT FOREVER. LIKE MANY OF OUR GRANDPARENTS. BUT KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE UNSELFISH, GIVE, NOT JUST TAKE & MOST IMPORTANT LOVE. BUT WHAT YOU'LL GET IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE & THERE IS NO OTHER BETTER FEELING IN THE LONG RUN. BECAUSE ONE DAY YOU WILL NEED SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU AS SUCH. #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #counseling #couple #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships A BODY IS A BEAUTIFUL THING. BUT IT'S SACRED. ONLY GIVE TO THOSE WHO TRULY DESERVE IT. THE ONES THAT YOU HAVE LOVE IN YOUR HEART FOR. THE ONE THAT YOU FEEL ABSOLUTELY LOVED WHEN IT'S OVER. NOT FEELING SHITTY WONDERING IF THIS PERSON YOU GAVE YOUR BODY TO WILL CALL YOU. USE YOUR BODY WISELY. REMEMBER IT IS A TOOL. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I LOOK BACK HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS. IT'S SAD HOW IT'S CHANGED FOR THE WORST. GUYS NO LONGER FEEL THE NEED TO DO THOSE THINGS THAT MEN WOULD DO TO MAKE A GIRL FALL. YET GIRLS ARE STILL CHASING GUYS THAT DO THE BARE MINIMAL. A TOKEN TEXT. MEN SEES THE GIRL WHEN IN NEED OF INTIMACY. GIRLS ACCEPT IT. AND AS LONG AS WE DO GUYS WILL DO NOTHING BUT TAKE. I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING EVERY GUY. BUT YOUNG GUYS TURN INTO MEN. AND IF THEY AREN'T TAUGHT BY THEIR MOMS OR THEIR RELATIONSHIPS HOW WILL THEY KNOW. GIRLS YOU GOT TO ASK. YOU GOT TO SHOW. EVERYTHING IS LEARNED BY EXAMPLE. AND IF THE GUY CARES ENOUGH THEY WILL DO. A GUY SHOULD BE CALLING YOU. YOU SHOULD NOT BE A BOTHER. AND WHEN YOU DO CALL IT TAKES 2 SECONDS FOR THE GUY TO ANSWER & SAY I'M BUSY, LET ME GET BACK TO YOU. THIS IS ONE EXAMPLE THAT SHOWS WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GUY & A MAN. GIRLS PLEASE LOOK FOR MEN. THE ONES THAT WOULDN'T TREAT YOU ANYTHING LESS THEN THEM BEING A GENTLEMAN. AND GIRLS AS WELL, ACT LIKE LADIES. GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR GOOD WOMEN AS WELL. #loveyourself #love #girl #guy #relationship #counseling #advice #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY PEOPLE LOVE TOO HARD. WORK TO HARD TO SHOW A PERSON HOW MUCH THEY LOVE THEM. THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT KEEPING THE ONE PERSON HAPPY. WHY? BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY CAN'T LOSE THIS PERSON. THEY CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT REMEMBER YOU CAN'T LOSE SOMEONE THAT YOU DON'T HAVE...THEIR HEART. WHATEVER IT IS YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING. IT'S NOT A RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP NEEDS 2 PEOPLE. AT SOME POINT YOU WILL GET TIRED OF GIVING & WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE WHO WILL WANT TO DO IT FOR YOU. GO!!! THIS IS GOD'S INTERVENTION SAYING ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. BUT YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT FOR THIS BLESSING OR MIRACLE FROM ABOVE BECAUSE I AM TELLING YOU TO LET IT GO. IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE PUTTING LOVE & CARE INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP, DON'T STAY. WHY WOULD YOU? IT'S UNHEALTHY. DON'T FALL INTO THE PATTERN OF SHITTY RELATIONSHIPS WHERE YOU GET USED TO GETTING CRAPPED ON. YOU WON'T WIN. WHY? BECAUSE THIS PERSON IS ALWAYS