ashleyspivey What a lil ski bunny 22h
  •   jackeekay @emmake11y @danamccormack all I see is Eric 21h
  •   bryanna_tiu Can I ask how/if things are different when you travel? Going with my nanny fam on vacation for the first time in March.. Not sure about dynamics/pay 17h

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ashleyspivey Decided to spend Saturday night in with these cuties 3d

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ashleyspivey It's not my typical blog recap but check out the #bachchat I did with @usweekly this morning. We tackle life's important questions like - "Does Olivia's breath really stink?" 1w

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ashleyspivey Happy 54th birthday Dad! Miss your smiling face and inappropriate humor every day 1w

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ashleyspivey Berly's 1st true love (photo cred: @alexaspivey) 2w

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ashleyspivey Can't believe this happened 4 years ago!!! Miss my #bachelor15 ladies 2w
  •   malorie87 Best season e! I loved watching you ladies! :) 2w
  •   marissajustmay Ah! Love this and love you all! So crazy to think it was 4 years ago!!! At least we have multiple reunions this year 🏽🏼 2w
  •   j.t.crane @ashleyspivey so I've been watching your snapchats. Are those your real lashes or do you just make them that long with the mascara you are using???? I saw you use the benefit roller lash and nars 1w
  •   ashleyspivey @j.t.crane these are my real lashes! I curl them, use roller lash, and then use the nars 1w
  •   j.t.crane @ashleyspivey they are beautiful! Going to try your routine! Thanks! Any certain curler you use? 1w
  •   ashleyspivey Just one from Sephora @j.t.crane 1w
  •   j.t.crane @ashleyspivey thanks 1w

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ashleyspivey My dance moves are improving...🏼🏼🏼 2w

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ashleyspivey Only us crazy people would have a Sprinkle in the middle of a snowstorm ️ Awesome day with you ladies 2w

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ashleyspivey For the love of God, does anyone know of any good booties that a Boston terrier will wear?!? 🙄 3w

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ashleyspivey I just read this entire book on the flight back from LA. Read it ASAP. 🏻🏻🏻 3w
  •   haiwhitt Omg this is the best book I've ever read 3w
  •   smellyburkenstocks @callie_maynard never heard of it but it looks like the people liked it. 3w
  •   jmm051 Check out November 9. Just finished it-it was really good! 3w
  •   gretchcannon Are you on GoodReads? 3w
  •   a.momma.rae @ashleyspivey , I am reading this book now. Did you by any chance check out www.germmagazine.com when you were reading the book? Pretty neat. I love your book recommendations! Thank you! 3w
  •   hfaggard @ashleyspivey great recommendation, I can't put it down! Thank you 3d
  •   di412 You should have told me @ashleyspivey to have my tissue box near me while reading!! Can't believe you read this on a plane. Thanks for the book recommendation! 2d

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ashleyspivey On Sundays we wear gray. #roseallday 3w

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ashleyspivey See these rose tattoos? @lisamorrisey and I got these tattoos during #bachelor15 and we've been besties ever since. Happy 30th beauty! 4w

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ashleyspivey Lil less than 4 months till I marry this dude. #engagementphotoouttakes 4w

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ashleyspivey Finally tried the chicken shack it was everything I hoped it would be 4w

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ashleyspivey Recently signed up for @thebaristudio's #failproof2016 program to help get wedding ready. This morning @melgallo54 and I compared my #barirx measurements to when I first started training with Bari 2 years ago and I thought these two stats were interesting!

While I've maintained my weight (which is healthy to all you skinny shamers out there), I've had a pretty significant decrease in body fat percentage! I still want to tone up my legs and build my butt a little but I'm pretty happy with where my body is at now.

On a serious note, I overheard someone in a fitness class the other day call me anorexic. I can't tell you how much that hurt my feelings and self-confidence. All throughout junior high and high school, people called me anorexic, despite the fact that I never worked out or watched what I ate. It definitely had a pretty negative effect on my confidence back then. I'm just a tiny freaking person ok? I mean I wear a size 4/5 shoe and I'm barely 5'2.