RIGHT, CAN'T DO WRONG. YOU DON'T NEED TO SAY ANYTHING. THEY'LL MISS YOU WHEN THEY'RE IN NEED. THEN THEY SHOULD GET A MAID, BUTLER. HELL, WHOEVER, IT'S NOT YOUR PROBLEM ANYMORE. HOW AWESOME IS THAT! KNOW YOUR WORTH. PRICELESS! #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #guy #girl #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR ALL TO SOMEONE YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH & DIDN'T GIVE UP EVEN WHEN YOU SHOULD OF & KEPT LOVING THEM WHEN THERE WAS NO REASON TO. THEY MAY LEAVE. THEY MAY NOT WANT YOU. BUT ONE DAY WHEN EVERYONE DOES GIVE UP ON THEM, & THAT DAY WILL COME. WHY? BECAUSE THESE ARE USUALLY THE PEOPLE THAT GIVE LITTLE BUT FOR SOME REASON GET LOVED A LOT. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT TAKE & TAKE WITHOUT A THOUGHT. OH BUT ONE DAY THAT WILL CHANGE. LUCK RUNS OUT & THIS BEHAVIOR GETS OLD. THEY WILL THINK OF YOU THE PERSON THAT DIDN'T GIVE UP. WOULDN'T OF GIVEN UP. THEY LEFT & WANTED OUT NOT YOU. YOU LOVED THEM UNCONDITIONALLY. THEY WILL REMEMBER THIS. THEY WILL REMEMBER YOU, & MISS THAT LOVE. BUT YOU WILL HAVE CRIED, HEALED & HAVE MOVED ON WITHOUT THEM. KNOWING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE & HOW MUCH THEY DIDN'T. THEY'LL BE JUST A THOUGHT, A MEMORY THAT WHAT WAS. PERIOD. DONE DEAL. FIND A LOVE THAT WILL ACTUALLY LOVE YOU, AS YOU LOVE THEM. FIND A LOVE THAT WANTS TO DO AS YOU DO FOR THEM. ANYTHING LESS IS UNACCEPTABLE. REMEMBER THAT! 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships THERE ARE TO TYPES OF GUYS. THE ONES THAT ALWAYS SEEM TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP & THEN THOSE THAT ARE NOT. THIS TELLS YOU A LOT ABOUT A GUY FROM THE GET GO. NEXT IF A GUY GOES THROUGH GIRLS LIKE WATER HE MOST LIKELY WILL DO THE SAME TO YOU. DON'T GIVE YOUR HEART SO EASILY TO THIS TYPE OF GUY. IF A GUY TELLS YOU HOW HE BROKE HIS LAST GIRLS HEART, HE'LL PROBABLY DO THE SAME TO YOU. HOW HE ACT BEFORE YOU HE'LL ACT WITH & TO YOU. GALS WHEN YOU MEET A GUY IF HE'S INCONSISTENT HE MOST LIKELY WILL STAY THAT WAY. SO WITH ALL THAT BEING SAID YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD KIND LOVING PERSON IS. WELL GIRLS THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT WHEN CHOOSING A GUY. THAT SAYING "GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST" IS SO WRONG. WE SHOULD WANT THE GOOD GUY. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A LADY THAT IS LOVED. BREAK THE CHAIN BAD BOY BREAKS HEARTS & GOOD GUYS WILL GIVE YOU A LIFE OF HAPPINESS. YOUR CHOICE. PICK WISELY. #love #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationship #advice #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships GUYS HAVE ONE THING TO LEARN. IF YOUR NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP, THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU MAKE HER FALL. IF YOUR INTENTIONS AREN'T TO DO RIGHT BY HER, DON'T MAKE HER FALL. IF YOU HAVE A CHANGE OF HEART & NOT FEELING HER ANYMORE BE A MAN & TELL HER THE TRUTH. IF A GIRL YOU KNOW IS DIGGING YOU & YOU'RE NOT INTO HER, DON'T SEND MIX SIGNALS. AND IF YOUR HORNY & WANT SEX & KNOW IT MEANS MORE TO HER. STOP! THIS WILL STOP YOU FROM SAY "GEEZ THIS BITCH IS CRAZY" YEAH BECAUSE YOU GOT HER THAT WAY. YOU CREATED A GIRL FREAKING OUT PROBABLY STALKING YOU & ALL YOUR SITES. BUT YOU COULD OF PREVENTED ALL THESE BULLSHIT IF YOU WOULDN'T OF MESSED WITH HER FROM THE START. GIRLS HAVE THEIR OWN FLAWS BUT LOVING IS USUALLY NOT ONE. SO DON'T MAKE A GIRL FALL UNLESS YOU ARE GOING TO BE THERE TO CATCH HER. #love #loveyourself #happy #hurt #guy #girl #advice #counseling #couple #relationship #barbarajeannerelationships #picoftheday 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE NEED TO BRING ROMANCE BACK. WE NEED TO BRING RELATIONSHIPS BACK. BOTH GENDER'S SEEM TO FORGET HOW GOOD IT FEELS TO TRULY BE LOVED. LOVE COMPLETES YOUR LIFE. BUT WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR GUYS TO FEEL AS IF THEY WE BE SATISFIED WITH ONE GIRL (WOMAN). AS WELL AS WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR A WOMAN TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT MAN INSTEAD OF THE ONE OUT OF REACH. THE ONE THAT SHOWS THEM NO SIGNS OF INTEREST. THESE ARE THE GUYS GIRLS WANT. SO IF GUY'S WILL REMEMBER THE SAYING "BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN IS AN AMAZING WOMAN. THIS SAYING FALLS SO TRUE. LOOK FOR THESE PERSONALITY TRAIT WILL ALLOW A RELATIONSHIP TO HAPPEN & FORM NATURALLY. HAVE FUN, LAUGH, GOOD CONVERSATION, A FEELING OF COMFORT, A FEELING OF HOME, A PERSON WHO LIFTS YOUR SPIRITS, & EVERYTHING SEEMS TO FLOW. WHEN YOU ADD FEELINGS OF TRUE CARE. THAT THIS PERSON WOULD REALLY BE THERE FOR YOU & YOU GROW INTO BEST FRIENDS, THAT YOU CAN TRULY BE YOU & YOU'RE NOT BEING JUDGED BY THIS PERSON IS A KEEPER. GUYS & GALS HAVE GOT TO IDENTIFY WHAT A PASS BY RELATIONSHIP IS & WHAT'S THE ALWAYS & FOREVER. WHEN YOU DO FIND A PERSON WITH THESE TRAITS HOLD ON TIGHT. STOP REACHING OUT FOR JUST LOOKS, SEX, A SHORT THING, ENDS TO BEING JUST A FLING. THESE PEOPLE LEAD YOU NOWHERE. YOU END UP WASTING TIME WHEN YOU COULD BE LOVED BY THE RIGHT ONE. IF YOU HAVE FORGOTTEN LOVE FEELS ABSOLUTELY F**KING AMAZING. 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE GIRLS HAVE SO MUCH POWER YET WE GIVE IT AWAY SO EASILY. WHAT IS IT? YOUR VAGINA. YOU ALLOW A MAN TO ENTER YOUR VAGINA WHEN IT'S YOUR MOST PRIVATE PART & BIGGEST GIFT. IF IT WASN'T SO PRIVATE YOUR MOM WOULD OF ALLOWED YOU TO RUN AROUND WITH NO UNDERWEAR. YEAH THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN, AM I RIGHT? BECAUSE IT'S MEANT TO STAY PRIVATE ONLY TO BE GIVEN WHEN YOU TWO HAVE ESTABLISHED THAT IT'S JUST YOU TWO. I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU. BUT I WOULDN'T WANT A GUY TO BE INSIDE ME WHEN HE WAS BANGING A DIFFERENT GIRL THE PRIOR NIGHT. AS WELL AS GIRLS. KEEP YOUR PANTS ON. HAVING TROUBLE DOING THAT, USE SUSPENDERS. MAKE THAT GUY WORK & FIGHT FOR THAT VAGINA. THEN THEY KNOW YOU VALUE YOURSELF & KNOW YOU'RE NOT A DIRTY GIRL. HORNY? USE A VIBRATOR. OH & GUYS DON'T BUY IT WHEN YOU SAY I DON'T HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS....IT MOST BE YOU. SO SAVE THOSE WORDS. GIRLS ON DATING SITES GIVE IT UP FASTER THAN HELLO. HEADS UP GUYS DON'T LIKE IT. YEAH YOU CAN HAVE THE ONE NIGHT STAND THAT MIGHT LAST. BUT IN JOKING YOUR GUY WILL ALWAYS SAY " I BANGED HER ON THE FIRST NIGHT. I'M NOT SAYING DON'T DO IT. DO IT WHEN YOUR MIND & HEART IS READY. SO YOU WON'T GET HURT OR REGRET IT. IF THE GUY WANTS YOU. HE'LL WAIT. HAVING SEX ON THE FIRST MEETING ACTUALLY FUCKS YOUR CHANCES OF HAVING SOMETHING. SO DON'T RUSH. UNTIL THEN KEEP THAT VAGINA LOCKED DOWN. #loveyourself #love #counseling #couple #guy #girl #relationship #advice #happy #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY GIRLS MEET A GUY (OR GIRL) & MAY HAVE SEX WITH THIS PERSON. WITHOUT ANY REASON THE GIRL FALLS. MANY TIMES HARD. I KNOW A GIRL WHO PAID TO GO TO SPAIN FOR A GUY SHE LIKED ONLY FOR HIM TO IGNORE HER. IMAGINE THAT SPENDING THOUSANDS OF DOLLAR & SHE ENDED UP STAYING WITH PEOPLE SHE DIDN'T EVEN KNOW. WE DO IT ALL BY OURSELVES. THE PERSON THAT WE ARE PURSUING DOESN'T GIVE US MUCH REASON FOR US TO FALL. YET WE SEEM TO CREATE SOME SORT OF RELATIONSHIP IN OUR HEAD. SOME GIRLS CALL, TEXT & FIND WAYS TO KEEP IN CONTACT WITH THIS PERSON. YET WE'RE ACTUALLY IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ALL BY OURSELVES. AND IN THE END WE END UP WITH A BROKEN HEART. IT HURTS WHEN SOMEONE YOU REALLY LIKE DOESN'T LIKE YOU BACK THE WAY YOU LIKE THEM. BUT WE MUST KEEP OUR FEELING IN CHECK. OF COURSE SOMETIMES WE CAN'T HELP WHO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH. BUT MAKE SURE THERE IS 2 IN THE RELATIONSHIP. 2 THAT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS. IF IT'S JUST YOU. GET YOUR HEAD & HEART TOGETHER. MAKE IT A RULE TO ONLY INVEST TIME ROMANTICALLY WITH THOSE WHO ARE INVESTING THE TIME THAT YOU ARE. THAT IS A RELATIONSHIP. ANYTHING OTHER IS A SINGLE PERSON WASTING TIME IN WHAT IS NOT. YOU NEED NOT ASK EVERYONE. IN YOUR MIND YOU KNOW THE ANSWER. ONCE AGAIN I WILL SAY LET IT GO. #love #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationship #counseling #advice #happy #sad #hurt #couple #single #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships NEVER GO BACK TO AN OLD RELATIONSHIP UNLESS THE PROBLEMS THAT YOU HAD TO CAUSE YOU TO PART IS COMPLETELY RESOLVED. YEARS BEFORE I WOULD SAY NEVER GO BACK, BUT THE LACK OF COMPATIBILITY BETWEEN PEOPLE IS VERY LOW. IF YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING THIS OLD ROMANCE ANOTHER CHANCE DO IT ONLY WHEN YOUR MIND & HEART HAVE NOT DOUBT. YOU WOULDN'T PUT ON OLD DIRTY SNEAKERS OR AN OLD RIPPED COAT? YOU'D FEEL YUCKY & PROBABLY COULDN'T WAIT TO TAKE IT OFF. YOU CAN'T TEACH AN OLD DOG NEW TRICKS, THE SAYING GOES. AND PEOPLE ARE JUST AS HARD OR HARDER DO THINK TWICE. YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE YOUR HEART BROKEN BY THE SAME PERSON TWICE, WOULD YOU? 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships THERE IS ALWAYS THAT ONE PERSON OR DEPENDING ON YOUR PERSONALITY IT COULD BE SEVERAL THAT JUST TAKES TAKES TAKES. IT ALMOST BECOMES SECOND NATURE FOR THEM THEY DO IT WITHOUT MUCH THOUGHT OR CARE. BUT THIS IS A RELATIONSHIP PAGE MAINLY SO LET'S START WITH RELATIONSHIPS. WE CAN GET SO OBSESSED TRYING TO KEEP A PERSON, SOMETIMES SO AFRAID OF LOSING THEM THAT WE DO EVERYTHING & ANYTHING. IT CONSUMES YOU. YOUR THOUGHTS, WHAT YOU CAN DO TO KEEP THEM FROM LEAVING. TAKING SO MUCH SHIT FROM A PERSON THAT SHOWS SO LITTLE CARE FOR YOU. WHY DO YOU THINK THEY DO? BECAUSE THEY CAN, YOU'RE ALLOWING IT. OR BECAUSE THIS IS WHO THEY ARE. THIS IS THEIR PERSONALITY. YOU GIVE WAY TOO MUCH TO A PERSON THAT GIVES WAY TOO LITTLE. DON'T BE A DOOR MAT. YOU SIT ALONE QUIETLY CRYING WITH A BROKEN HEART. WHILE THE OTHER PERSON TRULY AT THIS POINT IS RECKLESS WITH YOUR MIND FEELINGS & EMOTIONS. LET IT GO & LET THEM GO. BEGIN TO HEAL. DON'T ALLOW THIS FROM ANYONE. REMEMBER YOUR WORTH, YOU ARE PRICELESS, NOW ACT LIKE SUCH. 