As I've gotten older, I've tried to not let skinny shaming bother me as much but it breaks my heart to see it happening so much on social media. On a side note, a guy has never once called me anorexic and I notice that it's usually women that say these sort of things. Why is this?
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  •   shopthetruck For what's it's worth, and not that my opinion matters to begin with, but I actually view you as a total HEALTHY workout inspiration. #yougogirl 4w
  •   jaliciaschmidt @ashleyspivey I never comment on social media, but I have to tell you that you're beautiful. Women can be so hateful and it's always about THEM, not the person they are attacking. It comes from a place of insecurity. 4w
  •   jaimiekemkes @ashleyspivey Ok, super creepy but whenever I need motivation to get my butt to the gym, I always come to Instagram and look at your workout pictures! You are PERFECTION and so inspiring. People are mean and jealous. 4w
  •   melindajayne123 Late to comment, but I complete agree with everyone who has stated jealously/insecurity as a reason for hater comments.. American women, especially, have constant exposure from Hollywood and the modeling industry to look a certain way, be a certain size…. Magazines, billboards, etc. Men in general aren’t given this same pressure… WAY too much importance is placed on the outside appearance.. And, one can be stunningly beautiful with a perfect body and be completely UGLY inside… What is really most important?.. Am I saying we shouldn’t be healthy and take care of our bodies? Of course not..I think we as women in general need to realize that the standards that we are buying into are VASTLY unrealistic.. Let’s take our focus off from Hollywood, etc., so zero, size 2 mindset and just be the best that we can be, how about it? Let me say this.. I am 100 pounds overweight.. I haven’t been this way my whole life, I grew up as a normal, healthy weight for my height, etc. and was very active.. I gained the weight gradually over time (Because I ATE TOO MUCH and didn’t exercise ;-) Am I jealous of others that are trim and slim and have killer bodies?? No… because why? I can have all that again too.. If I decide to pay the price and work at it!…And so can you! I know that I am a valuable, good person.. REGARDLESS of my outer appearance.. Regardless of what kind of jacked up comment some immature person makes.. Does it sting? Yeah it sure can.. But..shake it off… you have to work at that too by the way. My and your worth and value doesn’t stem from weight or appearance.. My identity comes from God.. Whether you believe in God or not, I don’t know, but HE believes in YOU. Ashley, I see that you have worked hard to take care of yourself, and, you INSPIRE me to do likewise.. God bless you! 4w
  •   korpie77 Awww. You are a doll. You are going to b an amazing wife. Focus on that and all of us who look up to you. Laugh with you. Love B with you. Are excited to see you becoming a wife. Even though we've never met... I can imagine it would hurt your feelings. You are so much better than what they say to you. Don't let anxiety about their jealousy creep in. Flip them off in your pocket. :). When I had my baby men always would hold the door open for me when I was struggling to carry a car seat and gear. I can't tell you how many times women just looked past me. Boo. 4w
  •   tiffanypeil @ashleyspivey Those people are 1) jealous 2) ignorant and 3) cruel. They have no idea what anorexia is or what it "looks like." If they had any knowledge of it, they wouldn't be making comments like that. You and your body are amazing. Like seriously so. 4w
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ashleyspivey Was so excited for these two that I bought hardbacks - I've heard GREAT things about both! Also, just finished The Heart Goes Last and it was just ok. 😐 What are y'all reading? 4w
  •   chloefast That doesn't surprise me - almost every book on your lists are ones that I've either read / am reading / have downloaded to read / and on my "to download" list!! Great minds 🏼 4w
  •   jmasttt @diane_dee_ ideas!! 4w
  •   candiceashleec @ashleyspivey brain on fire is going to be made into a movie soon. Main character played by Chloe Moretz. Read it before it comes out !! It's crazy how your mind can turn on you-- little snippet into what the book is about 4w
  •   toshakelso I'm reading Retire your husband. Guide to Network Marketing! Omg amazing! 4w
  •   diane_dee_ Both sound so inspiring !!!! Love it !!🤓 @jmasttt 4w
  •   chevalierdesign I'm reading Pretty Baby by Mari Kubica. It took a bit to get into it but now in starting to like it. 4w
  •   nicjesse Loved Me Before You and The Rosie Project. Have you ever read any of Melanie Shankles books? Soooo good! Light reads. I also highly recommend Heaven is Here. 3w
  •   di412 I just finished November 9 and LOVED it! 1w

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ashleyspivey BAE 1mon

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ashleyspivey Such a weirdo and I love him 1mon
  •   afhood What a sweet lil cutie!!!️ I miss him!!! 1mon
  •   megalgazzali @ashleyspivey I'm thinking you might have gotten hacked based on your last two photos. 1mon

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ashleyspivey I've gotten a million questions about these glasses so here y'all go! They are @cocoandbreezy x Dawn Richards in mirror and not black 😎 1mon

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ashleyspivey That drunk, jealous, crazy girl that we all know. #thebachelor #lace #youdidntlookatme 1mon

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