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN MOST PEOPLE REALLY FALL IN LOVE WE DO & DO. WE WANT TO MAKE OUR PARTNER SO VERY HAPPY. WE WANT THEM TO FALL IN LOVE WITH US. MAKE SURE YOU ARE GETTING BACK IN RETURN THE LOVE YOU ARE SHOWING, THE THINGS YOU ARE GIVING. SOMETIMES WHEN WE LOVE ONE OF THE TWO ALWAYS SEEMS TO TAKE THE PARTNER FOR GRANTED. THIS IS WERE THE RELATIONSHIP GOES ALL WRONG & EVENTUALLY COMES TO AN END. THE PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP THAT FEELS JADED, ALONE, & UNLOVED TELLS THEIR PARTNER OVER & OVER BUT THEIR PARTNER DOESN'T LISTEN, DOESN'T CARE AT THIS POINT. BUT WHEN YOU LEAVE THEY ARE DEVASTATED. BEFORE THAT HAPPENS DO, LOVE, SHOW YOU CARE SO THE PERSON YOU LOVE THAT YOU'RE TAKING FOR GRANTED WON'T BAIL & LEAVE YOU. PERIOD. #loveyourself #life #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships I HAVEN'T PUT UP A PIC IN AWHILE. I AM GOING BACK TO MY OTHER PASSION, FITNESS. REMEMBER THE HOLIDAY SEASON STARTS WITH HALLOWEEN TO THANKSGIVING, CHRISTMAS & NEW YEAR. THAT'S A LOT OF PARTIES, FESTIVITIES & EATING. WE SAY "JUST ONE, WHICH BECOME ONE MORE". WE GET SO RELAXED THAT IT BECOMES OUR NEW YEARS RESOLUTION THAT WE SELDOM ARE EVER ABLE TO PULL OFF. I AM GOING TO POST FUN FITNESS VIDEOS TO BOOGIE THOSE POUNDS OFF. EASY & FUN. IN BETWEEN. TASTE ONE, THEN JUST SAY NO. REMEMBER EXERCISE IS GOOD FOR THE MIND BODY & SOUL. #loveyourself #life #exercise #fitness #yoga #food #holidays #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships 1mon

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barbarajeannerelationships ALMOST EVERY RELATIONSHIP STARTS OFF ON A HIGH. SO HAPPY TO BE WITH THIS PERSON. CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER. BUT ONE DAY OUT OF THE BLUE. THE TEXTS COME LESS, CALLS ALMOST NEVER. SEEING YOU IS NOT THE TOP PRIORITY ANY LONGER. THIS HAPPENS IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS. THESE TYPES OF RELATIONSHIP WILL CAUSE YOU NOTHING BUT HEARTACHE. WHY THE CHANGE? EITHER THE PERSON WASN'T READY FOR SUCH A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. YOU AREN'T THE ONE. OR IT COULD ALSO BE THEY JUST TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP & YOU FOR GRANTED. WOMEN FALL HARD. MEN GET THESE WOMEN & IF THEY AREN'T READY THEY WILL NOT TREAT YOU AS YOU SHOULD BE TREATED IN A RELATIONSHIP. GUYS THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER SO THEY PULL BACK. OR MAYBE THEY ARE JUST NOT FEELING IT. BUT YOU'RE FEELING LACK OF LOVE & CARE. THE GUY IS NOT GIVING THEIR EVERYTHING BUT THE GIRL IS. IF THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH YOU ARE SETTLING. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ON TOP OF EACH OTHER BY NO MEANS. BUT YOU DO HAVE TO FEEL CONFIDENT THAT YOU BOTH ARE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER & THEY LOVE YOU WITH NO DOUBT. GOING AROUND DAY TO DAY TRYING TO FIGURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP OUT IT'S NOT RIGHT OR HEALTHY. MAYBE IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO GET OUT. DON'T FIGHT TO BE LOVED, TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU. OR GIVE YOU ATTENTION OR AFFECTION THEY KNOW THEY SHOULD BE DOING ALL OF THE ABOVE. WHY DO I SAY THAT? BECAUSE THEY DID ALL THE ABOVE TO GET YOU. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #relationship 1mon

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